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DumbQuestion
12/04/22 8:09:37 PM
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I can get an orgasm or ejaculate fully if a woman gives me a HJ. But from just traditional sex with a condom, I am unable to finish. And in general, there's no pleasure or feeling I get when I have regular sex.

What can be wrong? I'm in my late 20's, average weight and normal health.
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DarkRoast
12/04/22 8:10:18 PM
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This is not terribly uncommon, both for men and women.

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Intro2Logic
12/04/22 8:10:46 PM
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As someone who dealt with this in my first couple tries: try a different brand of condom

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DumbQuestion
12/04/22 8:11:29 PM
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Intro2Logic posted...
As someone who dealt with this in my first couple tries: try a different brand of condom
ok! last time i had sex, it was with some trojan condom and it fit very tightly around me.
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Homeless_Waifu
12/04/22 8:11:53 PM
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Try a different position? Idk

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Complete_Idi0t
12/04/22 8:11:58 PM
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Have you tried laying a laptop on her and watching porn
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Homeless_Waifu
12/04/22 8:16:49 PM
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Complete_Idi0t posted...
Have you tried laying a laptop on her and watching porn
Hmmmmmmmmmmmm

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NeonTentacles
12/04/22 8:17:46 PM
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Joke talk, maybe she isn't hot enough.

Real talk, maybe you're watching too much porn >_>

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DB_Insider
12/04/22 8:22:48 PM
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NeonTentacles posted...
Joke talk, maybe she isn't hot enough.

Real talk, maybe you're watching too much porn >_>
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thronedfire2
12/04/22 8:36:20 PM
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Complete_Idi0t posted...
Have you tried laying a laptop on her and watching porn

Ive seen porn like this. very meta

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jumi
12/04/22 10:55:45 PM
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What about oral or anal?

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Hayame_Zero
12/04/22 10:59:31 PM
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It's either from wearing a condom or watching too much porn or both. That's how it was with me.

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Sariana21
12/04/22 11:10:37 PM
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Are you worried about a pregnancy? Could it be anxiety?

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gunplagirl
12/04/22 11:27:35 PM
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Try using some sort of prostate toy and you'll finish for sure

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TheMikh
12/04/22 11:29:42 PM
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condom
that's why

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Super_Slash
12/04/22 11:33:40 PM
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TheMikh posted...
that's why
I think it's the condom as well. Condoms suck ass, but they are unfortunately necessary for the average person. I can't stand using them.
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Robot2600
12/04/22 11:41:30 PM
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sounds normal to me.

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Super_Slash
12/04/22 11:44:17 PM
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Also you're losing pleasure because it's a condom.
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pauIie
12/04/22 11:50:54 PM
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try not to masturbate in close proximity to sex

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DumbQuestion
12/05/22 6:40:09 AM
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Sariana21 posted...
Are you worried about a pregnancy? Could it be anxiety?
Actually, yes

Latter too. i've had moments where I was hard for a moment, but then lost my erection.

if I get a HJ and start getting kissed on the neck or cheek, thats worked. but nothing for regular sex atm
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DumbQuestion
12/05/22 6:41:13 AM
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jumi posted...
What about oral or anal?
never did the former yet or the latter, but HJ's seem to do the trick
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GibraItar
12/05/22 6:43:01 AM
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You on a SSRI?

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wackyteen
12/05/22 6:53:54 AM
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DumbQuestion posted...
never did the former yet or the latter, but HJ's seem to do the trick
You're plowing the fields but you've never knocked on (or been knocked on your) their front or back door?

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DumbQuestion
12/05/22 7:19:19 AM
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wackyteen posted...
You're plowing the fields but you've never knocked on (or been knocked on your) their front or back door?
correct!
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Unknown480
12/05/22 7:29:00 AM
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Stop watching porn, stop jerking off, stop day dreaming about sex, stop worrying about pregnancy and enjoy the sex.
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DarkChozoGhost
12/05/22 7:38:31 AM
#29:


Wait, you're getting hand jobs with condoms and wondering why you're not finishing?

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DumbQuestion
12/05/22 7:43:56 AM
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DarkChozoGhost posted...
Wait, you're getting hand jobs with condoms and wondering why you're not finishing?
@darkchozoghost

sorry, what im saying is

-i've always gotten HJ'd without condoms. Always finish

-Have had regular sex with condoms, no finish. hasn't done anything for me in terms of pleasure

-never got a BJ
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DarkChozoGhost
12/05/22 7:47:50 AM
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Ah, that makes more sense.

I can't finish with a condom either. Try different brands and styles, some work better than others. Make sure it works for her too.

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lww99
12/05/22 8:06:50 AM
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Condoms are the fucking worst. I havent found one that I can really work with.

I can go 3 rounds without stopping if Im not wearing one, but be unable to finish if Im wearing one. Its not just the lack of sensation, but theyre so tight around my fat hog that it cuts circulation

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RenescoStCewl
12/05/22 9:31:36 AM
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Anxiety and depression meds can also effect it. I last like 2 minutes when I'm not on my pills.

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MabusIncarnate
12/05/22 10:16:25 AM
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How long have you been together?

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Lil_Bit83
12/05/22 10:37:53 AM
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Maybe talk to your doctor about it.

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Returning_CEmen
12/05/22 10:41:04 AM
#36:


Maybe you desensitized your dick from deeding all these years. Practice with a fleshlight and not your hand for a while.

Condoms also kinda kill the mood for me too.

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