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MICHALECOLE
04/19/22 4:55:53 PM
#52:


Its not an argument

honestly the fact that you edit EVERY one of your posts to add more thoughts creeps me out too
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FelineCyborg
04/19/22 4:57:35 PM
#53:


MICHALECOLE posted...
Its not an argument

honestly the fact that you edit EVERY one of your posts to add more thoughts creeps me out too

I provided empathy to tc, yea im such a creep. Also i love spite editing. Its one of my favorite things to do because i know it bothers people. Deal with bub.

Maybe if you grew up and stopped your tired ebully schtick youd know to piss people off proper.

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6cc
04/19/22 4:58:19 PM
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Flockaveli posted...
This woman is really throwing it all away to go hoeing across the world.

...and what is she throwing away?

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6cc
04/19/22 4:59:58 PM
#55:


itachi15243 posted...
She probably shouldn't be able to call shots like that in the relationship unless you're okay with it or willing to come along.

And LOL WAT.

Ffs man

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Makio
04/19/22 7:43:05 PM
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FelineCyborg posted...
Is it crazy bitch season or something? Ton of my friends had recent breakups, i had a recent breakup, underlying symptom - crazy bitch disorder

When are these girls (cant call them women) gonna grow the fuck up and stop playing games?

FelineCyborg posted...
Im starting to think women are the dark souls of life where the "get gud" shit just doesnt apply and everybody either gets lucky or accepts this shit just isnt fair, you can level up (money, gym, etc) but its still hard.

FelineCyborg posted...
I will when they step up. Women need to do better.

Chick is fucking around and wasting peoples time to "find herself". The story told a million times, to the point where almost every dude experiences a succubus at one point.
It's a good thing that this behavior will drive potential partners away. Incels need to do better

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AirFresh
04/19/22 8:42:38 PM
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@Turbam if you ever find yourself to be cringe, read this topic. (Not talking about you TC)

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Turbam
04/19/22 8:45:28 PM
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Thanks bro, I'll be sure to give it a read and drop my cringe review.
Sorry to hear about this happening TC, I haven't read anything yet but you have my condolences.

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Anony1125
04/19/22 9:25:17 PM
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https://youtu.be/iy6wryJMwVU

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SauI_Goodman
04/19/22 9:27:58 PM
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Probably gonnna meet a lot of guys in hostels. Sorry op. Try to move on.

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rexcrk
04/19/22 9:28:34 PM
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Ugh why do girls do shit like this?

Sorry, dude.


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ShotgunSilencer
04/19/22 9:28:48 PM
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She probably going to Ecuador
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DyingPancake
04/19/22 9:31:42 PM
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Normally, I dont see too many full blown incel post, but the ones in this topic are something else

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bsp77
04/19/22 9:32:57 PM
#64:


rexcrk posted...
Ugh why do girls do shit like this?

Sorry, dude.
Guys do shit like this too. It's gender agnostic.

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CelestialVoices
04/19/22 9:43:04 PM
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that sucks ass

best of luck moving forward

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RiKuToTheMiGhtY
04/19/22 9:47:58 PM
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Shame you wasted all that money on gifts for her ungrateful and disloyal ass. Be thankful you are able to just break up with her and she was only a girlfriend it could have been so much worse.

Use this time to work on yourself, grow your money and live well. Do not think of her, block all contact and move on with your life.

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Helicaterpillar
04/19/22 10:01:13 PM
#67:


So she gonna do a world bang tour at every local bar she goes.
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MICHALECOLE
04/19/22 10:10:34 PM
#68:


I honestly dont even understand what the birthday gifts have to do with any of this
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bsp77
04/19/22 10:12:02 PM
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MICHALECOLE posted...
I honestly dont even understand what the birthday gifts have to do with any of this
Apparently if you buy gifts for someone and then they break up with you, you resent buying said gifts.

I now know the character of anyone who focuses on that part.

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MICHALECOLE
04/19/22 10:16:00 PM
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bsp77 posted...
Apparently if you buy gifts for someone and then they break up with you, you resent buying said gifts.

I now know the character of anyone who focuses on that part.
its like a George costanza thing to be mad about

George: I bought her a bunch of birthday gifts and the next week she broke up with me!
Jerry: and youre upset because youre not together anymore?
George: No, Im upset I wasted all that money on those gifts!
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bsp77
04/19/22 10:20:59 PM
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MICHALECOLE posted...
its like a George costanza thing to be mad about

George: I bought her a bunch of birthday gifts and the next week she broke up with me!
Jerry: and youre upset because youre not together anymore?
George: No, Im upset I wasted all that money on those gifts!
Exactly! And funny you mention that, as my gf and I slowly bingeing Seinfeld before falling asleep most nights. She had never seen it (she was born during like the 3rd or 4th season), but I grew up on it

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MICHALECOLE
04/19/22 10:29:55 PM
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bsp77 posted...
Exactly! And funny you mention that, as my gf and I slowly bingeing Seinfeld before falling asleep most nights. She had never seen it (she was born during like the 3rd or 4th season), but I grew up on it
I know Ive been watching you guys watch it
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bsp77
04/19/22 10:31:06 PM
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MICHALECOLE posted...
I know Ive been watching you guys watch it
That took a turn.

Wait, have you possessed my cat? Because he stares pretty hard at everything.

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The_Creep_2020
04/19/22 10:34:01 PM
#74:


AablMind posted...
Shes gonna have fun on a certain carousel

Sorry champ
Calliope music will be playing the entire time.

https://youtu.be/Rdog2BsXa4k

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MICHALECOLE
04/19/22 10:34:24 PM
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bsp77 posted...
That took a turn.

Wait, have you possessed my cat? Because he stares pretty hard at everything.

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Ivany2008
04/19/22 10:35:08 PM
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I would have hit her with the "you know... I wouldn't mind travelling the world", to see what she would have said to that. If she still broke up with you after that then I would have told her that you want all the stuff you just gave her back. That's just me though.

I still wouldn't travel the world, at least not yet. I plan on doing it myself in a few years once I build up enough savings.
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Ivany2008
04/19/22 11:35:39 PM
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so? Listen, the only person that matters is him. If she was in such a committed relationship, she wouldn't be breaking up with him to go on a year long vacation. She would be asking him to go with her. Or at the very least having this discussion over a period of time. No ifs ands or buts. She clearly didn't have a problem accepting his gifts knowing full well that she was going to do this.

If she wants Sympathy, she'll find it between shit and syphilis in the dictionary.
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Teh_Dr_Phil
04/19/22 11:39:18 PM
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MixedRaceBaby posted...
when i did study abroad years ago, our advisor during our meeting said if you have a partner now, and you're going to be gone a year, its best to just break up with them.

i didn't understand why at the time.

but during my study abroad experience. EVERY. SINGLE. PERSON. CHEATED.
or they got cheated on! it was insane. the only person i know who DIDN'T cheat was this german guy, because he was MARRIED to his girl and she made him skype call him EVERY NIGHT. dude would pack up in the middle of drinking and be like welp time to phone my wife. the dudebros of the group made fun of him, but at least he was FAITHFUL.

point is TC, she's doing you a favor. best to move on. sorry.

This. I didnt cheat when I was abroad for my last year of college but the temptation sure as hell was there.

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VigorouslySwish
04/19/22 11:39:38 PM
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She will try to bang at least one dude in every country. Every woman that tours europe sets this as a goal. Youre better off without her.

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Guns_of_Verdun
04/20/22 6:39:07 AM
#82:


Ivany2008 posted...
I would have hit her with the "you know... I wouldn't mind travelling the world", to see what she would have said to that. If she still broke up with you after that then I would have told her that you want all the stuff you just gave her back. That's just me though.

I still wouldn't travel the world, at least not yet. I plan on doing it myself in a few years once I build up enough savings.
We'd spoke about it before but we didn't have the money and I hav responsibilities.

As you said it was a "We're planning on it later" thing

I think she feels that with Covid and Trump and Ukraine, "Myabe later" is the same as "We're not doing it" and she just wants to go do it.

As I said she can't afford it so I don't see any way she can travel without shacking up with random guys.

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bsp77
04/20/22 7:19:58 AM
#83:


Everyone is assuming that this was a longterm committed relationship, but was it? Why won't you answer how long you have been together? If it was longer rerm, were there issues? Had she been unhappy?

I feel bad when stuff like this happens, but there seems to be an assumption that she is giving up on a longterm, loving, perfect relationship to just go on a globe trotting fuck-a-thon. But is that actually the case?

The fact that you wouldn't mind if not sudden and you bought presents makes it seem like a short or poor relationship honestly.

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Guns_of_Verdun
04/20/22 7:38:19 AM
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I think you misunderstood.

I'm not saying "It sucks solely because I just got her some presents." my point was that I wouldn't mind if it was something we discussed and agreed together mutally. Relationships fail every day and solid communication is key.

Just deciding one day "Right that's it, I'm off." is disrespectful and hurtful.

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bsp77
04/20/22 7:41:46 AM
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Guns_of_Verdun posted...
I think you misunderstood.

I'm not saying "It sucks solely because I just got her some presents." my point was that I wouldn't mind if it was something we discussed and agreed together mutally. Relationships fail every day and solid communication is key.

Just deciding one day "Right that's it, I'm off." is disrespectful and hurtful.
You only answered one question. You seem to be hiding facts.

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Ilishe
04/20/22 7:53:57 AM
#86:


Flockaveli posted...
This woman is really throwing it all away to go hoeing across the world.

Hahaha

She has every right to go see the world. Seeing the world is a great experience.

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MrDrMan
04/20/22 8:01:13 AM
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FelineCyborg posted...
Ok.

TC gave a chick a bunch of gifts and she bounced. Totally reasonable and selfless behavior...

If nobody else will empathize with him I will. If that makes me a child, whatever.

Giving a gift doesnt mean someone owes you something. Its not a gift if so.

Its obviously shitty for TC but that doesnt make her a bad person.


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Hoodroar
04/20/22 8:11:31 AM
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Kinda saddening how it's a foregone conclusion that she'll sleep with other men.

If a CEman decided to travel there'd still be no expectation of him getting laid. >_>

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rexcrk
04/20/22 8:14:14 AM
#89:


Hoodroar posted...
Kinda saddening how it's a forrgone conclusion that she'll sleep with other men.

If a CEman decided to travel there'd still be no expectation of him getting laid. >_>


The average man is un-fuckable. The average woman is blasted with limitless Chad dick.


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MrDrMan
04/20/22 8:30:46 AM
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Guns_of_Verdun posted...
I think you misunderstood.

I'm not saying "It sucks solely because I just got her some presents." my point was that I wouldn't mind if it was something we discussed and agreed together mutally. Relationships fail every day and solid communication is key.

Just deciding one day "Right that's it, I'm off." is disrespectful and hurtful.

Im not saying youre wrong to feel how you feel but maybe it was for the best. Things ending suddenly definitely hurts but the alternative is worse IMO. Ive been in a relationship where we still dated for a year after we both knew we were done. We both wasted our time and that was the worst year of my life.

There is never a right way to end a relationship that one person doesnt want to end. It will hurt regardless. If this is truly what she wanted to do then its a good thing shes not attempting to string you along.

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SlamVook
04/20/22 8:38:52 AM
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She's actually doing you a favor, one day you will understand.

As someone before said, you dont want to be a whole year thinking what is she doing every night or why she hasnt replied to your texts. You are better off without her, it will hurt and it will suck, but you will move on sooner or later. Stay Strong

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Guns_of_Verdun
04/20/22 8:48:38 AM
#92:


SlamVook posted...
She's actually doing you a favor

She really isn't but ok

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Number090684
04/20/22 9:10:30 AM
#93:


FelineCyborg posted...
Yea, and when i do it wont involve taking advantage of people

At least this part of what you said is praiseworthy and a good mentality to have. World is in the fucked up state that it's in because people can't stop screwing other people over.
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angeleyes94
04/20/22 9:24:18 AM
#94:


Yo breh gimme her digits I'll smooth talk her over for you. I know how to ask probing questions. Ayo what netflix show does she like?

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RiKuToTheMiGhtY
04/20/22 12:58:13 PM
#95:


Guns_of_Verdun posted...
She really isn't but ok
Would you rather be locked into a marriage and she did this ??, you would be on the hook for alimony to a woman who is doing a sex tour of the world.

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Strider102
04/20/22 1:07:46 PM
#96:


There's only one thing you can do.

You travel the world first and get blasted by all the chads.

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