Current Events > Worst insult you have been on the receiving end?

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Mine involves my face looking like a *r word* try to guess which one it's not the mental slur, hint it's something much worse.....I may be making this topic to cope lol

Is it the sexual assault word?

The first girl I fell in love with told me that I was a black hole that sucked the joy out of everything around me.

My son told me I was the biggest shitty dad and that he hoped I had a horrible Fathers Day yesterday, because I put him in time out for pulling his sisters hair.

One of my first days in high school, a senior called me the ugliest motherfucker on the entire planet.

nocturnal_traveler posted...

Is it the sexual assault word?

Am I allowed to say?

Uhh..I guess when some old asshole called me the f word just cause I like to get my nails painted. That didn't really bother me though and I can't think of anything else.

Rotterdammerung posted...

My son told me I was the biggest shitty dad and that he hoped I had a horrible Fathers Day yesterday, because I put him in time out for pulling his sisters hair.

Ok thats pretty bad cos you are close to the person mine was just some random ass I knew in school

super_felicia posted...

Am I allowed to say?

Good question. Let me try...did they say face looked like a rapist?

Edit: Guess you can. But I avoided personal words like "you" or "your" just in case that's what triggers the mods.

"You're not as bad as everyone says"

Lukey_Bug posted...

Uhh..I guess when some old asshole called me the f word just cause I like to get my nails painted. That didn't really bother me though and I can't think of anything else.

I used to dress quite androgynous when I was younger.

Had a group of guys drive past slowly screaming that word once, when I was on the way to a gig.

I learned if you yell No thank you! back in situations like that, its a good idea to be prepared to run like the wind. Worth it, even if I hate cardio.

nocturnal_traveler posted...

Good question. Let me try...did they say face looked like a rapist?

Edit: Guess you can. But I avoided personal words like "you" or "your" just in case that's what triggers the mods.

Well yes but i don't understand though the face I was making was like an annoyed glare and they just made it messed up

you aren't a clown, you're the whole circus

nocturnal_traveler posted...

Good question. Let me try...did they say face looked like a rapist?

Edit: Guess you can. But I avoided personal words like "you" or "your" just in case that's what triggers the mods.

Yeah Id be careful around that. I recently got back-to-back 180 day purgs for calling out some guy who admitted to doing that to a woman. I wont go into details because apparently admitting you ***** someone is completely acceptable but calling that out is not. Fucking GameFAQS

Ive been told I have the charisma of a turtle

Nothing. Part of it may just be that I don't feel bothered by direct insults. Sometimes what they say is true. And if it isn't, then there's no need to be upset.

I posted a teensy pic in selfie topic if you are curious what I look like I'm not reposting cos trolls will be too lazy to search for it and do a low effort bait post maybe...

BloodMoon7 posted...

Nothing. Part of it may just be that I don't feel bothered by direct insults. Sometimes what they say is true. And if it isn't, then there's no need to be upset.

The sad part of it was that nobody called them out and I felt betrayed by people for not saying anything to him so maybe it is true to those people that were there

To my face? I was called a freak.

Otherwise? Tranny, Pedophile, "It". I'm sure some people had more creative language but those all stung the most. Interestingly, I was called a pedophile before I came out as trans. Gooood times.

LSGW_Zephyra posted...

To my face? I was called a freak.

Otherwise? , Pedophile, "It". I'm sure some people had more creative language but those all stung the most. Interestingly, I was called a pedophile before I came out as trans. Gooood times.

Well actually my insult was online but it's my public Facebook and nobody said anything to him besides one person saying "lol thats tight" then they changed the subject in my profile about their nickname and it ended with them saying lol let's fight (cos of that nickname). I'm just like wow. the radio silence that my friends said nothing about it kinda stung. I don't hold it against them they're nice people who are a bit shy but they never mentioned that insult even in private messages or asked how I felt being called that and I died a little cos it just felt ignorant a tiny bit.( I delete the insult word you had cos I got a warning for it before I posted

super_felicia posted...

Well actually my insult was online but it's my public Facebook and nobody said anything to him besides one person saying "lol thats tight" then they changed the subject in my profile about their nickname and it ended with them saying lol let's fight (cos of that nickname). I'm just like wow. the radio silence that my friends said nothing about it kinda stung. I don't hold it against them they're nice people who are a bit shy but they never mentioned that insult even in private messages or asked how I felt being called that and I died a little cos it just felt ignorant a tiny bit.( I delete the insult word you had cos I got a warning for it before I posted

Oof that still sucks. My friends go aggro on people who are cruel to me. Usually letting me proverbially slip out the back safely.

But I belong to communities that they don't frequent in sometimes. People are cruel and ignorant.

LSGW_Zephyra posted...

Oof that still sucks. My friends go aggro on people who are cruel to me. Usually letting me proverbially slip out the back safely.

But I belong to communities that they don't frequent in sometimes. People are cruel and ignorant.

Part of me hopes they think bringing it up will upset me so they don't but I'm not too sure. we still had good times as friends though before and after.
Oh and jeez being called that p word I don't think I would forgive them and maybe id actually slap them or something. I forgot to say that person who said it acted concerned for my well being years later I brain farted and forgot who called me that and it was him and I thanked him for checking up on me. Jee I could strangle my past self for that.

None. Was taught words never hurt me and it always stuck.

In 8th grade this girl stood up in the middle of class and told everyone including the teacher that I was dirty and smelly and needed to go home and wash up. I didn't think it was true but whatever. Funny enough come 9th grade the girl and I were pretty good friends.

gatorsPENSbucs posted...

None. Was taught words never hurt me and it always stuck.

I hate that saying as someone who knew someone who got suicidal for insults and self harmed cos of it like yeah words don't kill you but they can still lead you to hurting yourself physically and it's not true anyway cos emotional damage is a thing

super_felicia posted...

Part of me hopes they think bringing it up will upset me so they don't but I'm not too sure. we still had good times as friends though before and after.

That's good

Oh and jeez being called that p word I don't think I would forgive them and maybe id actually slap them or something.

Yeah, I'm a Little. People make a lot of jackassy assumptions about me and my wife based on that knowledge. Being called a pedophile because I'm trans felt far more dangerous, like the feeling that I was about to be attacked. There was venom and intent as opposed to the ignorance in which people casually talk about how I must be irl because of my kinks.

I forgot to say that person who said it acted concerned for my well being years later I brain farted and forgot who called me that and it was him and I thanked him for checking up on me. Jee I could strangle my past self for that.

Eeeee! That sucks. Hope they weren't gaslighting you.

super_felicia posted...

The sad part of it was that nobody called them out and I felt betrayed by people for not saying anything to him so maybe it is true to those people that were there

Nah. Most people just don't like getting involved. If they avoided you after, then yeah maybe they don't think highly of you. But only you can know your truth. Know who you are and what people say doesn't change that. There are times when you have to look at yourself objectively but someone insulting you isn't worthy of that introspection.

super_felicia posted...

Well yes but i don't understand though the face I was making was like an annoyed glare and they just made it messed up

I've heard of resting bitch face, and pedo face, but that's a new one to me.

LSGW_Zephyra posted...

That's good

Yeah, I'm a Little. People make a lot of jackassy assumptions about me and my wife based on that knowledge. Being called a pedophile because I'm trans felt far more dangerous, like the feeling that I was about to be attacked. There was venom and intent as opposed to the ignorance in which people casually talk about how I must be irl because of my kinks.

Eeeee! That sucks. Hope they weren't gaslighting you.

Actually ok I think they grew as a person cos he's been like hyper positive about his posts since way after he called me that insult I honestly have no idea why he said it cos it seemed out of left field for him he likes offensive jokes like he quotes south park and I think he told me had ADHD but even still that was just cruel. I actually believe right this second as I'm posting he was trying to be nice that day saying where I've been are u ok was him amending for it but I just said I was doing good and left it at that without realising he said it and now I'm a little less bitter and I retract my comment saying about kicking myself about not saying anything bad cos he probably means well now

BloodMoon7 posted...

Nah. Most people just don't like getting involved. If they avoided you after, then yeah maybe they don't think highly of you. But only you can know your truth. Know who you are and what people say doesn't change that. There are times when you have to look at yourself objectively but someone insulting you isn't worthy of that introspection.

Oh they didn't we still remained friends I just kinda wanted someone to say something cos it literally triggered me really bad

Rotterdammerung posted...

My son told me I was the biggest shitty dad and that he hoped I had a horrible Fathers Day yesterday, because I put him in time out for pulling his sisters hair.

nah *tries to hide stressed eyes* my son says this kind of literature almost on a daily basis
tho he is only ten and had kind of a rough life already
almost like hes destined to live my stressed child life (except I broke my back as a kid and I always tell my kids not to climb when they play out)

Other then that I been called all kinds of rotten things but you know what (laughs) I dont even bother trying to remember or think about it

nobodies perfect so they can try fool

OriginalPlain2 posted...

nah *tries to hide stressed eyes* my son says this kind of literature almost on a daily basis
tho he is only ten and had kind of a rough life already
almost like hes destined to live my stressed child life (except I broke my back as a kid and I always tell my kids not to climb when they play out)

Other then that I been called all kinds of rotten things but you know what (laughs) I dont even bother trying to remember or think about it

nobodies perfect so they can try fool

Oh yeah, I dont stress about it. When he calmed down he was all sweetness and hugs.