Poll of the Day > Remember when you use date women and thought you had to stick out

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In terms of being the best bf ever by planning extravagant dates/dinnners/vacations etc? Lol young dumb love was ridiculous.

I learned early on it doesn't matter what you do. They either like you or keep liking you or you're gonna lose them to someone they like better at the moment. I'm me, always gonna be me, and I'm never gonna change by using some advice from a dude named Hitch about some counterintuitive strategies to get someone on false pretenses so that hopefully I can slink back into old me and hope they stay.

Besides, I've never had a problem with girls. It goes like this every time: We meet eye to eye, she smiles, I smile. The rest is history. I've never had to trick or perform to achieve a girlfriend. Sometimes I think the people that obsess over this just have a hard time getting girls. As far as I know there's no trick. She likes how I look, I like how she looks, and we find out how far it goes. Every single girl I've had has been the exact same story.

My current girlfriend saw me checking her out, we traded smiles a few times and she invited me to sit with her on break at our Gold's Gym. She was working the counter part time while working her medical supply job full time. That was 2014. Best girlfriend I've had so far. She's aggressive, she doesn't have mind games, and she just says how she feels. Only criticism I've ever had is being used for chores a bit more than I'd like. Then again, I never ask her.

Straughan posted...

I learned early on it doesn't matter what you do. They either like you or keep liking you or you're gonna lose them to someone they like better at the moment. I'm me, always gonna be me, and I'm never gonna change by using some advice from a dude named Hitch about some counterintuitive strategies to get someone on false pretenses so that hopefully I can slink back into old me and hope they stay.

Besides, I've never had a problem with girls. It goes like this every time: We meet eye to eye, she smiles, I smile. The rest is history. I've never had to trick or perform to achieve a girlfriend. Sometimes I think the people that obsess over this just have a hard time getting girls. As far as I know there's no trick. She likes how I look, I like how she looks, and we find out how far it goes. Every single girl I've had has been the exact same story.

What about the previous BF who did x,y,z better? Or do your good looks allow you not have too worry?

I do know if youre a freak in the sheets you can be ass to a woman and she'll still come back

I made it a rule to never talk about exs after the first 2 in my 20s cheated on me and did that. Then again, those girls were both kinda shallow. But they were both cute too. I was a lot less picky back then on personality. I learned better real quick.

The only thing I remember one of them saying is how her ex had his own business and that I could too. I didn't want to work 80 hours a week at the time.

teddy241 posted...

I do know if youre a freak in the sheets you can be ass to a woman and she'll still come back

The only advice I can give on this is don't be too emotional and pour your heart out while making love to a girl you don't know very well.

When I was young, I would bleed my emotions all over a girl while making love and it was a bit of a turn off. I've learned to edit myself a bit and wait for them to say it first. I was called emotionally immature after doing this and it made me feel like shit and I nearly stopped talking to that girl at the time. I was really soft back then. Extra soft. I took too many shields down around girls.

Straughan posted...

The only advice I can give on this is don't be too emotional and pour your heart out while making love to a girl you don't know very well.

When I was young, I would bleed my emotions all over a girl while making love and it was a bit of a turn off. I've learned to edit myself a bit and wait for them to say it first. I was called emotionally immature after doing this and it made me feel like shit and I nearly stopped talking to that girl at the time. I was really soft back then. Extra soft. I took too many shields down around girls.

Damn.