Current Events > Had sex with a condom on for the first time in about 5 years yesterday

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SO and I live deep in the heart of Texas, and have been using birth control for five years. But with RvW dying, were being extra safe now.

scotus has downgraded my sex life

Have you ever had to have an abortion?

You can get a vasectomy if you want to be safe and not wear condom.

I never really got the condom hate tbh. It can slow things down and ruin the mood a bit when you have to dig one out, but in terms of sensation there isn't much difference.

NeonOctopus posted...

Have you ever had to have an abortion?

No

Patty_Fleur posted...

You can get a vasectomy if you want to be safe and not wear condom.

Ill wear a condom I dont have a problem with it really. Im just being complainy

MrMelodramatic posted...

No

Well, just keep hitting it raw then >_> I'm sure you can just drive to an abortion state or plan B or something on the 1% chance it happens. Condoms suck lol

lilORANG posted...

I never really got the condom hate tbh. It can slow things down and ruin the mood a bit when you have to dig one out, but in terms of sensation there isn't much difference.

Gonna have to do a major disagree here. There was significantly less sensation. Hard to keep it hard tbh.

NeonOctopus posted...

Well, just keep hitting it raw then >_> I'm sure you can just drive to an abortion state or plan B or something on the 1% chance it happens. Condoms suck lol

Sigh. The nearest state is like, hundreds of miles away. Several hundreds. Wed have to fly out there, stay for a few days (I imagine), do the thing, fly back. idk. Its a huge hassle, and it just shouldnt be a thing we need to worry about.

lilORANG posted...

I never really got the condom hate tbh. It can slow things down and ruin the mood a bit when you have to dig one out, but in terms of sensation there isn't much difference.

That's probably because you are circumcised.

MrMelodramatic posted...

Sigh. The nearest state is like, hundreds of miles away. Several hundreds. Wed have to fly out there, stay for a few days (I imagine), do the thing, fly back. idk. Its a huge hassle, and it just shouldnt be a thing we need to worry about.

yolo

Oof. Pour one out for our mutilated brothers

I hope this thread is a joke. The thought that someone might actually think that their sex life should be "let's just rawdog it, if you get pregnant you can always cut it out later" is honestly scary

lilORANG posted...

but in terms of sensation there isn't much difference.

Is this for real

brotrrwinner posted...

I hope this thread is a joke. The thought that someone might actually think that their sex life should be "let's just rawdog it, if you get pregnant you can always cut it out later" is honestly scary

Sounds like standard practice to me

brotrrwinner posted...

I hope this thread is a joke. The thought that someone might actually think that their sex life should be "let's just rawdog it, if you get pregnant you can always cut it out later" is honestly scary

TC said they've been using birth control already.

Abortion would have been a plan b for if the partners birth control failed.

But since abortion is illegal in Texas now, he's saying they're now using condoms as their plan b

emblem boy posted...

TC said they've been using birth control already.

Abortion would have been a plan b for if the partners birth control failed.

But since abortion is illegal in Texas now, he's saying they're now using condoms as their plan b

That's even worse. Prioritizing conceiving a child and cut it out later over wearing a condom as their plan B... jesus fucking christ

If TC lives in Texas might want to stock up on condoms now.

Texas backwards enough to ban condoms once the SCOTUS rescinds the right to contraceptives

Or maybe this is a little dramatic, who knows

brotrrwinner posted...

That's even worse. Prioritizing conceiving a child and cut it out later over wearing a condom as their plan B... jesus fucking christ

Most people don't wear condoms and use other form of female birth control.
TC isn't saying anything weird. Or maybe you're missing where I said they are using birth control already?

I hate hate hate condoms. Luckily I am snipped.

brotrrwinner posted...

That's even worse. Prioritizing conceiving a child and cut it out later over wearing a condom as their plan B... jesus fucking christ

Calm down. Why someone has an abortion is literally none of your fucking business, shut the fuck up and mind your own business.

NeonOctopus posted...

I'm sure you can just drive to an abortion state or plan B or something on the 1% chance it happens.

This is not realistic for everyone.

brotrrwinner posted...

I hope this thread is a joke. The thought that someone might actually think that their sex life should be "let's just rawdog it, if you get pregnant you can always cut it out later" is honestly scary

This posters inability to read or behave like a human is indicative of all pro-life dwimmerlaiks.

brotrrwinner posted...

I hope this thread is a joke. The thought that someone might actually think that their sex life should be "let's just rawdog it, if you get pregnant you can always cut it out later" is honestly scary

Using birth control =\= just rawdog it lmao

LongJohnSilvers posted...

Is this for real

Hottest take in the thread fr

wackyteen posted...

If TC lives in Texas might want to stock up on condoms now.

Texas backwards enough to ban condoms once the SCOTUS rescinds the right to contraceptives

Or maybe this is a little dramatic, who knows

Living on the island brother. I think the nearest abortion-safe state is like, New Mexico. Thats a solid twelve hour drive I imagine.

bsp77 posted...

I hate hate hate condoms. Luckily I am snipped.

I did not expect to have such a negative feeling towards it. I remember sex feeling very good with a condom. Last night it felt like nothing, basically. Oh well. You adapt.

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MrMelodramatic posted...

I did not expect to have such a negative feeling towards it. I remember sex feeling very good with a condom. Last night it felt like nothing, basically. Oh well. You adapt.

Age can be part of it. It didn't bother me when I was 19 before my ex wife and I stop using them. But it does bother me now in my 40s after my divorce. When you are young, it is easier to consistently power through it. Now it is easier to lose the mood lol