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NoxObscuras
08/30/23 11:44:11 AM
#50:


RchHomieQuanChi posted...
Things probably took a turn for the worst once we moved in together. But even then we were doing fine until 2020 hit
Oof. Yeah 2020 ended a lot of relationships

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SrRd_RacinG
08/30/23 11:44:14 AM
#51:


Codependency is tough to break. Many people cannot survive on their own.

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Valjackal
08/30/23 11:44:35 AM
#52:


Don't even reply with "okay."

Hit her with the "k". Maximum damage.

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Avirosb
08/30/23 11:44:36 AM
#53:


RchHomieQuanChi posted...
Because I'm just emotionally spent. She's still bombarding me with text messages as we speak and I want to make it clear I don't have anything to give her.

Stop replying?


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RchHomieQuanChi
08/30/23 11:45:45 AM
#54:


Avirosb posted...
Stop replying?

I have.

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Dreepapult
08/30/23 11:47:05 AM
#55:


So she's been nuts since 2020 and you've just stayed this whole time. Why?

It doesn't sound like there are kids involved. Just a dog. That is not that complicated.

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MarbyIsBack
08/30/23 11:48:53 AM
#56:


MedeaLysistrata posted...
fuck her. also why do you reply like an AI? lol
Shut the fuck up, Medea. You are the absolute last person on CE who should be mocking someone for talking like an AI. TC's posts are actually comprehensible, unlike most of yours.

Anyway, TC, I dunno what kind of phone you've got, as I don't recognize whatever that messaging app is, but it may be worth it to Google "How to block text messages on [whatever type of phone you've got]", or something similar. There's GOTTA be a way. I know on my current phone (Galaxy S22+, I believe) it's really out of the way, but there IS a way to activate it. They probably hide it in the deep recesses of your contact settings so that you don't accidentally do it.

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RchHomieQuanChi
08/30/23 11:49:37 AM
#57:


Dreepapult posted...
So she's been nuts since 2020 and you've just stayed this whole time. Why?

It doesn't sound like there are kids involved. Just a dog. That is not that complicated.

Because she always managed to gaslight me into thinking I was doing something wrong.

But at this point I don't even care who's right or wrong anymore. I just want my peace.

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Avirosb
08/30/23 11:51:22 AM
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K, thanks for sharing. Peace.

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Vyrulisse
08/30/23 11:52:12 AM
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Just send her a picture of a projector.

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bsp77
08/30/23 11:53:45 AM
#60:


CE sucks sometimes. Yes, TC needs to get away from her, and yes, he maybe should have before, but he is clearly learning from his mistakes. Why ridicule him for not getting out sooner?

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Dreepapult
08/30/23 11:54:20 AM
#61:


RchHomieQuanChi posted...
Because she always managed to gaslight me into thinking I was doing something wrong.

But at this point I don't even care who's right or wrong anymore. I just want my peace.
Oh, yeah same shit I dealt with. She made me feel like I was the bad guy. I'm sure I wasn't entirely innocent. But it was mostly just that she was a shitty manipulative person.

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MedeaLysistrata
08/30/23 11:55:11 AM
#62:


MarbyIsBack posted...
Shut the fuck up, Medea. You are the absolute last person on CE who should be mocking someone for talking like an AI. TC's posts are actually comprehensible, unlike most of yours.
wah wah wah

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Arcanine2009
08/30/23 11:56:03 AM
#63:


When did you guys break up?
How long have you guys been living together since the break up?
Are you guys having sex still..

Run for the hills.

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RchHomieQuanChi
08/30/23 11:57:15 AM
#64:


Dreepapult posted...
Oh, yeah same shit I dealt with. She made me feel like I was the bad guy. I'm sure I wasn't entirely innocent. But it was mostly just that she was a shitty manipulative person.

I've made so many mistakes myself. But I genuinely tried to work with her and love her the best way I knew how to.

She's not completely awful but she has so much emotional trauma from her past that she lets get in the way of our relationship and ultimately, I don't have to wait around until she fixes it.

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DuuuDe14
08/30/23 11:57:20 AM
#65:


That brings me back honestly. Wasn't BPD, just narcissism.

I told myself no more after that.

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Dreepapult
08/30/23 11:58:53 AM
#66:


RchHomieQuanChi posted...
I've made so many mistakes myself. But I genuinely tried to work with her and love her the best way I knew how to.

She's not completely awful but she has so much emotional trauma from her past that she lets get in the way of our relationship and ultimately, I don't have to wait around until she fixes it.
Yup. Don't wait for things to get better. They almost certainly won't.

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RchHomieQuanChi
08/30/23 12:00:07 PM
#67:


DuuuDe14 posted...
That brings me back honestly. Wasn't BPD, just narcissism.

I told myself no more after that.

She's admitted before that her dad was a narcissist and she was worried about being like that.

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Avirosb
08/30/23 12:01:07 PM
#68:


Since we're sharing, when's the book coming out?

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Dreepapult
08/30/23 12:01:25 PM
#69:


I don't think my ex was ever seen. But she has to have fall somewhere in the NPD, BPD spectrum

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DuuuDe14
08/30/23 12:02:28 PM
#70:


RchHomieQuanChi posted...
She's admitted before that her dad was a narcissist and she was worried about being like that.

Does she know?

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Killmonger
08/30/23 12:02:45 PM
#71:


Why not just block and move on lol?

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Dreepapult
08/30/23 12:03:07 PM
#72:


Killmonger posted...
Why not just block and move on lol?
Read the topic. They still live together

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RchHomieQuanChi
08/30/23 12:07:18 PM
#73:


DuuuDe14 posted...
Does she know?

There's times where she genuinely admits to her mental health issues....but when she gets like this, it's just impossible to reason with her.

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TaylorHeinicke
08/30/23 12:08:00 PM
#74:


Arcanine2009 posted...
When did you guys break up?
How long have you guys been living together since the break up?
Are you guys having sex still..


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GameGodOfAll
08/30/23 12:08:40 PM
#75:


I really can't tell if she's trying to be a domme or is that big of a ****.

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Dreepapult
08/30/23 12:10:28 PM
#76:


RchHomieQuanChi posted...
There's times where she genuinely admits to her mental health issues....but when she gets like this, it's just impossible to reason with her.
Yeah. Megan was like that too. She even kinda hinted one time to me about some sort of abuse in her childhood that probably was a big contributing factor to her being nuts. But then when she was in bad shape everything was my fault. She was a perfect person etc etc.

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Dreepapult
08/30/23 12:11:21 PM
#77:


GameGodOfAll posted...
I really can't tell if she's trying to be a domme or is that big of a ****.
She's not mentally well man. If you can't see that you've been fortunate not to deal with a woman like this.

Or you're just shit posting. That is of course an option.

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Smashingpmkns
08/30/23 12:16:32 PM
#78:


RchHomieQuanChi posted...
She's admitted before that her dad was a narcissist and she was worried about being like that.
"You're just like your dad"
Crush her ass

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NoxObscuras
08/30/23 12:17:25 PM
#79:


Smashingpmkns posted...
"You're just like your dad"
Crush her ass
He still lives with her. Why would he open a can of worms like that?

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RchHomieQuanChi
08/30/23 12:22:51 PM
#81:


Arcanine2009 posted...
When did you guys break up?
How long have you guys been living together since the break up?
Are you guys having sex still..

Run for the hills.

We just broke up last night. I should have clarified "ex" is as of last night.

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Smashingpmkns
08/30/23 12:23:24 PM
#82:


NoxObscuras posted...
He still lives with her. Why would he open a can of worms like that?
Cuz it'd be funny

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__aCEr__
08/30/23 12:25:56 PM
#84:


RchHomieQuanChi posted...
We just broke up last night. I should have clarified "ex" is as of last night.

Oh that explains why the texts are especially manic.

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Avirosb
08/30/23 12:26:12 PM
#85:


It all seems very personal to share with total strangers.

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GameGodOfAll
08/30/23 12:26:22 PM
#86:


Dreepapult posted...
She's not mentally well man. If you can't see that you've been fortunate not to deal with a woman like this.

Or you're just shit posting. That is of course an option.
Little from column A, little from column B.

Honestly I can't imagine living with someone this over the top ridiculous. I'm very chill with most things, but can be real combative if someone is trying to pull some bullshit. Not acting like "Oh I'm a man and would never put up with someone giving me shit." I grew up in a very argumentative household and while it made me pretty good at arguing a point or cutting deep, I just never want to put up with that as a thing in a regular every day relationship. I would most likely scathingly tell them off or just end things right away knowing that'd be healthiest while also driving them crazy.

Glad TC isn't in a relationship with this asshole anymore, but hope he gets the hell away from her asap and completely cuts her out of his life. Hopefully she'll get what's coming to her in time with a strong reality check.

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AlCalavicci
08/30/23 12:41:42 PM
#87:


Next time she fires off several texts in a row, send her this:

https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/001/876/194/e8b.jpg

My best advice to you TC - do whatever you can to sever this relationship as soon as possible. Make sure she moves out, or break the lease if she refuses and you move out. Figure out the situation with the dog. This kind of drama could be considered abuse. You don't need to continue putting yourself through that.

I realize some of the above (like breaking a lease) may not always be the most realistic thing, but try to figure out your options to end this as soon as possible.

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TaylorHeinicke
08/30/23 12:41:47 PM
#88:


whose names are on the lease?

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bsp77
08/30/23 12:42:57 PM
#89:


RchHomieQuanChi posted...
We just broke up last night. I should have clarified "ex" is as of last night.
Oh God. Don't take her back, man

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MarbyIsBack
08/30/23 12:43:49 PM
#90:


RchHomieQuanChi posted...
We just broke up last night. I should have clarified "ex" is as of last night.

Arcanine2009 posted...
Run for the hills.


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Arcanine2009
08/30/23 2:23:56 PM
#92:


RchHomieQuanChi posted...
We just broke up last night. I should have clarified "ex" is as of last night.
I see.. explains her behavior a bit. Of course it doesn't excuse it. Was it mutual or was it you or who asked?

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DuuuDe14
08/30/23 2:33:04 PM
#93:


RchHomieQuanChi posted...
There's times where she genuinely admits to her mental health issues....but when she gets like this, it's just impossible to reason with her.

That's the thing, you don't. It's not your job to fix someone else. Worry about yourself.

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LincolnDuncan
08/30/23 2:34:30 PM
#94:


She seems upset and a tad unhinged but you aren't coming off looking that good

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Jupiter
08/30/23 2:39:58 PM
#95:


LincolnDuncan posted...
She seems upset and a tad unhinged but you aren't coming off looking that good
wtf

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Dreepapult
08/30/23 2:40:17 PM
#96:


Methinks he be trollin

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