Current Events > Imagine coming home to your wife/gf and giving her a big hug

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And she gives you a big hug back

And then she notices the erection......

:O

Imagine your wife giving you a vicious stone cold stunner as soon as you walk in the door

Imagine your wife sitting lifeless on the couch when you get home cause she's a doll.

I dont have to imagine thats every day when I come home from work

Pretty overrated tbh just want to be a goblin and play video games all evening long.

ThisIsAKnoife posted...

I dont have to imagine thats every day when I come home from work

Pretty overrated tbh just want to be a goblin and play video games all evening long.

damn u take her for granted

Damn_Underscore posted...

damn u take her for granted

That "Id be in the mood 100% of time" comes from inexperience. He also said "wanted to", which could imply he's thinking about his wife and overriding his own wants to satisfy hers. Don't judge the man so quickly

Lost_All_Senses posted...

That "Id be in the mood 100% of time" comes from inexperience. He also said "wanted to", which could imply he's thinking about his wife and overriding his own wants to satisfy hers. Don't judge the man so quickly

You don't have to be in the mood to love (show physical affection to) your wife tbh

Damn_Underscore posted...

You don't have to be in the mood to love your wife tbh

Lol. You're gonna be disappointed when you actually get into a relationship, if you think it's all 100% being on the same wave link as your wife. I feel like you took his post too literal. But him in a relationship, he knows it's not just a hug in-between him and doing what he feels like doing. And it's about overriding your own wants for your loved ones. It's unrealistic to have two people in the same mood every day

I think you are taking my posts too seriously and attacking me for no reason. And I edited my post BTW

Damn_Underscore posted...

I think you are taking my posts too seriously and attacking me for no reason. And I edited my post BTW

Im not attacking you. If my posts come off aggressive, it's not my intention. But in all fairness, you started this energy by saying dude didn't appreciate his wife just because he wanted to play a video game.

Im just trying to spread the importance of realistic standards when it comes to relationships. And this doesn't even have to be intimate relationships. The best way to be prepared is to know you might not always be in the mood when you gotta emotionally support someone. And hell, even if you initially aren't, you might find the mood halfway through the interaction.

So, it's important to not put so much judgement on if someone is in the mood for something or not. Because if anything, it makes them an even better partner if they can still do something for the other while not in the mood. That's probably the most important strength you can have in a relationship. Otherwise, everything you do for the other would still be selfish because you're only doing it cause you want to and get something out of it. You wouldn't be learning how to be selfless. Which is what you need for longevity

I h8 u so bad D_U.

I don't feel like getting into a big debate about this. I don't know anything about that guy's love life, I was just taking a jab at him. I do think physical affection is important though (but I didn't mean to imply physical affection is equivalent to love)

Damn_Underscore posted...

I don't feel like getting into a big debate about this. I don't know anything about that guy's love life, I was just taking a jab at him. I do think physical affection is important though (but I didn't mean to imply physical affection is equivalent to love)

That's cool. I don't feel like anyone is obligated to respond to anyone on here. If you're no longer entertained by the conversation, why even bother. Plus, making a mountain out of an anthill is kind of just what I do lol. It can be good if you feel like getting into deeper discussions, but it can also be annoying if you weren't trying to do that atm. I don't expect everyone to just be ready to jump down my rabbit holes lol.

I want this so bad

My cousin gives me a hug, and welcomes me back after I finish work, almost every night -- it really doesn't need to be a Wife/GF.

SilvosForever posted...

And then she notices the erection......

:O

I don't think a wife would be bothered by her husbands erection