Current Events > actually formulating long-term plans for cohabitation and relocation

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Dungeater
09/18/23 9:47:36 AM
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I've spent this year really trying to get my life together, and as it begins to take form before me I'm getting this strange contentedness melded with anxiety, but not like an overbearing anxiety

it's looking like I'll be moving to LA next year, for a couple years. then canada

scary. cool.

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Bishop_Hastur
09/18/23 10:02:57 AM
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Dungeater posted...
it's looking like I'll be moving to LA next year, for a couple years.
As a guy who's lived here for almost 20 years now, I'm sorry.

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_____Cait
09/18/23 10:11:37 AM
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Do you mean roommates?

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LoveLikeJazz
09/18/23 10:14:16 AM
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_____Cait posted...
Do you mean roommates?
You ever get the feeling some people intentionally use bigger words than they need to?

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Questionmarktarius
09/18/23 10:22:40 AM
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_____Cait posted...
Do you mean roommates?
cohabitation implies a bit of fornication going on.
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Dungeater
09/18/23 10:23:00 AM
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Bishop_Hastur posted...
As a guy who's lived here for almost 20 years now, I'm sorry.
im not stoked about LA but im stoked about the circumstances of why I'll be there

a couple years ago i joined a discord for a demographic i was really lacking friends in. last year, this guy joins. didnt like him at first. too nice. too affable. but so genuine - that earnestness won me over so hard. we got to chatting whenever we saw the other in server. started streaming and doing voice chats and camming. developed mutual crushes. in january he confessed as much to me, i told him i appreciated his candidness and felt the same. cue further bonding.

a few months in we both acknowledged what little faith and expectations we had in online/LDRs, but whatever we were definitely turned out to resemble it. we made plans to meet in june. would have been earlier, but he moved countries in april and had a bit of a shakey time settling in.

june came, he flew out here, we clicked so well. so many anxieties and concerns dispelled. it was an amazing week. then i flew out in august. another amazing time. i love his friends and circles. i love the kind of stuff he gets up to. love his zest for life, so refreshing from how ive always been

I'm flying out again in october, for a week and a half this time. cant wait. early next year he will be moving to california for work - I'll be flying up to canada to help him pack and we'll road trip his move down there. and when he's settled, he's flying out here to help me pack and we're gonna road trip across the Lincoln Highway to california

it's funny (and trite). i always had so little respect for the same kinds of circumstances that led to all this. had no respect for online or LDR relationships and their sincerity. had no interest in positive people. figured i was completely done with the romance game

now i am in what is easily the best, most communicative and caring relationship of my life. being motivated to better myself and be there for someone else. my gosh

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LoveLikeJazz
09/18/23 10:25:36 AM
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Questionmarktarius posted...
cohabitation implies a bit of fornication going on.
Imminent fornication confirmed.

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Returning_CEmen
09/18/23 10:27:13 AM
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Happy for you

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Questionmarktarius
09/18/23 10:28:18 AM
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LoveLikeJazz posted...
Imminent fornication confirmed.
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LoveLikeJazz
09/18/23 10:30:01 AM
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Congrats on the sex TC

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El_Marsh
09/18/23 10:30:44 AM
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Best of luck to you, TC

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Dungeater
09/18/23 10:35:32 AM
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thank you guys. it's something im trying really hard not to take for granted

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Dungeater
09/18/23 11:55:06 AM
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i dont know what to do with this happi

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Dungeater
09/18/23 2:10:12 PM
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one more monday bump cuz why not. we keep the time apart p fun by planning "date" nights (no diff than other video calls, cept we get particularly dolled up hah)

also we do flexibility exercises MWF

it feels weird, progress feels weird. i kno its blogfaqs but i just like to share

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Gremlynn
09/18/23 2:15:08 PM
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Dungeater posted...
I've spent this year really trying to get my life together, and as it begins to take form before me I'm getting this strange contentedness melded with anxiety, but not like an overbearing anxiety

between topic title and this sentence i started to wonder if maybe i had an alt i didn't know about and posted on it without remembering. fuck.

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Gremlynn
09/18/23 2:16:55 PM
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Questionmarktarius posted...
cohabitation implies a bit of fornication going on.

not necessarily.

It's also used in the circumstance of a separated couple still choosing to live together.

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Dungeater
09/18/23 2:18:14 PM
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Gremlynn posted...
between topic title and this sentence i started to wonder if maybe i had an alt i didn't know about and posted on it without remembering. fuck.
haha, congrats on the progress :)

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Gremlynn
09/18/23 2:21:27 PM
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Dungeater posted...
haha, congrats on the progress :)

after reading more of your posts i did see we have very different uses of the term cohabitate so i heavily misread your situation.

Happy for you though, it's nice seeing somebody around here feeling genuine joy and excitement about something positive in their life.

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Dungeater
09/18/23 2:37:06 PM
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well thank you, all the best to you too!

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Dungeater
09/18/23 3:36:17 PM
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like seriously look what this kid made me for my birthday

https://i.imgur.com/FUY6N1r.jpg

immediately framed it for my desk at work

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Dungeater
09/18/23 10:01:35 PM
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nyes

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Returning_CEmen
09/19/23 3:00:31 AM
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Dungeater posted...
like seriously look what this kid made me for my birthday

https://i.imgur.com/FUY6N1r.jpg

immediately framed it for my desk at work
That is so good!

why is your username Dungeater?

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Dungeater
09/19/23 9:35:50 AM
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Returning_CEmen posted...
That is so good!

why is your username Dungeater?
made the account based on the first vg character i could think of

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