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willythemailboy
06/25/23 6:20:50 PM
#101:


KitKats posted...
This is deeply disturbing.
It really annoys me when people seem to think shoving someone away is a better option than "hitting" them, so I prefer to highlight the obvious consequences of doing so.

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willythemailboy
06/25/23 6:22:14 PM
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R1masher posted...
<_<
Yeah, it's kind of funny when the self proclaimed self defense expert's advice is "just don't defend yourself at all."

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drclaeys
06/25/23 6:22:17 PM
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Friends,

I do not make a judgement until I know the WHOLE story. and I do not know the whole story.

one thing that my kids have taught me... every story has 2 sides.. many have THREE sides.

What if he said, I can kick your ass, She said I can clean your clock. HE said, I " would like to see you try" and she attacked. THEN is he to blame.?????

we need more context before we judge people. What if he ran over her Cat in the driveway, and laughed about it????

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willythemailboy
06/25/23 6:23:12 PM
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willythemailboy posted...
It really annoys me when people seem to think shoving someone away is a better option than "hitting" them, so I prefer to highlight the obvious consequences of doing so.


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KitKats
06/25/23 6:23:45 PM
#107:


willythemailboy posted...
Yeah, it's kind of funny when the self proclaimed self defense expert's advice is "just don't defend yourself at all."
Yes, because thats exactly what I said, Mr strawman.

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A_Good_Boy
06/25/23 6:24:54 PM
#109:


willythemailboy posted...
Yeah, it's kind of funny when the self proclaimed self defense expert's advice is "just don't defend yourself at all."
As a self-defense expert, in a case where a male victim's movement is blocked by a female assailant that's assaulting the victim so viciously it's drawing blood, it's this expert's opinion that the victim should curl up in a ball and beg for her to stop and it's his fault for not retreating good enough.

Now give him $200 for that self-defense consultation.

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willythemailboy
06/25/23 6:25:46 PM
#110:


KitKats posted...
Yes, because thats exactly what I said, Mr strawman.
Post #3 cannot be read to mean anything but that. Keep digging the hole deeper.

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I4NRulez
06/25/23 6:25:53 PM
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Yes? Fights only escalate a situation and any form of self-defense and martial arts will tell you to walk away from a situation.

The first form of self-defense is to walk/run away. Not start a fight. The answer to abuse isnt more abuse.

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KitKats
06/25/23 6:26:05 PM
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I dont even know how to respond at this point when youre just going to make up fictional stuff to reply to.

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willythemailboy
06/25/23 6:27:16 PM
#113:


A_Good_Boy posted...
As a self-defense expert, in a case where a male victim's movement is blocked by a female assailant that's assaulting the victim so viciously it's drawing blood, it's this expert's opinion that the victim should curl up in a ball and beg for her to stop and it's his fault for not retreating good enough.

Now give her $200 for that self-defense consultation.
Fixed that for you, and indicated why she's so against men defending themselves against women.

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ironman2009
06/25/23 6:27:54 PM
#114:


Uppercut her then walk away. Best of both worlds.

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Trumble
06/25/23 6:29:07 PM
#115:


A_Good_Boy posted...
Your posts, where you're immediately resorting to downplaying an instance of a dude being assaulted in a stairwell by a girl.
There's a reason I have her (alt) tagged as "budget gunplagirl".

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ZannoL
06/25/23 6:29:09 PM
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"Self-defense expert"

Okay....
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ReturnOfThaJedi
06/25/23 6:29:19 PM
#117:


ai123 posted...
So men should just punch women back until they learn not to abuse them?
Abso-fucking-lutely

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KitKats
06/25/23 6:31:38 PM
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If you put all of your straw mans together, this would be like a burning man festival.

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A_Good_Boy
06/25/23 6:32:33 PM
#122:


willythemailboy posted...
Fixed that for you, and indicated why she's so against men defending themselves against women.
Ok then that makes a bunch of sense. She just wants to beat on men without any worry that they'll strike her back when they defend themselves from her.

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willythemailboy
06/25/23 6:33:08 PM
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That perfectly describes the contradictory statements I called you out for.

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DragonClaw01
06/25/23 6:36:27 PM
#126:


KitKats posted...
Sounds good to me. I was only speaking from over a decade of experience as a self defense expert and instructor.
What does the self defense manual say about "pimp slapping dem hoes"?

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KitKats
06/25/23 6:38:50 PM
#127:


DragonClaw01 posted...
What does the self defense manual say about "pimp slapping dem hoes"?
You shouldnt study self defense from manuals and internet videos.

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MrDrMan
06/25/23 6:39:52 PM
#128:


Unfortunately as a man this is a situation you cant win unless everything happens to be on camera. If nobody was around to see and he defended himself he could very well end up in jail.

Only option is really to avoid these type of women at all cost. They will ruin your life. Dont expect them to take accountability for hitting first because it aint happening.

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LordMarshal
06/25/23 6:40:09 PM
#129:


CE just loves women hurting men. Its sick. I can and will always defend myself. Yall would love it if i didnt.

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ReturnOfThaJedi
06/25/23 6:40:43 PM
#130:


KitKats posted...
You shouldnt study self defense from manuals and internet videos.
Or random message board posters for that matter

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ironman2009
06/25/23 6:40:56 PM
#131:


Leg sweep then sharpshooter is the real situation solver tbh

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KitKats
06/25/23 6:41:38 PM
#132:


ReturnOfThaJedi posted...
Or random message board posters for that matter
Im not here to be your instructor, I was commenting on the topic.

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LordMarshal
06/25/23 6:41:49 PM
#133:


He can still call the cops.

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LordMarshal
06/25/23 6:43:13 PM
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I saw the poll results. Nvm. Good.

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I4NRulez
06/25/23 6:43:43 PM
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Pretty often, you think if someone is trying to fight you and you start leaving that they will follow you? If you can't walk then run and if that doesnt work then you fight.

Fighting is your absolute last resort. #1. It puts you at risk for more bodily injury. #2. There are way more unknowns if you choose to engage. Are they more trained? Are they stronger? Is there more than 1 person?

You guys always try to make it seem like if punches start swinging you're stuck.

https://nwfighting.com/the-best-self-defense/
https://jiujitsutimes.com/the-best-form-of-self-defense-is-to-walk-away/

https://themendproject.com/reactive-abuse/

THE DANGER OF REACTIVE ABUSE
Even though reactive abuse is the bodys way to protect the victim from the abusers violent behavior, it usually does not protect the victim as much as it helps the abuser.
THE ADVANTAGE TO THE ABUSER
Abusers rely on the victim to react aggressively at some point, giving the abuser the upper hand. They are often relentless in their efforts to push the victim to the breaking point, hoping they will react uncontrollably. When they do, the abuser then uses the victims reaction to shift the blame onto them and gain the advantage.
Abusers rely on the victims reactive outbursts to protect abusers image and shift blame to the victim.

Abusers are never justified and if you fight back it can and often only escalates things. WALK AWAY.

You should fight back only if you have to. It should be your last resort


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KitKats
06/25/23 6:44:42 PM
#140:


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Hadouken, obviously. =)

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ReturnOfThaJedi
06/25/23 6:45:43 PM
#141:


KitKats posted...
Im not here to be your instructor, I was commenting on the topic.
Thank God because clearly have no idea of when someone should defend themselves.

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KitKats
06/25/23 6:47:30 PM
#142:


ReturnOfThaJedi posted...
Thank God because clearly have no idea of when someone should defend themselves.
I see the straw men couldnt stay away for long lol

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ReturnOfThaJedi
06/25/23 6:48:31 PM
#144:


KitKats posted...
I see the straw men couldnt stay away for long lol
Keep using that term and youll get it right eventually

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Requiem
06/25/23 6:49:42 PM
#145:


So, does anyone know what happened to the attacker (considering the video evidence)?
Any arrests / expulsions / etc etc?

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ironman2009
06/25/23 6:50:34 PM
#146:


KitKats runs a Rex Kwon Do dojo on Twitch.

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KitKats
06/25/23 6:50:50 PM
#147:


I think you dont understand self defense when you consider avoidance to not be a form of self defense, and that self defense only begins when you counterattack.

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Glob
06/25/23 6:53:03 PM
#148:


KitKats posted...
Sounds good to me. I was only speaking from over a decade of experience as a self defense expert and instructor.

If you had a legitimate background in self defense then you would know that de-escalation is the key and retreat is just one means of doing that. While it can be a very effective one, this case doesnt look like a good one for it. Shes wailing on him. The second he turns his back hes just going to get all of that in the back of the head.

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NatsuSama
06/25/23 6:54:02 PM
#149:


He should have slapped her back or pinned her the fuck down.

But I'm sure the resident white knights support this woman's actions in their usual way. "It's okay when woman hit men. Men should either sit there and take the abuse or just walk away" as if woman all hit like wet noodles.

I didn't actually go through the topic, but it's usually something close to that.

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ReturnOfThaJedi
06/25/23 6:54:11 PM
#150:


KitKats posted...
I think you dont understand self defense when you consider avoidance to not be a form of self defense, and that self defense only begins when you counterattack.
See? This is an actual strawman.


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