Current Events > 3 red flags to notice in a guy

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She's right

Yeah, but nah, but yeah.
I mean, the last is deadset spot on. The others are more a matter of preference and life goals, really.

Is that Ben Shapiro's sister?

Plenty of women that don't want kids either, something that should be established before getting into a potentially serious relationship anyway. I don't call that a red flag.

I don't think it is, Mensis.
Edit: Apparently it is? I have zero facial recognition skills.
Also apologies for the autocorrect.

MabusIncarnate posted...

Plenty of women that don't want kids either, something that should be established before getting into a potentially serious relationship anyway. I don't call that a red flag.

Yeah, exactly. It's hardly something that's specific to men.

last one is accurate

the other two though lol, only way i can maybe see those as red flags is if the guy initially lied about wanting to get married and have kids, but even then the red flag is the manipulative lying, not the preferences in a vacuum

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Glob posted...

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1. He doesn't want to get married.

2. He doesn't want kids.

3. He doesn't respect your physical boundaries.

4 - Posts on CE or Discord

A woman (or anyone for that matter) chasing Tik Tok clout is more of a red flag than someone preferring not to get married or having kids tbh.

The 3rd is a universal red flag, while the first 2 are preferences. Admittedly though, I find it odd when people who want committed monogamous relationships refuse to get married. And I don't see it much with people I meet in real life, mainly just online.

I agree with the last one, but the other two are nonsense. Is marriage the end all be all of a relationship? I know a few couples who have been together for 10+ years living together and never got married and they're happy. Kids are a matter of preference as well. Some people don't want kids ever and that's completely fine.

Abagail Shapiro has such great boobs. DAMN!

bsp77 posted...

I find it odd when people who want committed monogamous relationships refuse to get married

What's the point of it these days?
I can't speak for how it is in other places, but over here you have the exact same financial benefits as a couple simply living together.
So all you're doing is throwing away a substantial amount of money you could use towards building a future together in order to have a party. And if the relationship ends up failing down the line, it just costs you both even more money. I know getting married doesn't necessarily cost a lot of money, but the average person getting married wants that big feast with all their family and friends.
I get that many find it romantic and all, but outside of that I really don't see a point to it.

bsp77 posted...

The 3rd is a universal red flag, while the first 2 are preferences. Admittedly though, I find it odd when people who want committed monogamous relationships refuse to get married. And I don't see it much with people I meet in real life, mainly just online.

My last relationship was 11 years of living together, buying a house together and all that stuff. We didnt get married because neither of us saw the point. Obviously Im glad now that we didnt, but at the time if shed really wanted to I probably would have, but I had no inclination to. Just didnt see the point.