Current Events > I think my relationship has no long term future.

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YeOld3DS
10/10/22 10:47:41 AM
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We want different things in the long term. I love her but if we aren't looking for the same things then what's the point?
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NeoShadowhen
10/10/22 10:48:30 AM
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What are you looking for?
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rexcrk
10/10/22 10:50:00 AM
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Well better not drag it out of you truly dont see a future with her. No need to waste her time.


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YeOld3DS
10/10/22 10:51:32 AM
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NeoShadowhen posted...
What are you looking for?
I want to live my life with someone. I want to get married and wake up next to them every morning. She says living with someone gives her real anxiety and its not something she can handle for long periods of time. I love her and we get along and the sex is good but if she can't handle what I want out of life I see up breaking up at some point.
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SSJ5_Goku
10/10/22 10:51:32 AM
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Willing to bet money she told Duncan to get a job.

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Crimson_Corsair
10/10/22 10:52:37 AM
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CE is not a healthy long term relationship.

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Mia_K97
10/10/22 10:52:46 AM
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then end the relationship
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YeOld3DS
10/10/22 10:59:21 AM
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Mia_K97 posted...
then end the relationship
I don't want to though. I love her she's my best friend.
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Mia_K97
10/10/22 11:05:54 AM
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YeOld3DS posted...
I don't want to though. I love her she's my best friend.

then quit crying lol
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TaylorHeinicke
10/10/22 11:08:37 AM
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I mean, you don't have to end the relationship immediately despite knowing you have different long term goals. But what you SHOULD do is at least have the conversation about the future. If it's a dealbreaker then that's fine, but it doesn't mean you have to stop hanging and banging. It's one of those rare occasions where an open relationship actually makes a little sense. The two of you don't have to leave each other's lives, but you're both free to explore for someone looking for your similar tastes (knowing that the other one of you will eventually find that person and end things for good).

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