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JTilly
04/14/22 10:57:10 PM
#53:


clyde_frog posted...
She has the best ass ngl. Likethe best.
Damn bruh.. sounds like you need to back with her

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clyde_frog
04/14/22 10:58:23 PM
#54:


AlCalavicci posted...
so when did the seizure happen?

Almost exactly when I was supposed to be leaving, so around 12:30-12:35am.

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AlCalavicci
04/14/22 11:00:40 PM
#55:


When did you stop drinking between 10p-12:30a?

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clyde_frog
04/14/22 11:03:16 PM
#56:


Minutes before I made this topic, I told her over the phone that I was breaking up with her for being so insensitive to what happened with me. How the turntables have turned.

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I4NRulez
04/14/22 11:04:12 PM
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Idk I feel like TC is missing details. Normal people don't react like that to a seizure.

There's some history behind a response like that

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Mr_Karate_II
04/14/22 11:07:04 PM
#59:


I4NRulez posted...
Idk I feel like TC is missing details. Normal people don't react like that to a seizure.

There's some history behind a response like that
This

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AlCalavicci
04/14/22 11:07:34 PM
#60:


AlCalavicci posted...
When did you stop drinking between 10p-12:30a?


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A_Good_Boy
04/14/22 11:10:15 PM
#61:


I4NRulez posted...
Idk I feel like TC is missing details. Normal people don't react like that to a seizure.

There's some history behind a response like that
Maybe she's not fully comprehending what it means to have a seizure.

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clyde_frog
04/14/22 11:11:59 PM
#62:


AlCalavicci posted...
When did you stop drinking between 10p-12:30a?

I was sipping on a tequila sunrise just before the seizure

I4NRulez posted...
Idk I feel like TC is missing details. Normal people don't react like that to a seizure.

There's some history behind a response like that

Earlier this week I was set to come over to her house after she got off work at 11pm. I knocked out early at 8pm, woke up at 3am and profusely apologized to her for not coming over. So this is the second time I bailed on her this week. But Ive stayed overnight at her house twice this week as well.

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JTilly
04/14/22 11:12:14 PM
#63:


Did you reply back to her tc?

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clyde_frog
04/14/22 11:12:24 PM
#64:


A_Good_Boy posted...
Maybe she's not fully comprehending what it means to have a seizure.

Shes a nurse, she should absolutely comprehend it.

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bsp77
04/14/22 11:12:48 PM
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I didn't read all responses, and, seizure notwithstanding, you were wrong to hang out with your friends for so long if you had plans and she had a hard day. However, her reaction is NOT okay. No one should deal with that verbal abuse.

I've been through enough shit to know you can't be with people like that. Lots of women are much better than that.

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AlCalavicci
04/14/22 11:12:58 PM
#66:


clyde_frog posted...
I was sipping on a tequila sunrise just before the seizure

and how many drinks did you have in that time period?

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Llaeto7
04/14/22 11:14:42 PM
#67:


clyde_frog posted...
Minutes before I made this topic, I told her over the phone that I was breaking up with her for being so insensitive to what happened with me. How the turntables have turned.

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Llaeto7
04/14/22 11:15:11 PM
#68:


Also what did the Dr in the ER tell you about the seizure?
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Murphiroth
04/14/22 11:16:08 PM
#69:


Her reaction sucks but you were planning on drinking and driving which is shitty in and of itself. You both seem kind of lame tbqh.
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clyde_frog
04/14/22 11:16:46 PM
#70:


JTilly posted...
Did you reply back to her tc?

Nope

bsp77 posted...
I didn't read all responses, and, seizure notwithstanding, you were wrong to hang out with your friends for so long if you had plans and she had a hard day. However, her reaction is NOT okay. No one should deal with that verbal abuse.

I've been through enough shit to know you can't be with people like that. Lots of women are much better than that.

I think what alot of people arent grasping is that my gf made plans with me while I was already with my friends and drinking.

AlCalavicci posted...
and how many drinks did you have in that time period?

Half of a Mikes Hard, 2 beers, and half of a tequila sunrise. Im not a lightweight either. This definitely had something to do with my medication.

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clyde_frog
04/14/22 11:17:48 PM
#71:


Llaeto7 posted...
Also what did the Dr in the ER tell you about the seizure?

Nobody said anything about an ER visit.

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Llaeto7
04/14/22 11:18:48 PM
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clyde_frog posted...
Nobody said anything about an ER visit.

So you had a seizure for the first time in your life and you didn't get immediate medical attention...?

Why not...?
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berlyman101
04/14/22 11:20:23 PM
#73:


go over to talk it out for the make up sex

then break up for the break up sex

then cut bait

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clyde_frog
04/14/22 11:21:27 PM
#74:


Llaeto7 posted...
So you had a seizure for the first time in your life and you didn't get immediate medical attention...?

Why not...?

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bsp77
04/14/22 11:21:42 PM
#75:


clyde_frog posted...
I think what alot of people arent grasping is that my gf made plans with me while I was already with my friends and drinking.
Oh. That looks a lot worse for her then

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AlCalavicci
04/14/22 11:22:17 PM
#76:


clyde_frog posted...
I think what alot of people arent grasping is that my gf made plans with me while I was already with my friends and drinking.

you agreed to those plans bro. she didn't force you into anything

clyde_frog posted...
Half of a Mikes Hard, 2 beers, and half of a tequila sunrise. Im not a lightweight either. This definitely had something to do with my medication.

so this is my breakdown based on what you've said:

-10pm- start hanging out with friends, start drinking
-10:30pm- she messages you to come over, you agree to come over
-12:30am is when you decide to leave
-you have been drinking for 2.5 hrs, 2.5 ish beers, and half of a mixed drink that who knows how strong you made it
-you were drinking for 2 hrs, knowing you were going to leave at 12:30 to drive apparently 40 minutes away to her place
-seizure happens right before you leave the house at 12:30a
-you also admit that just this week you blew her off, so there's is already precedent for her being upset at you blowing her off in this week alone

You made those decisions, TC. You agreed to go to her place and continued drinking. You blew her off earlier in the week. The seizure isn't necessarily your fault if you've already drank before with that medication, but you were still going to drive. I don't want to hear "i'm not a lightweight", that's subjective information and a cop who pulls you over wouldn't see it that way if he detected alcohol in you.

Does your medication have any warning abouts mixing with alcohol and not operating heavy machinery or anything?

It's fucked up for her to say Fuck you after you said you have a seizure, but you already blew her off that week. She probably didn't believe you. Idk man. Not seeing much sympathy for you based on your actions. I do sympathize with having the seizure and I hope you're ok healthwise.

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bsp77
04/14/22 11:24:03 PM
#77:


I also have a problem with girlfriends who message when out with friends and want attention. Or boyfriends. Not a gender thing.

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clyde_frog
04/14/22 11:30:01 PM
#78:


AlCalavicci posted...
you agreed to those plans bro. she didn't force you into anything

Umcorrect? What is your point?

so this is my breakdown based on what you've said:

-10pm- start hanging out with friends, start drinking
-10:30pm- she messages you to come over, you agree to come over
-12:30am is when you decide to leave
-you have been drinking for 2.5 hrs, 2.5 ish beers, and half of a mixed drink that who knows how strong you made it
-you were drinking for 2 hrs, knowing you were going to leave at 12:30 to drive apparently 40 minutes away to her place
-seizure happens right before you leave the house at 12:30a
-you also admit that just this week you blew her off, so there's is already precedent for her being upset at you blowing her off in this week alone

You made those decisions, TC. You agreed to go to her place and continued drinking. You blew her off earlier in the week. The seizure isn't necessarily your fault if you've already drank before with that medication, but you were still going to drive. I don't want to hear "i'm not a lightweight", that's subjective information and a cop who pulls you over wouldn't see it that way if he detected alcohol in you.

Im aware that Im not a lightweight doesnt fly with a police officer. You quite clearly took that bit out of context, as I was specifically referring to the low amount of alcohol catching me off guard. What is with your condescending attitude?


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PatrickMahomes
04/14/22 11:30:51 PM
#79:


clyde_frog posted...
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this seems off. i had a seizure when i was younger but it was like the lightest of seizures to the point where i just barely lost consciousness; my mom still called 911 but when they got there, after checking me out, they said it wasn't necessary, however, you should still go to the ER and get looked at. even if it's a shorty, 911 may not be necessary, but you should definitely still go get looked at

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clyde_frog
04/14/22 11:31:47 PM
#80:


bsp77 posted...
I also have a problem with girlfriends who message when out with friends and want attention. Or boyfriends. Not a gender thing.

She has a long, extensive history of breaking up with me over text or blowing up at me while Im out with friends. Its about as toxic as you could imagine.

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clyde_frog
04/14/22 11:33:21 PM
#81:


PatrickMahomes posted...
this seems off. i had a seizure when i was younger but it was like the lightest of seizures to the point where i just barely lost consciousness; my mom still called 911 but when they got there, after checking me out, they said it wasn't necessary, however, you should still go to the ER and get looked at. even if it's a shorty, 911 may not be necessary, but you should definitely still go get looked at

I suppose I should. Its just that I wasnt in the frame of mind when it happened and the thought to make an ER visit never occurred.

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bsp77
04/14/22 11:35:35 PM
#82:


clyde_frog posted...
She has a long, extensive history of breaking up with me over text or blowing up at me while Im out with friends. Its about as toxic as you could imagine.
That was my ex gf. Who I am ironically sitting with at karaoke right this moment lol

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AlCalavicci
04/14/22 11:36:12 PM
#83:


clyde_frog posted...
Umcorrect? What is your point?

You said what people aren't grasping is that she made plans with you when you were with your bros. She didn't make any plans that you didn't agree to. I don't see this as a mark against her because you could have said no, you'd rather stay with your friends. You didn't do that.

clyde_frog posted...
Im aware that Im not a lightweight doesnt fly with a police officer. You quite clearly took that bit out of context, as I was specifically referring to the low amount of alcohol catching me off guard. What is with your condescending attitude?

My apologies if it came off condescending. But it feels like you weren't giving all context up front when asking CE who was in the right. Now that we've established more context, a lot of what happened could have been avoided by you making different choices. Even if there was no seizure, you still were drinking for 2.5 hours and chose to go drive to her place, which could have been bad in a number of ways.

Does your medication say you shouldn't mix with drinking?


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AlCalavicci
04/14/22 11:37:01 PM
#84:


clyde_frog posted...
She has a long, extensive history of breaking up with me over text or blowing up at me while Im out with friends. Its about as toxic as you could imagine.

As others have said, sounds like there is a lot of toxicity in the relationship

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BeantownHero
04/14/22 11:40:48 PM
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no way this is real lmfao

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PatrickMahomes
04/14/22 11:43:01 PM
#86:


clyde_frog posted...
I suppose I should. Its just that I wasnt in the frame of mind when it happened and the thought to make an ER visit never occurred.
idk how long it's been but yeah ER is probably not necessary since you seem to realize drinking may have been part of the problem; i would stop drinking indefinitely and go see your doctor immediately and go from there

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bsp77
04/14/22 11:45:09 PM
#87:


BeantownHero posted...
no way this is real lmfao
Why? Been there, man. Well, not the seizure part.

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BlackBlueButts
04/14/22 11:45:44 PM
#88:


Sounds like a story you'd read on the relationship or asshole subreddit.

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Unsugarized_Foo
04/14/22 11:49:05 PM
#89:


Mmm, borderline?

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Mr_Karate_II
04/15/22 12:06:25 AM
#90:


Why would you even think about driving after drinking?

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deanshow
04/15/22 12:14:30 AM
#91:


How long was that you started drinking after you took your medication, if you did that you're playing with fire and got burned

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Llaeto7
04/15/22 12:21:19 AM
#92:


clyde_frog posted...
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/0/0/4/AAYr23AADIr0.jpg

That's for people who've already had seizures... you have no idea what happened to you. For all you know you may have a brain tumor.
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bsp77
04/15/22 12:23:23 AM
#93:


Many of the responses here are why CE is toxic

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BeantownHero
04/15/22 12:31:39 AM
#95:


bsp77 posted...
Why? Been there, man. Well, not the seizure part.

It's an almost cartoonish level of inconsiderate

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samurai bandit
04/15/22 12:40:19 AM
#96:


Both of you screwed up. The relationship doesnt seem in a good place for any of you. Unless both are willing to accept your mistakes and work it out then it seems like its not going to end well.

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dj1200
04/15/22 12:42:19 AM
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Well, if you broke up, at least post a pic.

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Gobstoppers12
04/15/22 12:51:05 AM
#98:


clyde_frog posted...
I had 2 beers, half of a Mikes Hard, and then half of a tequila sunrise
That's a pretty significant amount of drinking for a two hour period. Weren't you supposed to be driving soon?

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bsp77
04/15/22 12:53:50 AM
#99:


Gobstoppers12 posted...
That's a pretty significant amount of drinking for a two hour period. Weren't you supposed to be driving soon?
I wouldn't call 3 drinks significant at all. But yeah, driving is questionable

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Gobstoppers12
04/15/22 12:55:29 AM
#100:


bsp77 posted...
I wouldn't call 3 drinks significant at all. But yeah, driving is questionable
Guess it depends on how much tequila was in that tequila sunrise, but point being, it's more than just a casual beer. It kinda seems like it was a whole drinking session right before driving lol

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bsp77
04/15/22 12:59:44 AM
#101:


Gobstoppers12 posted...
Guess it depends on how much tequila was in that tequila sunrise, but point being, it's more than just a casual beer. It kinda seems like it was a whole drinking session right before driving lol
I guess that is all true

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Zazabar
04/15/22 1:07:49 AM
#102:


Even if it's a beer or two spread out over a few hours, anyone who reads that you were drinking before you planned to drive 40 minutes is going to make you look bad, especially if something happens.

I can have a beer and drive perfectly fine. If something negative occurs after the fact on my way to my destination, be it that I had a minor fender bender, bailed on meeting someone, or anything else, it'll 100% make me look bad.

Regardless, I agree with the user who mentioned the make-up/break-up sex.

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