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Slayerblade11 06/12/22 7:39:10 AM #1:	If I raise someone from basically a kid to a grown ass adult even if it's not my genetics i'm basically it's real dad. <cite>Slayerblade11 posted [p:965743584] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>If I raise someone from basically a kid to a grown ass adult even if it's not my genetics i'm basically it's real dad. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Chadwick69 06/12/22 7:42:10 AM #2:	I've had traumatic experiences with step-parents so I'm biased on the topic --- Xe/Xim <cite>Chadwick69 posted [p:965743620] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>I've had traumatic experiences with step-parents so I'm biased on the topic </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Beveren_Rabbit 06/12/22 7:44:26 AM #3:	women shouldn't have to disclose DNA results with their boyfriend if they suspect that the father might be someone else. If the father is out of the picture it's unfair for that child to be raised by a single mother due to an affair. --- flops <cite>Beveren_Rabbit posted [p:965743639] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>women shouldn't have to disclose DNA results with their boyfriend if they suspect that the father might be someone else. If the father is out of the picture it's unfair for that child to be raised by a single mother due to an affair.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Doom_Art 06/12/22 7:44:29 AM #4:	You see some dudes get obsessed with it while using terms like "bloodline" and stuff. It's really quite weird --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 http://i.imgur.com/mPvcy.png <cite>Doom_Art posted [p:965743640] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>You see some dudes get obsessed with it while using terms like "bloodline" and stuff. It's really quite weird </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sufferedphoneix 06/12/22 7:59:44 AM #5:	Beveren_Rabbit posted... women shouldn't have to disclose DNA results with their boyfriend if they suspect that the father might be someone else. If the father is out of the picture it's unfair for that child to be raised by a single mother due to an affair. I feel the man should have a right to know. If it's it's deal breaker would she want to be with him anyways? I could date a woman with kids from another man on two conditions. I either have full rights as a parent or I have no obligations outside financial and maybe a few other things. Parenting should be a compromise in how you raise them. If it's gonna be her way only I don't want no part of it if she still expects me to be apart of the process. I've seen it ruin more than one relationship. Major one being my mom. Husband wanted her to make the kids mind and do like they are supposed to but he always objected her methods. And it led to major arguments. He always took his kids side. It's not like she was beating them. She tried his way it didn't work. --- Cid- "looks like that overgrown lobster just got served!" Bartz-"with cheese biscuts AND mashed potatoes!" <cite>Sufferedphoneix posted [p:965743783] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>Beveren_Rabbit posted... </cite> <quote>women shouldn't have to disclose DNA results with their boyfriend if they suspect that the father might be someone else. If the father is out of the picture it's unfair for that child to be raised by a single mother due to an affair.</quote> I feel the man should have a right to know. If it's it's deal breaker would she want to be with him anyways? I could date a woman with kids from another man on two conditions. I either have full rights as a parent or I have no obligations outside financial and maybe a few other things. Parenting should be a compromise in how you raise them. If it's gonna be her way only I don't want no part of it if she still expects me to be apart of the process. I've seen it ruin more than one relationship. Major one being my mom. Husband wanted her to make the kids mind and do like they are supposed to but he always objected her methods. And it led to major arguments. He always took his kids side. It's not like she was beating them. She tried his way it didn't work. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tom Clark 06/12/22 8:13:54 AM #6:	Men don't, boys do. --- http://i.imgur.com/6eF0W.gif <cite>Tom Clark posted [p:965743907] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>Men don't, boys do. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Doom_Art 06/12/22 8:19:29 AM #7:	Tom Clark posted... Men don't, boys do. wat --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 http://i.imgur.com/mPvcy.png <cite>Doom_Art posted [p:965743965] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>Tom Clark posted... </cite> <quote>Men don't, boys do.</quote>wat </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 06/12/22 8:23:34 AM #8:	I already have 4 kids, so when I was dating a mom for 2 years with 2 kids of her own, it was too much for me. We either would have the schedules so there are always kids around (but not much overlap) or there is a goddamn Brady Bunch part of the time. So I decided I wouldn't date someone with kids again, even if I know that is hypocritical. But the problem is simply that I have 4 of them. My current gf has no kids, thankfully doesn't want her own, and is cool with mine. --- Currently playing: I'm taking a gaming break <cite>bsp77 posted [p:965744004] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>I already have 4 kids, so when I was dating a mom for 2 years with 2 kids of her own, it was too much for me. We either would have the schedules so there are always kids around (but not much overlap) or there is a goddamn Brady Bunch part of the time. So I decided I wouldn't date someone with kids again, even if I know that is hypocritical. But the problem is simply that I have 4 of them. My current gf has no kids, thankfully doesn't want her own, and is cool with mine. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 06/12/22 8:24:08 AM #9:	Doom_Art posted... wat It made sense. Only "boys" have a problem with it.... --- Currently playing: I'm taking a gaming break <cite>bsp77 posted [p:965744010] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>Doom_Art posted... </cite> <quote>wat</quote>It made sense. Only "boys" have a problem with it.... </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Alucard188 06/12/22 8:25:15 AM #10:	Depends on the circumstances in which the genealogy of the child is questioned. If you're a step parent, there should be no issues with raising another man's child. You're there to support your partner. If the child was born from infidelity or suspected infidelity, I feel you have the right to know if the child is yours. It has less to do with the welfare of the child and more to do with the fact that no one likes being cheated on. --- Face it Cloud is a gaming icon and has appered in lots of games while mario has only appeared in 2 games sunshine and 64~xSlashbomBx <cite>Alucard188 posted [p:965744020] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>Depends on the circumstances in which the genealogy of the child is questioned. If you're a step parent, there should be no issues with raising another man's child. You're there to support your partner. If the child was born from infidelity or suspected infidelity, I feel you have the right to know if the child is yours. It has less to do with the welfare of the child and more to do with the fact that no one likes being cheated on. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Rayman2943 06/12/22 8:30:10 AM #13:	What a toxic circlejerk. --- Cute dog lover <cite>Rayman2943 posted [p:965744086] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>What a toxic circlejerk. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MrResetti 06/12/22 8:34:49 AM #14:	What's real fun is when the biological father and his family are complete shit and lie to the kid and instill terrible behaviors in him every other weekend so you're stuck being the bad guy who has to come down on the behaviors he had been getting away with and/or encouraged to do! --- http://i.imgur.com/GRZEGPm.gif http://imgur.com/OeMgQZT.gif <cite>MrResetti posted [p:965744131] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>What's real fun is when the biological father and his family are complete shit and lie to the kid and instill terrible behaviors in him every other weekend so you're stuck being the bad guy who has to come down on the behaviors he had been getting away with and/or encouraged to do! </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Joshua_Graham 06/12/22 9:10:16 AM #17:	Beveren_Rabbit posted... women shouldn't have to disclose DNA results with their boyfriend if they suspect that the father might be someone else. If the father is out of the picture it's unfair for that child to be raised by a single mother due to an affair. I disagree with this. --- I have been baptized twice, once in water, once in flame. I will carry the fire of the holy spirit inside until I stand before my Lord for judgement. <cite>Joshua_Graham posted [p:965744559] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>Beveren_Rabbit posted... </cite> <quote>women shouldn't have to disclose DNA results with their boyfriend if they suspect that the father might be someone else. If the father is out of the picture it's unfair for that child to be raised by a single mother due to an affair.</quote> I disagree with this. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JuanCarlos1 06/12/22 9:11:52 AM #18:	Beveren_Rabbit posted... women shouldn't have to disclose DNA results with their boyfriend if they suspect that the father might be someone else. If the father is out of the picture it's unfair for that child to be raised by a single mother due to an affair. Someone woke up and chose violence. Anyway if I love the mom, Ill try my best to be a good stepfather to their kid and be their friend. The emotional well being of a child is too important to me. --- Mas dicen, que en las dimensiones de nuestro ser... hay muchos detalles por conocer... <cite>JuanCarlos1 posted [p:965744588] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>Beveren_Rabbit posted... </cite> <quote>women shouldn't have to disclose DNA results with their boyfriend if they suspect that the father might be someone else. If the father is out of the picture it's unfair for that child to be raised by a single mother due to an affair.</quote> Someone woke up and chose violence. Anyway if I love the mom, Ill try my best to be a good stepfather to their kid and be their friend. The emotional well being of a child is too important to me. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Glob 06/12/22 9:14:29 AM #19:	It's not that I don't want to raise another man's child. It's that I don't want to raise a child at all. <cite>Glob posted [p:965744630] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>It's not that I don't want to raise another man's child. It's that I don't want to raise a child at all. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Anteaterking 06/12/22 9:14:30 AM #20:	I would say it's often about the cheating (assuming we aren't talking about explicit step children), except that even in cases like e.g. the doctor in the Netflix documentary where he artificially inseminated women with his own sperm instead of their husband's "donation", you still had men who seemed to be like "I'll never look at the person I thought was my child again the same way since they're not related to me". --- http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b136/Anteaterking/scan00021.jpg http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b136/Anteaterking/scan00021.jpg <cite>Anteaterking posted [p:965744631] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>I would say it's often about the cheating (assuming we aren't talking about explicit step children), except that even in cases like e.g. the doctor in the Netflix documentary where he artificially inseminated women with his own sperm instead of their husband's "donation", you still had men who seemed to be like "I'll never look at the person I thought was my child again the same way since they're not related to me". </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 06/12/22 9:21:38 AM #21:	Anteaterking posted... I would say it's often about the cheating (assuming we aren't talking about explicit step children), except that even in cases like e.g. the doctor in the Netflix documentary where he artificially inseminated women with his own sperm instead of their husband's "donation", you still had men who seemed to be like "I'll never look at the person I thought was my child again the same way since they're not related to me". I took the topic to not be about cheating and such, but dating a single mom with little kids. I guess the topic doesn't state one or the other, but I had a more positive assumption. Honestly, this is part of why I struggle with CE so much at times; so much is worst case scenario here. --- Currently playing: I'm taking a gaming break <cite>bsp77 posted [p:965744749] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>Anteaterking posted... </cite> <quote>I would say it's often about the cheating (assuming we aren't talking about explicit step children), except that even in cases like e.g. the doctor in the Netflix documentary where he artificially inseminated women with his own sperm instead of their husband's "donation", you still had men who seemed to be like "I'll never look at the person I thought was my child again the same way since they're not related to me".</quote>I took the topic to not be about cheating and such, but dating a single mom with little kids. I guess the topic doesn't state one or the other, but I had a more positive assumption. Honestly, this is part of why I struggle with CE so much at times; so much is worst case scenario here. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vicious_Dios 06/12/22 9:26:06 AM #22:	Hmm, quite a quandary. Ooh let's see: - Can't discipline them. - Not the biological product of one's own bloodline - baby-daddy drama. - If you were to have a child with this woman with two or more kids that 'aren't' yours then you'd have to take away resources from your own child to provide for the other two. - Those other children, in a lot of cases, have their fathers paying child-support, and their fathers are definitely NOT paying for yours while you house their kids. Not saying that I agree entirely, but these are just a few reasons I could list just from off-top. --- S / K / Y / N / E <cite>Vicious_Dios posted [p:965744812] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>Hmm, quite a quandary. Ooh let's see: - Can't discipline them. - Not the biological product of one's own bloodline - baby-daddy drama. - If you were to have a child with this woman with two or more kids that 'aren't' yours then you'd have to take away resources from your own child to provide for the other two. - Those other children, in a lot of cases, have their fathers paying child-support, and their fathers are definitely NOT paying for yours while you house their kids. Not saying that I agree entirely, but these are just a few reasons I could list just from off-top. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Number090684 06/12/22 9:30:50 AM #24:	Beveren_Rabbit posted... women shouldn't have to disclose DNA results with their boyfriend if they suspect that the father might be someone else. If the father is out of the picture it's unfair for that child to be raised by a single mother due to an affair. Nah that's bullshit. What's really unfair is a man being deceived and putting money and time into having to raise a child that isn't even his. Stop trying to enable ethically dishonest people to take advantage of their partners. For you to even suggest this shows how morally bankrupt you are. Possibly sexist too. <cite>Number090684 posted [p:965744870] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>Beveren_Rabbit posted... </cite> <quote>women shouldn't have to disclose DNA results with their boyfriend if they suspect that the father might be someone else. If the father is out of the picture it's unfair for that child to be raised by a single mother due to an affair.</quote> Nah that's bullshit. What's really unfair is a man being deceived and putting money and time into having to raise a child that isn't even his. Stop trying to enable ethically dishonest people to take advantage of their partners. For you to even suggest this shows how morally bankrupt you are. Possibly sexist too. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PrettyBoyFloyd 06/12/22 9:31:32 AM #25:	Depends who is at fault. If the girl is the problem then avoid her. If the guy is the problem then send some bigger guys to break him up if he has issues with it. --- The Evil Republicans - Est.2004 - WoT [Government Destabilizing Branch] <cite>PrettyBoyFloyd posted [p:965744879] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>Depends who is at fault. If the girl is the problem then avoid her. If the guy is the problem then send some bigger guys to break him up if he has issues with it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RiKuToTheMiGhtY 06/12/22 9:32:47 AM #26:	What is so wrong about wanting your own children and not having to deal with all the problems that come with being a step parent ? Knowing that you wont have baby daddy drama, and not being a second class parent with no power to discipline is a much better option. --- doa-plus.com - We Press Forward. . . By Pressing Back. <cite>RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted [p:965744900] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>What is so wrong about wanting your own children and not having to deal with all the problems that come with being a step parent ? Knowing that you wont have baby daddy drama, and not being a second class parent with no power to discipline is a much better option. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
K181 06/12/22 9:33:05 AM #27:	https://www.theonion.com/moron-stepfather-takes-care-of-child-who-doesn-t-have-h-1819577218 --- Irregardless, for all intensive purposes, I could care less. <cite>K181 posted [p:965744904] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>https://www.theonion.com/moron-stepfather-takes-care-of-child-who-doesn-t-have-h-1819577218 </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Solid Snake07 06/12/22 9:33:40 AM #28:	Ive never heard anyone who actually has kids talk about this kind of shit. Im honestly not sure Ive ever heard anyone talk about it outside of the internet. --- "People incapable of guilt usually do have a good time" -Detective Rust Cohle <cite>Solid Snake07 posted [p:965744911] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>Ive never heard anyone who actually has kids talk about this kind of shit. Im honestly not sure Ive ever heard anyone talk about it outside of the internet. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vicious_Dios 06/12/22 9:34:08 AM #29:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] While chewing on a peach Just thought of another one! - When you enter a relationship with a woman who has a kid. If you want to have a child, she may not want another, shut down the factory, AND expect you to fulfill your role as father. --- S / K / Y / N / E <cite>Vicious_Dios posted [p:965744916] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> While chewing on a peach Just thought of another one! - When you enter a relationship with a woman who has a kid. If you want to have a child, she may not want another, shut down the factory, AND expect you to fulfill your role as father. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 06/12/22 9:37:28 AM #30:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] I actually feel horrible about when I broke up with that ex I mentioned above. Pretty sure she is still devastated about not seeing my daughters anymore, even if over me. Actually I know that to be true, as I still see her time to time. If I broke up with my current gf, she would be devastated too, as would her parents, who are already treating them as grandchildren. --- Currently playing: I'm taking a gaming break <cite>bsp77 posted [p:965744963] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> I actually feel horrible about when I broke up with that ex I mentioned above. Pretty sure she is still devastated about not seeing my daughters anymore, even if over me. Actually I know that to be true, as I still see her time to time. If I broke up with my current gf, she would be devastated too, as would her parents, who are already treating them as grandchildren. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RiKuToTheMiGhtY 06/12/22 9:40:20 AM #31:	Seems like if you ever get attached to those children and a break up happens you not only have zero rights to see the children again but they also see you as abandoning them since you are not around anymore. --- doa-plus.com - We Press Forward. . . By Pressing Back. <cite>RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted [p:965745001] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>Seems like if you ever get attached to those children and a break up happens you not only have zero rights to see the children again but they also see you as abandoning them since you are not around anymore. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Solid Snake07 06/12/22 9:51:06 AM #32:	RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted... Seems like if you ever get attached to those children and a break up happens you not only have zero rights to see the children again but they also see you as abandoning them since you are not around anymore. Im pretty sure if you legally adopt your spouses children you have the same parental rights as a biological parent. If you dont legally adopt them obviously youre not entitled to visitations and such. --- "People incapable of guilt usually do have a good time" -Detective Rust Cohle <cite>Solid Snake07 posted [p:965745143] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted... </cite> <quote>Seems like if you ever get attached to those children and a break up happens you not only have zero rights to see the children again but they also see you as abandoning them since you are not around anymore.</quote> Im pretty sure if you legally adopt your spouses children you have the same parental rights as a biological parent. If you dont legally adopt them obviously youre not entitled to visitations and such. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Rayman2943 06/12/22 10:00:42 AM #33:	RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted... What is so wrong about wanting your own children and not having to deal with all the problems that come with being a step parent ? Knowing that you wont have baby daddy drama, and not being a second class parent with no power to discipline is a much better option. Its just people who want to look down on other people. Seems to me there is ZERO benefit to dating a single mom. --- Cute dog lover <cite>Rayman2943 posted [p:965745271] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted... </cite> <quote>What is so wrong about wanting your own children and not having to deal with all the problems that come with being a step parent ? Knowing that you wont have baby daddy drama, and not being a second class parent with no power to discipline is a much better option.</quote>Its just people who want to look down on other people. Seems to me there is ZERO benefit to dating a single mom. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WorsCaseOntario 06/12/22 10:03:59 AM #34:	We have an epidemic of single mothers in this country. Why is that, anyway? --- Frankly my dear, I don't give a ham. <cite>WorsCaseOntario posted [p:965745327] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>We have an epidemic of single mothers in this country. Why is that, anyway? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 06/12/22 10:04:02 AM #35:	Im cool with it. As long as she puts me before the kid. It's super beta to let a kid get all the attention you deserve while you just stand there like an idiot. Im not getting cucked by no little brat --- Name checks out "I don't wanna be the toughest, I just keep it 100 and think nothin of it"- Black Thought <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:965745332] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>Im cool with it. As long as she puts me before the kid. It's super beta to let a kid get all the attention you deserve while you just stand there like an idiot. Im not getting cucked by no little brat </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RiKuToTheMiGhtY 06/12/22 10:06:00 AM #36:	Well I support adopting children as a lot of them need a loving home and there is no step parent bullshit to deal with. I also support people willing to take in orphans since they really need a loving home. --- doa-plus.com - We Press Forward. . . By Pressing Back. <cite>RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted [p:965745366] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>Well I support adopting children as a lot of them need a loving home and there is no step parent bullshit to deal with. I also support people willing to take in orphans since they really need a loving home. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vicious_Dios 06/12/22 10:06:45 AM #37:	Lost_All_Senses posted... Im cool with it. As long as she puts me before the kid. It's super beta to let a kid get all the attention you deserve while you just stand there like an idiot. Im not getting cucked by no little brat So... You're NOT cool with it. lol No mother (or any parent) who is worth their salt is going to put their own blood before anyone else, including themselves. --- S / K / Y / N / E <cite>Vicious_Dios posted [p:965745372] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted... </cite> <quote>Im cool with it. As long as she puts me before the kid. It's super beta to let a kid get all the attention you deserve while you just stand there like an idiot. Im not getting cucked by no little brat</quote> So... You're NOT cool with it. lol No mother (or any parent) who is worth their salt is going to put their own blood before anyone else, including themselves. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RiKuToTheMiGhtY 06/12/22 10:09:32 AM #38:	Vicious_Dios posted... No mother (or any parent) who is worth their salt is going to put their own blood before anyone else, including themselves. I think you just answered indirectly why men dont want to be raising children that are not blood relations. --- doa-plus.com - We Press Forward. . . By Pressing Back. <cite>RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted [p:965745414] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>Vicious_Dios posted... </cite> <quote>No mother (or any parent) who is worth their salt is going to put their own blood before anyone else, including themselves.</quote>I think you just answered indirectly why men dont want to be raising children that are not blood relations. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
-BrokenSpiral- 06/12/22 10:11:09 AM #39:	Women have the same issue, like when the man's child and or/former lover shows up at the door and suddenly breaks the news to them that the former lover gave birth to a kid he never knew about. Some people just don't want to. Not a hard concept to grasp or think of reasons for it unless you're stupid. <cite>-BrokenSpiral- posted [p:965745431] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>Women have the same issue, like when the man's child and or/former lover shows up at the door and suddenly breaks the news to them that the former lover gave birth to a kid he never knew about. Some people just don't want to. Not a hard concept to grasp or think of reasons for it unless you're stupid. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 06/12/22 10:14:55 AM #40:	Vicious_Dios posted... So... You're NOT cool with it. lol No mother (or any parent) who is worth their salt is going to put their own blood before anyone else, including themselves. Yeah, this. Why would she ever put a boyfriend above her kid? That's crazy. However, she should still make sure to give you dedicated time, barring emergencies of course. --- Currently playing: I'm taking a gaming break <cite>bsp77 posted [p:965745499] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>Vicious_Dios posted... </cite> <quote>So... You're NOT cool with it. lol No mother (or any parent) who is worth their salt is going to put their own blood before anyone else, including themselves.</quote>Yeah, this. Why would she ever put a boyfriend above her kid? That's crazy. However, she should still make sure to give you dedicated time, barring emergencies of course. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lonestar2000 06/12/22 10:17:20 AM #41:	I don't want my own kids and I sure as fuck don't want to raise somebody else's. --- Rumble Roses. Someone enters the room. Them: O_O Me: What?! I always play games without my pants on!- Inmate 922335 #ImpeachToadDickTrump <cite>Lonestar2000 posted [p:965745528] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>I don't want my own kids and I sure as fuck don't want to raise somebody else's. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jagr_68 06/12/22 10:19:08 AM #42:	Lonestar2000 posted... I don't want my own kids and I sure as fuck don't want to raise somebody else's. --- New York Rangers [2004-2008] https://media.giphy.com/media/WvQHBYW0q4TuxdAg61/giphy.gif https://psnprofiles.com/Jaromiroquai68 <cite>Jagr_68 posted [p:965745562] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>Lonestar2000 posted... </cite> <quote>I don't want my own kids and I sure as fuck don't want to raise somebody else's.</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 06/12/22 10:21:31 AM #43:	Vicious_Dios posted... So... You're NOT cool with it. lol Jokes. Im actually used to being 2nd to kids everywhere I go already. It's completely fine. Id almost prefer a woman with a kid at this point. As long as it's not connected to a toxic relationship that's a blackhole. But, Id rather slowly work my way into being a father figure a kid. Rather than have to go all in immediately after it's born. Plus, I have no interest in the first year of a kids life. Everything about it gives me anxiety. --- Name checks out "I don't wanna be the toughest, I just keep it 100 and think nothin of it"- Black Thought <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:965745599] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>Vicious_Dios posted... </cite> <quote> So... You're NOT cool with it. lol</quote> Jokes. Im actually used to being 2nd to kids everywhere I go already. It's completely fine. Id almost prefer a woman with a kid at this point. As long as it's not connected to a toxic relationship that's a blackhole. But, Id rather slowly work my way into being a father figure a kid. Rather than have to go all in immediately after it's born. Plus, I have no interest in the first year of a kids life. Everything about it gives me anxiety. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PoundGarden 06/12/22 10:22:14 AM #44:	Most people prefer new vs hand me downs --- "You go. I'm just going to stare at the lake and think about how I almost just killed a baby." <cite>PoundGarden posted [p:965745610] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>Most people prefer new vs hand me downs </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Oubliettes 06/12/22 10:23:15 AM #45:	My wife and I have 4 kids. 3 are my stepchildren, one we share. Been married almost 10 years. Kids are awesome. We all play video games together and shit. We've got a Minecraft server, a Fallout 76 world, played lots of Starbound, 7 days to die, Terraria, Valheim, Borderlands, etc. together. We do Warhammer stuff together. Plus regular dad stuff like fishing. It's p rad. Lots of nonsense ITT. --- http://i.imgur.com/ozVGOuh.png <cite>Oubliettes posted [p:965745626] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>My wife and I have 4 kids. 3 are my stepchildren, one we share. Been married almost 10 years. Kids are awesome. We all play video games together and shit. We've got a Minecraft server, a Fallout 76 world, played lots of Starbound, 7 days to die, Terraria, Valheim, Borderlands, etc. together. We do Warhammer stuff together. Plus regular dad stuff like fishing. It's p rad. Lots of nonsense ITT. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 06/12/22 10:24:02 AM #46:	Lost_All_Senses posted... Jokes. Im actually used to being 2nd to kids everywhere I go already. It's completely fine. Id almost prefer a woman with a kid at this point. As long as it's not connected to a toxic relationship that's a blackhole. But, Id rather slowly work my way into being a father figure a kid. Rather than have to go all in immediately after it's born. Plus, I have no interest in the first year of a kids life. Everything about it gives me anxiety. This sounds more like you :) --- Currently playing: I'm taking a gaming break <cite>bsp77 posted [p:965745639] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted... </cite> <quote>Jokes. Im actually used to being 2nd to kids everywhere I go already. It's completely fine. Id almost prefer a woman with a kid at this point. As long as it's not connected to a toxic relationship that's a blackhole. But, Id rather slowly work my way into being a father figure a kid. Rather than have to go all in immediately after it's born. Plus, I have no interest in the first year of a kids life. Everything about it gives me anxiety.</quote>This sounds more like you :) </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Collat 06/12/22 10:25:00 AM #47:	Beveren_Rabbit posted... women shouldn't have to disclose DNA results with their boyfriend if they suspect that the father might be someone else. If the father is out of the picture it's unfair for that child to be raised by a single mother due to an affair. What... The fuck? <cite>Collat posted [p:965745662] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>Beveren_Rabbit posted... </cite> <quote>women shouldn't have to disclose DNA results with their boyfriend if they suspect that the father might be someone else. If the father is out of the picture it's unfair for that child to be raised by a single mother due to an affair.</quote>What... The fuck? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RiKuToTheMiGhtY 06/12/22 10:26:59 AM #48:	PoundGarden posted... Most people prefer new vs hand me downs Could you sound more insensitive ??, children are living beings not a car or item. Just say you rather have your own children not this bullshit. --- doa-plus.com - We Press Forward. . . By Pressing Back. <cite>RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted [p:965745701] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>PoundGarden posted... </cite> <quote>Most people prefer new vs hand me downs</quote>Could you sound more insensitive ??, children are living beings not a car or item. Just say you rather have your own children not this bullshit. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lorenzo_2003 06/12/22 10:28:39 AM #49:	RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted... What is so wrong about wanting your own children and not having to deal with all the problems that come with being a step parent ? There is nothing wrong with what you want. It simply conflicts with what single mothers want. Don't let these guys guilt trip you into spending your resources on someone elses kid, if thats not what you want to do. --- ... <cite>Lorenzo_2003 posted [p:965745722] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted... </cite> <quote>What is so wrong about wanting your own children and not having to deal with all the problems that come with being a step parent ?</quote> There is nothing wrong with what you want. It simply conflicts with what single mothers want. Don't let these guys guilt trip you into spending your resources on someone elses kid, if thats not what you want to do. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RiKuToTheMiGhtY 06/12/22 10:33:50 AM #50:	I think most people know about my thoughts about single mothers. --- doa-plus.com - We Press Forward. . . By Pressing Back. <cite>RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted [p:965745810] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>I think most people know about my thoughts about single mothers. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 06/12/22 10:44:04 AM #51:	RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted... I think most people know about my thoughts about single mothers. Yeah, your thoughts are awful --- Currently playing: I'm taking a gaming break <cite>bsp77 posted [p:965745972] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted... </cite> <quote>I think most people know about my thoughts about single mothers.</quote>Yeah, your thoughts are awful </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RiKuToTheMiGhtY 06/12/22 10:50:53 AM #52:	You dont have to like my opinion and how I feel about people making bad choices and mistakes. --- doa-plus.com - We Press Forward. . . By Pressing Back. <cite>RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted [p:965746085] in why do men... [t:80054486]...</cite> <quote>You dont have to like my opinion and how I feel about people making bad choices and mistakes. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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