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You'll notice I ask the same question every time

i think it's great that you're finally asking yourself questions
keep working at it and you might even find an answer some day

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I'm just the hot commod

GuerrillaSoldier posted...

i think it's great that you're finally asking yourself questions
keep working at it and you might even find an answer some day

Philosoraptor is back

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Other species have incels too

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that was college for me

MedeaLysistrata posted...

that was college for me

I had that experience as well, and I found it very confusing.

darkmaian23 posted...

I had that experience as well, and I found it very confusing.

Nah, I'm a mark

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There are species of animals that are monogamous...

psvitantifail posted...

There are species of animals that are monogamous...

I actually don't believe humans where meant to be. I feel rape is a primal instinct of ours and why it happens so much. Not justifying it cause that's what I feel puts humans above the rest of animals. The fact we have decided as a group some of our primal urges are wrong and shouldn't be done.

If it wasn't in our nature to just fucke whatever we can we wouldn't do it so much.

Dating is annoying but sex is great

I just find it sad that I know several people who cannot survive without a relationship. Longest they are single is a few weeks.

sonichu posted...

I just find it sad that I know several people who cannot survive without a relationship. Longest they are single is a few weeks.

Went to rehab with a guy like that. It was his third time and they concluded alcohol wasn't his problem women where. It was just his luck 99% of women he dated drank so he drank too so they had a activity they'd do together. Which led to addiction. Motherfucker said he went on 29 dates with 29 different women in one month and all of them drank on the date so he did too just to be sociable.

My beat friend is like that too but it's actually saved his ass before. He pulled a solid 8/10 girl while homeless and she helped him get back on his feet. Ended up meeting the mother of his child through her too. And having a kid gave him reason to stay on his feet. Before the kid he'd quit a job for the pettiest of reasons.

Crono99 posted...

Because humanity is weird

Other species just boink randomly

If humans were normal like other species, you'd just boink whoever is pumping gas next to you at the gas station, then go pay and boink the clerk, then go buy groceries and boink random people in the aisles then boink the cashier, then go home and boink your neighbors

I mean, sometimes And some humans do that But there are still animals that are monogamous or mate for life, as well So, we arent really weird in that regard

Sufferedphoneix posted...

I actually don't believe humans where meant to be. I feel rape is a primal instinct of ours and why it happens so much. Not justifying it cause that's what I feel puts humans above the rest of animals. The fact we have decided as a group some of our primal urges are wrong and shouldn't be done.

If it wasn't in our nature to just fucke whatever we can we wouldn't do it so much.

Im not sure I fully agree But only because even animals sometimes have certain rules they follow Not all, of course But we arent too weird in that regard. If anything, Id say it closer to being omnivores, but for relationships. Just like how we have some people who are vegan or vegetarian, while others are omnivores, the same could be said for relationships. Some people are monogamous, while others are polyamorous, or would fit better in an open relationship. It changes based on the person

sonichu posted...

I just find it sad that I know several people who cannot survive without a relationship. Longest they are single is a few weeks.

Yeah Some people are like that. Many reasons for it, too Sometimes, they dont know how to be single (Like if theyve always been in relationships since high school) Or things always seem to go better or are easier when in relationships

LinkPizza posted...

Im not sure I fully agree But only because even animals sometimes have certain rules they follow Not all, of course But we arent too weird in that regard. If anything, Id say it closer to being omnivores, but for relationships. Just like how we have some people who are vegan or vegetarian, while others are omnivores, the same could be said for relationships. Some people are monogamous, while others are polyamorous, or would fit better in an open relationship. It changes based on the person

We have society to thank for that. I think most men would be lying if they've never had the urge to just have their way with a woman regardless of if she consented or not. There being consequnces and just being raised that way deter most of us
We are opening up to the idea of poly relationships where as it used to be taboo. We as a whole have started to lighten up on some of our "morals"

Sufferedphoneix posted...

We have society to thank for that. I think most men would be lying if they've never had the urge to just have their way with a woman regardless of if she consented or not. There being consequnces and just being raised that way deter most of us
We are opening up to the idea of poly relationships where as it used to be taboo. We as a whole have started to lighten up on some of our "morals"

Im not sure about the mens urges, but I wouldnt be surprised based on some of the things Ive heard. That said, Im not sure as Ive never had an urge like that

That said, weve always been loose with the rules. Just more in secret Back in the day, swinging was all the rage, for example Which is a form of open relationship And many people talk about coming out as poly. So, maybe more people are in one that we dont know about

But as a society, we are much more accepting

It's something people think is common sense... is that why people love having an opinion on the subject?

Better question is who even likes Peeps