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Tonyjaa
09/13/23 2:31:38 PM
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So there's a female friend/coworker who I give a ride to and from work everyday. She only lives maybe 5 min away so it's not out of my way. She is,struggling right now with her kids living with her and alot of bills, along with a not so great past so I don't charge her gas. Thing is, when I go to her house half of the time she's not even ready, taking sometimes 5-10 min to come out, making me late. I try to come early but she's still sometimes not ready. I talked to her once but that didn't seem to help. What should I do?
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archizzy
09/13/23 2:35:05 PM
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Talk to her a couple more times. After repeatedly talking to her just tell her you will be unable to give her a ride since she makes you late. Simple.

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Noname12
09/13/23 2:37:49 PM
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Tonyjaa posted...
So there's a female friend/coworker who I give a ride to and from work everyday. She only lives maybe 5 min away so it's not out of my way. She is,struggling right now with her kids living with her and alot of bills, along with a not so great past so I don't charge her gas. Thing is, when I go to her house half of the time she's not even ready, taking sometimes 5-10 min to come out, making me late. I try to come early but she's still sometimes not ready. I talked to her once but that didn't seem to help. What should I do?

the only response youll get here is to get lost to be honest. Theyll just say the capitalist corp deserves it, even if it fucks you over


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Tonyjaa
09/13/23 2:42:26 PM
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archizzy posted...
Talk to her a couple more times. After repeatedly talking to her just tell her you will be unable to give her a ride since she makes you late. Simple.

She doesn't have any one else to take her
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Tonyjaa
09/13/23 2:42:41 PM
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Noname12 posted...
the only response youll get here is to get lost to be honest. Theyll just say the capitalist corp deserves it, even if it fucks you over

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bluezero
09/13/23 2:47:05 PM
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Tonyjaa posted...
She doesn't have any one else to take her
She also isn't your responsibility

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Tonyjaa
09/13/23 2:49:32 PM
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Good point. Makes sense.

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Tonyjaa
09/13/23 2:49:48 PM
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bluezero posted...
She also isn't your responsibility

That's true.
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voldothegr8
09/13/23 2:51:15 PM
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Tonyjaa posted...
She doesn't have any one else to take her
Not your problem. Either keep being late yourself or draw the line in the sand.

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archizzy
09/13/23 5:07:33 PM
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Tonyjaa posted...
She doesn't have any one else to take her

Then it should be easy for her to be on time when you tell her you won't be her ride if she makes you late. As I said before, simple. Not your problem.

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ClayGuida
09/13/23 5:18:19 PM
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Kids are the fucking worst.

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UnsteadyOwl
09/13/23 5:19:08 PM
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If you're giving her a free ride to and from work it's not much to ask in return that she be ready to go on time.

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CoyoteTheGreat
09/13/23 5:19:26 PM
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Tonyjaa posted...
She doesn't have any one else to take her

Then I guess you are stuck taking her for the rest of your life. Sorry.

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SweetNut_Farm
09/13/23 5:21:00 PM
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Tonyjaa posted...
She doesn't have any one else to take her
Then she should appreciate your being willing to pick her up, and be ready.

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Euripides
09/13/23 5:21:54 PM
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I have an hour long commute to campus and I was always in the building earlier than the guy who lived 4 minutes away

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