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Chadwick69
07/02/22 3:15:32 AM
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Refuses to elaborate further.

Run.

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MelbuFrahma4
07/02/22 3:18:33 AM
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Did you go to the cops?

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Smackems
07/02/22 3:19:59 AM
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Run run Rudolph

Santa's got to make it to town

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TeaMilk
07/02/22 3:20:34 AM
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this is a bad topic

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LinkFanatic
07/02/22 3:21:21 AM
#5:


TeaMilk posted...
this is a bad topic

This. If someone says they were abused, you should believe them unless you have a reason not to.

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FunkyCat
07/02/22 3:24:13 AM
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TeaMilk posted...
this is a bad topic


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Chadwick69
07/02/22 3:27:16 AM
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LinkFanatic posted...
This. If someone says they were abused, you should believe them unless you have a reason not to.
Literally everyone says their ex is abusive.

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gunplagirl
07/02/22 3:27:53 AM
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Chadwick69 posted...
Literally everyone says their ex is abusive.
Everyone, or just heterosexual women?

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Nerevar791
07/02/22 3:28:39 AM
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Cool maybe this one can finally get banned now

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Chadwick69
07/02/22 3:30:38 AM
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Everyone is always like "Oh my ex was so abusive" and you're not allowed to question it. But I bet if you ever got to know the person on the other end, you would hear the half of the story that never gets told.

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CM_Ponch
07/02/22 3:30:54 AM
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TeaMilk posted...
this is a bad topic


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LinkFanatic
07/02/22 3:32:40 AM
#13:


Chadwick69 posted...
Literally everyone says their ex is abusive.

No they don't.

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LinkFanatic
07/02/22 3:33:05 AM
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gunplagirl posted...
Everyone, or just heterosexual women?

Neither one. There are plenty of heterosexual women who don't say that.

This entire topic is rooted in stereotypes, ones that might not even be all that accurate.

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Chadwick69
07/02/22 3:33:32 AM
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"always believe" until it happens to you I guess, but then don't get mad when people don't believe you're not abusive.

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LinkFanatic
07/02/22 3:36:26 AM
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Chadwick69 posted...
"always believe" until it happens to you I guess, but then don't get mad when people don't believe you're not abusive.

Okay?

Anyway, if you're trying to say that some people misinterpret emotional conflict with their SOs as abuse when it's actually not, then yes. That obviously happens. So what?

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pogo_rabid
07/02/22 3:37:17 AM
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Trust, but verify.

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Chadwick69
07/02/22 3:37:23 AM
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It's like you all forget that other people are complicated just like you. Do you think people wake up and think to themselves "I'm going to be abusive today"?

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gunplagirl
07/02/22 3:39:15 AM
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Chadwick69 posted...
"always believe" until it happens to you I guess, but then don't get mad when people don't believe you're not abusive.
It sounds like you're trying to say that you are frequently called an abuser by your exes. Could you please clarify on that? Are you saying you've been falsely accused multiple times?

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Chadwick69
07/02/22 3:41:43 AM
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gunplagirl posted...
It sounds like you're trying to say that you are frequently called an abuser by your exes. Could you please clarify on that? Are you saying you've been falsely accused multiple times?
Nah I've only slept with hookers never had a relationship

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UnholyMudcrab
07/02/22 3:42:52 AM
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Goddamn, what a bad topic

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ShineboxPhil
07/02/22 3:45:25 AM
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TC did you match up with Amber Heard on Twitter?

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gunplagirl
07/02/22 3:45:40 AM
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Chadwick69 posted...
Nah I've only slept with hookers never had a relationship
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I4NRulez
07/02/22 3:48:29 AM
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"I went through an emotionally abusive relationship and i dont know you well enough to disclose the details now but in time i can"

TC: ME VIRGIN, ME WANT SEX

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BearlyWilling
07/02/22 3:48:40 AM
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Chadwick69 posted...
Everyone is always like "Oh my ex was so abusive" and you're not allowed to question it. But I bet if you ever got to know the person on the other end, you would hear the half of the story that never gets told.

you dont sound bitter at all

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Turbam
07/02/22 3:48:50 AM
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Man, this topic is not good

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MICHALECOLE
07/02/22 3:53:13 AM
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This might be the worst topic in the history of topics
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Chadwick69
07/02/22 3:54:18 AM
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It's so easy to be mindlessly supportive, but it takes a real intellect to look beyond and ponder the "Why" and the "How"

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MICHALECOLE
07/02/22 3:55:17 AM
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Chadwick69 posted...
It's so easy to be mindlessly supportive, but it takes a real intellect to look beyond and ponder the "Why" and the "How"
Cant be real
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Murphiroth
07/02/22 3:56:41 AM
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I'm pondering why you made this topic, and how long it'll be before you slip up and get moderated.
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PMarth2002
07/02/22 4:08:20 AM
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Poe's law strikes again.

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Mibahlzitch
07/02/22 4:12:01 AM
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Chadwick69 posted...
Everyone is always like "Oh my ex was so abusive" and you're not allowed to question it. But I bet if you ever got to know the person on the other end, you would hear the half of the story that never gets told.
Do a lot of your exes tell people you were abusive? This is a lot of insight you've given us completely unprompted.

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Moeperry
07/02/22 4:14:24 AM
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believe all women

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LinkFanatic
07/02/22 4:16:25 AM
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Chadwick69 posted...
It's like you all forget that other people are complicated just like you. Do you think people wake up and think to themselves "I'm going to be abusive today"?

Some people, yes.

MICHALECOLE posted...
cant be real

Eh to be fair, I don't agree with the premise of the topic, but as I said before, some people do legitimately misuse the term abuse; it isn't a synonym for feeling emotionally damaged.

That said, whether some people misuse the term or not is irrelevant to the fact that, even in that scenario, their emotions were hurt. That's what's important.

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PMarth2002
07/02/22 4:23:00 AM
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LinkFanatic posted...
it isn't a synonym for feeling emotionally damaged.

its not, but emotional abuse is absolutely a thing.

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LinkFanatic
07/02/22 4:26:53 AM
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PMarth2002 posted...
its not, but emotional abuse is absolutely a thing.

I agree, and I'm pretty sure I've implied that the entire spectrum abuse is a real thing. Not sure how you got otherwise from my posts? :P

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I4NRulez
07/02/22 4:27:02 AM
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LinkFanatic posted...
Eh to be fair, I don't agree with the premise of the topic, but as I said before, some people do legitimately misuse the term abuse; it isn't a synonym for feeling emotionally damaged.

You realize you can be emotionally abused right?

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Chadwick69
07/02/22 4:29:02 AM
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I4NRulez posted...
You realize you can be emotionally abused right?
Oh my god even I understand what he's saying and I'm the troll here

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MICHALECOLE
07/02/22 4:31:28 AM
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Chadwick69 posted...
Oh my god even I understand what he's saying and I'm the troll here
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PMarth2002
07/02/22 4:33:09 AM
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LinkFanatic posted...
I agree, and I'm pretty sure I've implied that the entire spectrum abuse is a real thing. Not sure how you got otherwise from my posts? :P

I wasn't saying that because I thought you were denying the existence of emotional abuse, it was just something I thought should be said.

Chadwick69 posted...
Oh my god even I understand what he's saying and I'm the troll here

Ah, that answers that.

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UnfairRepresent
07/02/22 4:34:46 AM
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TeaMilk posted...
this is a bad topic


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LinkFanatic
07/02/22 4:35:05 AM
#45:


I4NRulez posted...
You realize you can be emotionally abused right?

Yeah? You're the second person who's said that, so maybe it's just my wording? I wasn't remotely trying to imply otherwise, just that there are hierarchies to emotional damage; damage =/= abuse. My brother has hurt my feelings by not being patient with my mental illnesses. I don't consider that abuse, even if I might have reacted like that sometimes. On the other hand, he's also called me nasty names before, and I feel like that's much closer to actual abuse since he was literally denigrating me in those scenarios.

That's all I was saying. No idea how my post was so confusing but apparently it was, so I hope that cleared things up.

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