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gamepimp12 06/13/22 9:42:23 PM #1:	We had spoke this weekend about our mutual hobby (we both have huge sneaker collections, and we both have influential but different connects, so sometimes its beneficial to share information) and I said something along the lines of idk if well ever be friends, or even cool again but Id like us to be cordial She said shed like us to be friend. Caught me off guard, mainly cause that was earlier than I expected were supposed to make plans sometime before July to speak. But as much as I love the girl i dont know if I wanna be friends, my issues with her havent been really resolved or addressed honestly. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:965792587] in So my &quo... [t:80056720]...</cite> <quote>We had spoke this weekend about our mutual hobby (we both have huge sneaker collections, and we both have influential but different connects, so sometimes its beneficial to share information) and I said something along the lines of idk if well ever be friends, or even cool again but Id like us to be cordial She said shed like us to be friend. Caught me off guard, mainly cause that was earlier than I expected were supposed to make plans sometime before July to speak. But as much as I love the girl i dont know if I wanna be friends, my issues with her havent been really resolved or addressed honestly. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RiKuToTheMiGhtY 06/13/22 9:43:15 PM #2:	This is a bad idea if you have not gotten over her. --- doa-plus.com - We Press Forward. . . By Pressing Back. <cite>RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted [p:965792602] in So my &quo... [t:80056720]...</cite> <quote>This is a bad idea if you have not gotten over her. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LordMarshal 06/13/22 9:43:28 PM #3:	So how hot are we talking about? --- There can be only one. <cite>LordMarshal posted [p:965792613] in So my &quo... [t:80056720]...</cite> <quote>So how hot are we talking about? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Umbreon 06/13/22 9:46:08 PM #4:	gamepimp12 posted... my issues with her havent been really resolved or addressed honestly. Should probably be upfront about this. Being friends again isn't going to work if the relationship starts off with you not being honest and still holding resentment. --- Black Lives Matter. ~DYL~ (On mobile) 12-18-19 and 01-13-21: Times Donald Trump has officially been impeached. <cite>Umbreon posted [p:965792678] in So my &quo... [t:80056720]...</cite> <quote>gamepimp12 posted... </cite> <quote>my issues with her havent been really resolved or addressed honestly.</quote> Should probably be upfront about this. Being friends again isn't going to work if the relationship starts off with you not being honest and still holding resentment. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 06/13/22 9:52:43 PM #5:	Umbreon posted... Should probably be upfront about this. Being friends again isn't going to work if the relationship starts off with you not being honest and still holding resentment. yeap. Which is why I wouldnt really consider us friends again, or anything else until we speak face to face. i missed her, which honestly made me want it pursue this reconciliation, but without a real conversation its gonna be the same shit over again. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:965792865] in So my &quo... [t:80056720]...</cite> <quote>Umbreon posted... </cite> <quote>Should probably be upfront about this. Being friends again isn't going to work if the relationship starts off with you not being honest and still holding resentment.</quote> yeap. Which is why I wouldnt really consider us friends again, or anything else until we speak face to face. i missed her, which honestly made me want it pursue this reconciliation, but without a real conversation its gonna be the same shit over again. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
StarbucksWorker 06/13/22 9:53:08 PM #6:	so resolve your issues or dont <cite>StarbucksWorker posted [p:965792873] in So my &quo... [t:80056720]...</cite> <quote>so resolve your issues or dont </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 06/13/22 9:58:07 PM #7:	StarbucksWorker posted... so resolve your issues or dont I mean yeah of course, its what broke us up honestly, and in the year we dealt with each other its been the only reason Ive ever been mad at you. I feel like She doesnt know what she wants, which is fine we have an age gap, and I was just starting to become the person I am now when I was her age. But her process has been coming directly at my expense. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:965792986] in So my &quo... [t:80056720]...</cite> <quote>StarbucksWorker posted... </cite> <quote>so resolve your issues or dont</quote> I mean yeah of course, its what broke us up honestly, and in the year we dealt with each other its been the only reason Ive ever been mad at you. I feel like She doesnt know what she wants, which is fine we have an age gap, and I was just starting to become the person I am now when I was her age. But her process has been coming directly at my expense. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MasterVading 06/13/22 10:11:28 PM #8:	Just use her. --- Wat. <cite>MasterVading posted [p:965793334] in So my &quo... [t:80056720]...</cite> <quote>Just use her. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 06/13/22 10:12:59 PM #9:	MasterVading posted... Just use her. Nah I actually love her I just want our situation to be healthy --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:965793366] in So my &quo... [t:80056720]...</cite> <quote>MasterVading posted... </cite> <quote>Just use her.</quote> Nah I actually love her I just want our situation to be healthy </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RiKuToTheMiGhtY 06/13/22 10:26:05 PM #10:	MasterVading posted... Just use her. This is terrible advice, TC clearly cares about her, she is not a casual fling. --- doa-plus.com - We Press Forward. . . By Pressing Back. <cite>RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted [p:965793664] in So my &quo... [t:80056720]...</cite> <quote>MasterVading posted... </cite> <quote>Just use her.</quote>This is terrible advice, TC clearly cares about her, she is not a casual fling. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 06/13/22 11:22:09 PM #11:	RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted... This is terrible advice, TC clearly cares about her, she is not a casual fling. exactly --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:965795059] in So my &quo... [t:80056720]...</cite> <quote>RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted... </cite> <quote>This is terrible advice, TC clearly cares about her, she is not a casual fling.</quote> exactly </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Super Slash 06/13/22 11:23:33 PM #12:	This sounds like a bad idea to me, as tempting as it may be for you. Give it more time. I can't imagine it ending well if there are still unresolved issues. <cite>Super Slash posted [p:965795094] in So my &quo... [t:80056720]...</cite> <quote>This sounds like a bad idea to me, as tempting as it may be for you. Give it more time. I can't imagine it ending well if there are still unresolved issues. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 06/13/22 11:25:20 PM #13:	Is this really about the shoes? --- Name checks out "I don't wanna be the toughest, I just keep it 100 and think nothin of it"- Black Thought <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:965795130] in So my &quo... [t:80056720]...</cite> <quote>Is this really about the shoes? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
carpediempimp 06/13/22 11:57:54 PM #14:	Lost_All_Senses posted... Is this really about the shoes? I man weve talked from time to time since our fall out In march but it wasnt until recently that it progressed anything besides obligated birthdays and small talk, mainly about sneakers. Ive been trying to get us in a room together to actually talk for awhile now. She finally seems interested, but I dont wanna assume were gonna be friends or anything more before we actually speak --- Just do it <cite>carpediempimp posted [p:965795788] in So my &quo... [t:80056720]...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted... </cite> <quote>Is this really about the shoes?</quote> I man weve talked from time to time since our fall out In march but it wasnt until recently that it progressed anything besides obligated birthdays and small talk, mainly about sneakers. Ive been trying to get us in a room together to actually talk for awhile now. She finally seems interested, but I dont wanna assume were gonna be friends or anything more before we actually speak </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TentacleDemon 06/14/22 5:24:18 AM #15:	gamepimp12 posted... But as much as I love the girl i dont know if I wanna be friends, my issues with her havent been really resolved or addressed honestly. I completely understand this. I'm in a similar situation. My ex wants to maintain contact and be friends. I can't be just friends with her. I still love her and she has never fully acknowledged her role in making me decide to walk away. Even if she did acknowledge it and sincerely apologize, I'm not in a place where I could be her friend. Not while I still love her. <cite>TentacleDemon posted [p:965799733] in So my &quo... [t:80056720]...</cite> <quote>gamepimp12 posted... </cite> <quote>But as much as I love the girl i dont know if I wanna be friends, my issues with her havent been really resolved or addressed honestly.</quote> I completely understand this. I'm in a similar situation. My ex wants to maintain contact and be friends. I can't be just friends with her. I still love her and she has never fully acknowledged her role in making me decide to walk away. Even if she did acknowledge it and sincerely apologize, I'm not in a place where I could be her friend. Not while I still love her. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
haloiscoolisbak 06/14/22 7:32:48 AM #16:	My last ex made me feel really silly for not wanting to stay friends, like it was immature of me I had to literally tell her if I found out she was dating new people it'd make me miserable Even just hanging out with someone you want to hold and kiss and they just are forever content shooting the shit is depressing to me One of my friends said oh you might be able to get a no strings attached hook up, or even get back with her. All I was picturing from that was hanging out with her with complete uncertainty if something would happen like it was our first date again Not being friends after a breakup should be the standard --- Started from the bottom now we here <cite>haloiscoolisbak posted [p:965801014] in So my &quo... [t:80056720]...</cite> <quote>My last ex made me feel really silly for not wanting to stay friends, like it was immature of me I had to literally tell her if I found out she was dating new people it'd make me miserable Even just hanging out with someone you want to hold and kiss and they just are forever content shooting the shit is depressing to me One of my friends said oh you might be able to get a no strings attached hook up, or even get back with her. All I was picturing from that was hanging out with her with complete uncertainty if something would happen like it was our first date again Not being friends after a breakup should be the standard </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
rexcrk 06/14/22 7:37:35 AM #17:	LordMarshal posted... So how hot are we talking about? --- Tell my tale to those who ask. Tell it truly, the ill deeds, along with the good, and let me be judged accordingly. The rest... is silence. <cite>rexcrk posted [p:965801066] in So my &quo... [t:80056720]...</cite> <quote>LordMarshal posted... </cite> <quote>So how hot are we talking about?</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 06/14/22 8:48:07 AM #18:	haloiscoolisbak posted... My last ex made me feel really silly for not wanting to stay friends, like it was immature of me I had to literally tell her if I found out she was dating new people it'd make me miserable Even just hanging out with someone you want to hold and kiss and they just are forever content shooting the shit is depressing to me One of my friends said oh you might be able to get a no strings attached hook up, or even get back with her. All I was picturing from that was hanging out with her with complete uncertainty if something would happen like it was our first date again Not being friends after a breakup should be the standard I don't have a problem with it. I have stayed friends with exes, including my 2 year relationship prior to my current girlfriend. She tells me about who she is dating and she knows my gf. It admittedly might be easier for me because I broke up with her. carpediempimp posted... Ive been trying to get us in a room together to actually talk for awhile now. She finally seems interested, but I dont wanna assume were gonna be friends or anything more before we actually speak Yeah, you need to actually talk and be prepared to move on. --- Currently playing: I'm taking a gaming break <cite>bsp77 posted [p:965801976] in So my &quo... [t:80056720]...</cite> <quote>haloiscoolisbak posted... </cite> <quote>My last ex made me feel really silly for not wanting to stay friends, like it was immature of me I had to literally tell her if I found out she was dating new people it'd make me miserable Even just hanging out with someone you want to hold and kiss and they just are forever content shooting the shit is depressing to me One of my friends said oh you might be able to get a no strings attached hook up, or even get back with her. All I was picturing from that was hanging out with her with complete uncertainty if something would happen like it was our first date again Not being friends after a breakup should be the standard</quote>I don't have a problem with it. I have stayed friends with exes, including my 2 year relationship prior to my current girlfriend. She tells me about who she is dating and she knows my gf. It admittedly might be easier for me because I broke up with her. carpediempimp posted... </cite> <quote>Ive been trying to get us in a room together to actually talk for awhile now. She finally seems interested, but I dont wanna assume were gonna be friends or anything more before we actually speak</quote>Yeah, you need to actually talk and be prepared to move on. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 06/14/22 10:22:13 AM #19:	LordMarshal posted... So how hot are we talking about? extremely bsp77 posted... I don't have a problem with it. I have stayed friends with exes, including my 2 year relationship prior to my current girlfriend. She tells me about who she is dating and she knows my gf. It admittedly might be easier for me because I broke up with her. Yeah, you need to actually talk and be prepared to move on. Yeap, i may want to be together but not resolving these issues would make everything a waste of time. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:965803719] in So my &quo... [t:80056720]...</cite> <quote>LordMarshal posted... </cite> <quote>So how hot are we talking about?</quote> extremely bsp77 posted... </cite> <quote>I don't have a problem with it. I have stayed friends with exes, including my 2 year relationship prior to my current girlfriend. She tells me about who she is dating and she knows my gf. It admittedly might be easier for me because I broke up with her. Yeah, you need to actually talk and be prepared to move on.</quote> Yeap, i may want to be together but not resolving these issues would make everything a waste of time. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Questionmarktarius 06/14/22 10:50:59 AM #20:	https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4F4qzPbcFiA <cite>Questionmarktarius posted [p:965804303] in So my &quo... [t:80056720]...</cite> <quote>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4F4qzPbcFiA </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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