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IronWolf87
07/23/22 7:33:39 PM
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Welp. Guess I'll be dying alone then.
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BloodMoon7
07/23/22 7:35:53 PM
#52:


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Welp. Guess I'll be dying alone then.
Same

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Hoodroar
07/23/22 7:39:38 PM
#53:


WingsOfGood posted...


Who cares. Saying this comes off as bitter, not saying you are as it is a copy and paste response. But the men who parrot it are indeed bitter.

True, but does even that matter either? It's not like not being bitter improves your prospects any if everything else is the same. Venting is fun. >_>

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bsp77
07/23/22 7:42:17 PM
#54:


Hoodroar posted...
True, but does even that matter either? It's not like not being bitter improves your prospects any if everything else is the same. Venting is fun. >_>
A positive outlook can make all the difference, so being not bitter could improve your prospects

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Hoodroar
07/23/22 7:46:21 PM
#55:


bsp77 posted...

A positive outlook can make all the difference, so being not bitter could improve your prospects

If we apply all the negative descriptors jokingly mentioned in this topic to one guy I don't think a positive outlook changes his situation. He still doesn't have desired dating qualities. >_>

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bsp77
07/23/22 7:48:13 PM
#56:


Hoodroar posted...
If we apply all the negative descriptors jokingly mentioned in this topic to one guy I don't think a positive outlook changes his situation. He still doesn't have desired dating qualities. >_>
I think there can be someone for everyone despite common preferences

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WingsOfGood
07/23/22 7:50:42 PM
#57:


Compsognathus posted...
Ambition is code for "guy who doesn't just sit around and watch tv/play video games all the time." They want someone with initiative. Someone who will plan things and have idea for dates.

One of my best friends is currently seeing a guy who makes a shitload of money. He also has never planned a single one of their dates and unless he is invited to do something will otherwise spend all of his time playing video games, watching TV or working out. This dude is well-off, six foot tall, ripped, fairly entertaining dude to hang out with, and is going to get dumped because he had zero ambition.

Ambition is not planning dates lmao

Unambitious guys can do that infact
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BloodMoon7
07/23/22 7:56:49 PM
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bsp77 posted...
I think there can be someone for everyone despite common preferences
Except for me ofc. No one loves me.

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Anony1125
07/23/22 7:57:29 PM
#59:


bsp77 posted...
I think there can be someone for everyone despite common preferences
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/0/0/2/AAO7dSAADfJS.jpg

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Hoodroar
07/23/22 8:00:49 PM
#60:


Compsognathus posted...

No. He isn't. Because that is not what she is looking for. She wants someone to contribute ideas. She doesn't want to be the only one planning anything. This shit is going to end the relationship.

Perhaps but he got this far at least. I've lasted significantly less time before women expected me to do shit I just don't like doing lol.

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bsp77
07/23/22 8:04:17 PM
#61:


Hoodroar posted...
Perhaps but he got this far at least. I've lasted significantly less time before women expected me to do shit I just don't like doing lol.
Like what?

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Akagami_Shanks
07/23/22 8:06:51 PM
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ngl when people talk about their types and preferences and bad exes all i can think about is "Yeah, but you still dated them though", attraction is attraction. People are willing to lower their standards all the time.

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BloodMoon7
07/23/22 8:08:30 PM
#63:


Akagami_Shanks posted...
ngl when people talk about their types and preferences and bad exes all i can think about is "Yeah, but you still dated them though", attraction is attraction. People are willing to lower their standards all the time.
I never lower my standards even knowing it's impossible for someone to meet them.

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Lost_All_Senses
07/23/22 8:10:26 PM
#64:


Hoodroar posted...
True, but does even that matter either? It's not like not being bitter improves your prospects any if everything else is the same. Venting is fun. >_>

Im not bitter. And it definitely does help for people to enjoy my company. I feel like assuming everyone is bitter just makes you yourself bitter as well tho >_>. You can vent and not be bitter, nomatter how many actual bitter people perceive it as you being bitter.

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Lost_All_Senses
07/23/22 8:12:16 PM
#65:


WingsOfGood posted...
How does this prevent them from being alone? They read your post?

BloodMoon7 posted...
They will be saved with Lost's good love from that bad love.

I don't know what about my post implied I even have a higher opinion of myself than anyone I talk about. You guys are literally trying to think around the post instead of just read what's there and comprehend it. And you guys are doing a terrible job at reading between the lines. Reread my post and look for the parts you responded to. You will realize they don't actually exist in the context if the post.

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Guide
07/23/22 8:14:10 PM
#66:


Squall28 posted...
The ambitious thing sounds like code for "rich."

Could be, but one of the things that is almost universally attractive to women is guys being nerds for things. Which is not just being a nerd, but being slightly obsessive with a hobby involving skill.

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WingsOfGood
07/23/22 8:19:27 PM
#67:


Fyi ambitious does not mean rich.
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ThyCorndog
07/23/22 8:33:33 PM
#68:


I am tall and confident, but not ambitious

I have a masters degree and a good job. I don't want to keep escalating and getting more responsibilities forever. I just want to live comfortably

I have been told that this is not good enough a few times before

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Koishi
07/23/22 8:33:38 PM
#69:


Aressar posted...
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/9/7/9/AACq3xAADfI7.jpg
Not wanting kids is completely understandable though, I don't want kids at all and hate them and I still found a "good man" who's fine with it

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Koishi
07/23/22 8:34:24 PM
#70:


Pepys_Monster posted...
I'm sure the rich, muscular, 6 foot tall man is going to cry himself to sleep for years if she leaves.
None of this has anything to do with love though? His height and muscles and money won't mean anything if he loses someone he truly put his heart into

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bsp77
07/23/22 8:38:00 PM
#71:


ThyCorndog posted...
I am tall and confident, but not ambitious

I have a masters degree and a good job. I don't want to keep escalating and getting more responsibilities forever. I just want to live comfortably

I have been told that this is not good enough a few times before
Sounds like me and I have had the same reaction before. It's crazy, I make six figures but they still think me lazy and not ambitious.

So yeah, ambitious does not equal money.

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Lost_All_Senses
07/23/22 8:42:07 PM
#72:


Koishi posted...
Not wanting kids is completely understandable though, I don't want kids at all and hate them and I still found a "good man" who's fine with it

Why do you hate kids and why is "good man" in quotations? Im just interested in the story.

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Krojen
07/23/22 8:44:20 PM
#73:


I just assume they're boring/not bright if what little space they have to write is wasted on "I like things that are good and positive traits"

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WingsOfGood
07/23/22 8:46:18 PM
#74:


Ambition is about social standing. Desire to be leader of whatever space.
For example, a guy who participates in local races.

One guy just enjoys the run.
One guy wants to win and be the best.

2nd guy is ambitious.

Sometimes this quality gets you rich, but like this example it would not.

What it does get you is respect and people saying "wow he is the best" blah blah blah.

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Lost_All_Senses
07/23/22 8:47:44 PM
#75:


Krojen posted...
I just assume they're boring/not bright if what little space they have to write is wasted on "I like things that are good and positive traits"

Lol. That's a good point. Though, they can probably still be really smart proficient in other areas of life. Juat got caught up in the "not so bright" culture. We all do little dumb things we don't care to think about more.

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BloodMoon7
07/23/22 8:47:53 PM
#76:


WingsOfGood posted...
Ambition is about social standing. Desire to be leader of whatever space.
For example, a guy who participates in local races.

One guy just enjoys the run.
One guy wants to win and be the best.

2nd guy is ambitious.

Sometimes this quality gets you rich, but like this example it would not.

What it does get you is respect and people saying "wow he is the best" blah blah blah.
How about someone who puts thousands of hours into video games?

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Anony1125
07/23/22 8:50:39 PM
#77:


BloodMoon7 posted...
How about someone who puts thousands of hours into video games?
You play to have fun, I play to be the best. We are not the same.

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Lost_All_Senses
07/23/22 8:52:19 PM
#78:


Anony1125 posted...
You play to have fun, I play to be the best. We are not the same.

I play to laugh at how bad me and my nieces are at the games we play. Where do I fit in.

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BloodMoon7
07/23/22 8:54:20 PM
#79:


Anony1125 posted...
You play to have fun, I play to be the best. We are not the same.
Okay but my wife in Rune Factory 5 still loves me.

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WingsOfGood
07/23/22 8:59:28 PM
#80:


BloodMoon7 posted...
How about someone who puts thousands of hours into video games?

It is not impossible if say they are a top raider in FFXIV. But generally these types have other failings that keep women away.

But it is not unheard of that a girl joins a static and all the sudden is dating the leader of it.

Or someone like XQC
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Hoodroar
07/23/22 9:03:04 PM
#81:


bsp77 posted...

Like what?

Basic initiative-related things, like whatever you guys do to maintain relationships. >_>

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bsp77
07/23/22 9:05:06 PM
#82:


Hoodroar posted...
Basic initiative-related things, like whatever you guys do to maintain relationships. >_>
Just do things like suggest dates, offer to make or get dinner, show interest in them...

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Lost_All_Senses
07/23/22 9:07:40 PM
#84:


bsp77 posted...
Just do things like suggest dates, offer to make or get dinner, show interest in them...

Also, do something spontaneous you might feel too shy to do once in awhile. Keep it spicy. They're appreciate the effort if they love you

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rexcrk
07/23/22 9:14:43 PM
#85:


bsp77 posted...
Just do things like suggest dates, offer to make or get dinner, show interest in them...


And then theyll be all hes such an ass, I cant believe what a control freak he is. UGH

Whats it like to have been in a normal, healthy relationship anyway?



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bsp77
07/23/22 9:32:56 PM
#86:


rexcrk posted...
And then theyll be all hes such an ass, I cant believe what a control freak he is. UGH
They don't say that at all when you suggest dates and cook them dinner. Also, most women like a guy that takes charge as long as he also listens.

Whats it like to have been in a normal, healthy relationship anyway?
It's good. I've been in healthy and unhealthy ones. You just keep a positive attitude and keep trying. My current relationship is by far my healthiest, as she is just so easy. I am the pain in the ass in the relationship for once :)

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Tenlaar
07/23/22 9:58:13 PM
#87:


WingsOfGood posted...
Ambition is about social standing. Desire to be leader of whatever space.
For example, a guy who participates in local races.

One guy just enjoys the run.
One guy wants to win and be the best.

2nd guy is ambitious.

Sometimes this quality gets you rich, but like this example it would not.

What it does get you is respect and people saying "wow he is the best" blah blah blah.
Youre describing competitive. The guy who runs marathons just because he wants to challenge himself is ambitious too.
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Blue_Thunder
07/24/22 10:27:49 AM
#88:


Anony1125 posted...

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/0/0/2/AAO7dSAADfJS.jpg

Someone hasn't watched the second movie.

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RlP
07/24/22 11:36:31 AM
#89:


Compsognathus posted...
No. He isn't. Because that is not what she is looking for. She wants someone to contribute ideas. She doesn't want to be the only one planning anything. This shit is going to end the relationship.

Yet she decided to date him... I wonder why

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MedeaLysistrata
07/25/22 12:01:48 PM
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I hope not all women are like this...when I go on a vacation I don't want to plan activities lmao

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Hoodroar
07/25/22 12:08:00 PM
#91:


MedeaLysistrata posted...
I hope not all women are like this...when I go on a vacation I don't want to plan activities lmao

lol

I think there was a topic with a guy complaining about that scenario and his GF a while back. She thought he was lazy and not taking advantage of fun opportunities while he felt a vacation was meant to be for rest.

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MedeaLysistrata
07/25/22 12:18:53 PM
#92:


Hoodroar posted...
lol

I think there was a topic with a guy complaining about that scenario and his GF a while back. She thought he was lazy and not taking advantage of fun opportunities while he felt a vacation was meant to be for rest.
My girlfriend broke up with me... Said the vacation didn't have enough action

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MedeaLysistrata
07/25/22 12:28:14 PM
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While I am on vacation, there was no girlfriend

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bsp77
07/25/22 12:39:49 PM
#95:


MedeaLysistrata posted...
I hope not all women are like this...when I go on a vacation I don't want to plan activities lmao
While not a reason to dump someone, you SHOULD plan some stuff. Unless the vacation is meant to be sit on the beach and drink Pina Coladas.

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iwasapoetonce
07/25/22 1:09:21 PM
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It could've been the straw that broke the camels back, or the excuse to dump the guy. While I'm sure there are plenty of people who can unironically find the smallest reason to dump and make it the prime reason for the breakup, I have never met someone who would break up on that reason alone. There's always two sides to each story.

BloodMoon7 posted...
I never lower my standards even knowing it's impossible for someone to meet them.

Ok. that's on you. I'd go on, but I'm sure you've heard it all before. The line has been drawn. You'll be on one side, and you know no one else is ever going to cross it to your side. There isn't really anything else to be said.

Also, I honestly wonder what other "cool" things a person can say in a short format. They need to describe who they want to date, and they only have a few words to say it.

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Compsognathus
07/25/22 8:11:33 PM
#97:


bsp77 posted...
While not a reason to dump someone, you SHOULD plan some stuff. Unless the vacation is meant to be sit on the beach and drink Pina Coladas.
Like literally anything else in a relationship it's about communication and compromise. Know upfront what each other wants out of the vacation and plan find a middle ground.

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