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Ruvan22
04/08/22 4:41:46 PM
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Person106 posted...
You said nothing of the sort. All you said is there's 2 wh/bw couples on CE, which means nothing statistically. I'm not even that interested in numbers, I'm just curious why wh/bw couples are much less common. The data just served to confirm my suspicions (although it honestly seemed like there was more than a 2:1 ratio from just what I've noticed).

I wasn't stating the 2 for 1 was in my original post as much as I was stating that the disparity isn't that big. I wasn't claiming CE was representative, I'm not sure why you would think that? My original post was
Ruvan22 posted...
Might be just what you've seen around you, iirc there's even two posters on CE that are white dudes married to black girls
which is what you Fony was stating.
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Glob
04/08/22 4:43:25 PM
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I think there were only 4 or 5 kids that weren't white.
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CrimsonAngel
04/08/22 4:47:34 PM
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There was one black guy

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Person106
04/08/22 4:48:50 PM
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Ruvan22 posted...
I wasn't stating the 2 for 1 was in my original post as much as I was stating that the disparity isn't that big. I wasn't claiming CE was representative, I'm not sure why you would think that? My original post was

You asked "Are you agreeing with me?" Agreeing about what? 181:100 is a pretty big disparity.
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Lil_Bit83
04/08/22 4:49:29 PM
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Uh, people just hung out with whoever they liked. There were the occasional assholes, but they usually got their asses beat if they pushed too far. Most of the bullying was for the usual petty reasons that people bully others. You were more likely to get called a loser, or made fun of for the way you looked then getting called a racial slur. Mostly white/black/hispanic. Some Asians.

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NoxObscuras
04/08/22 4:50:13 PM
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My high school was a Magnet School in Los Angeles. I would estimate it was about 70% Latin/Hispanic and 30% Black. We didn't have issues with race though. Everyone was cool with everyone. I learned all of the Spanish slang lol.

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ProboBum
04/08/22 4:52:48 PM
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Was fairly normal I suppose, students of many races and backgrounds. There were a few random acts of violence due to racism though. One was a white dude who got laid out for calling a black dude the hard R N-word. Another was a black chick for talking down to another black chick for being a "race traitor" because she was dating a white dude. One really bad one that lead to a student being stabbed (can't remember if he lived or not) this white dude was jumped by a couple other students just because his dad was a racist p.o.s. even though this guy was friendly towards everyone regardless of race.

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NeonOctopus
04/08/22 4:54:10 PM
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Went to a school on a navy base in japan. No racial tensions at all. Now between some of the locals and americans, yes.
Serious question, how well does grounded anime portray japanese high school lol

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Michael_Booth
04/08/22 4:54:46 PM
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My school was 99.9% white (in all years), there was one girl who was Indian in our year, who never had any racism directed to her, and talked to the other students, and was in a lil' group with other white students -- and that was it. So, race relations were great.
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coolboy11
04/08/22 4:54:52 PM
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  • went to a high school in a Conservative Deep South Exurban community in the late aughts/early 2010's.
  • school was about 70% White, 25% Black, with the remainder being a mix of Hispanic kids, and some Asian kids (mainly South Asian)
  • our school was mainly middle class but takes in much of the rural/small cities in the county so it had a much larger working class subsection of students/non white population than the other high school in the county
  • the 08 election was a big flashpoint, several race related fights, many White students expressing their disdain for the thought of a Black liberal president being Black folks in the South many finding out there apparently a ton of non black folk would vote for a Black Liberal president, fun times
  • our nickname was literally based off the CSA from the Civil War era (school founded in 1956) which was a sore spot for many black folks in the community (even had Dixie as the fight song)
  • few of my teachers were black though we did have one black administrator and a few coaches (of course)
  • a lot of my non black classmates/teachers while polite to me came from environments where casual anti blackness was rampant so they were sadly prone to repeating much of the same as "well that's just the way it is" (should be the Southern mantra lol) I didn't have the self esteem to challenge back to this more often sad to admit
  • friend groups were largely segregated and dating was largely the same

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coolboy11
04/08/22 4:55:05 PM
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Person106 posted...
This is off topic, but something I've never understood is why it always seems to be white gals dating black dudes. Have white dudes and black gals signed a contract saying they'll never marry/bang each other?
in my experience black women tend to hang around in more monoracial environments so they don't interact socially as often with non black men, they generally aren't as attracted to white dudes as black men are to white women and non black men genuinely holler at them as much.

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kage_53
04/08/22 4:57:06 PM
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Mine: People of the same race only hanged out with each other.
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Verdekal
04/08/22 4:57:09 PM
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I was the only white kid in an all black school.

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LeoRavus
04/08/22 4:58:18 PM
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We also had some random acts of racism. There was a Jewish geography teacher who'd come into class with nazi symbols all over his chalkboard. It happened on a regular basis and I don't think they ever caught who was doing it. The one Asian kid in the school had racial slurs drawn all over his car in permanent marker. Which I didn't get since he hung out with all the rednecks so I'm not sure who did it

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LeoRavus
04/08/22 5:06:07 PM
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coolboy11 posted...
in my experience black women tend to hang around in more monoracial environments so they don't interact socially as often with non black men, they generally aren't as attracted to white dudes as black men are to white women and non black men genuinely holler at them as much.

I dunno, I've been hit on by many black women. More than white, from middle school through adulthood. I think it may be a case of white men often not being into black chicks

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GrandConjuraton
04/08/22 5:07:12 PM
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There were hardly any people that weren't white, but the school was still full of casual racism in average conversation.

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Ruvan22
04/08/22 5:27:49 PM
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Person106 posted...
You asked "Are you agreeing with me?" Agreeing about what? 181:100 is a pretty big disparity.

2 to 1 is what you consider "a big disparity"? As an analogy if a city had two McDonalds and one Burger King you'd say "it always seems to be McDonalds"?
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g0ldie
04/08/22 5:31:51 PM
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Verdekal posted...
I was the only white kid in an all black school.
how was that like

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chukklez17dc
04/08/22 5:35:55 PM
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Was in high school during the mid 2000's, one time a fake country kid called black kid the n word and started a fight between each other friend groups during gym

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Irony
04/08/22 5:37:49 PM
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I knew a black guy that had a country accent and always wore camo

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SauI_Goodman
04/08/22 7:30:43 PM
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NeonOctopus posted...
Serious question, how well does grounded anime portray japanese high school lol
Wouldnt know. It was the same thing as high school in america. On a base.

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YookaLaylee
04/08/22 7:34:48 PM
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There were thousands of students at the school. Half of them were Asian, and then there was a good mix of Latinos and black kids. I think white students mightve been the minority lol. Nobody seemed to have a problem with hanging out with people other races

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ComfortablySad
04/08/22 7:36:17 PM
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Hypersensitive to a fault.

A white classmate had a black girlfriend for 3 years. She cheated on him and in a fit of rage he called her a n-word slut. He was expelled. Lost his scholarship, turned to drugs, hung himself in prison.

All because of a knee jerk reaction to saying a fucking word while angry.

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xMythic
04/08/22 7:50:09 PM
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They were very good. I went to a small school in a small rural town on a reservation. Had less than 30 kids in my graduating class. About half of us were Native. We all got along well and there were very few instances of racism in school. There were kids who were closet racists, but put on a friendly front in school. I only knew about them because other white students who knew better called them out on it.

The only time I ever experienced racism at school was during away basketball games. Kids from opposing schools in rez border towns were nasty. Their refs were even worse. I got called so many names mid-game from the men who called the games.

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Payzmaykr
04/08/22 7:56:12 PM
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Pretty good. We were all varying degrees of nerds at my school, so most of us got along.

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Babidi123
04/08/22 8:01:25 PM
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I grew up in a prominently upper white middle class neighborhood in the northwest suburbs of Chicago. I would say 85-90% of my high school was white and the rest would be Hispanic and/or Middle Eastern from the surrounding neighborhoods. You could count the amount of Black people on two hands across all four grade classes.
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LeoRavus
04/08/22 11:45:45 PM
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YookaLaylee posted...
There were thousands of students at the school. Half of them were Asian, and then there was a good mix of Latinos and black kids. I think white students mightve been the minority lol. Nobody seemed to have a problem with hanging out with people other races

I always wondered what it would be like going to a school with thousands. I graduated with like 70 people and there were less than 400 in the school. I think the count was 375 when I was a senior.

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dj1200
04/08/22 11:47:12 PM
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they were ok. i went to school with a lot of white kids. some asian kids, some latin kids, and a few black kids.

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LeoRavus
04/08/22 11:49:17 PM
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ComfortablySad posted...
Hypersensitive to a fault.

A white classmate had a black girlfriend for 3 years. She cheated on him and in a fit of rage he called her a n-word slut. He was expelled. Lost his scholarship, turned to drugs, hung himself in prison.

All because of a knee jerk reaction to saying a fucking word while angry.

Holy shit. Sounds like he had way more problems than calling someone the n word.

I mean I can see disciplinary action and maybe counseling for that but expulsion seems way extreme unless he knocked her out or something.

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Person106
04/10/22 1:12:12 AM
#82:


Ruvan22 posted...
2 to 1 is what you consider "a big disparity"?

Yes, statistically it is.

Ruvan22 posted...
As an analogy if a city had two McDonalds and one Burger King you'd say "it always seems to be McDonalds"?

Key word being seems. I said black-white couples always seemed to be black men with white women. In my experience, I almost never saw it the other way around. When this conversation started, I finally looked at data and was surprised to see the disparity was a little less than 2:1. It seemed more like 4:1 prior to that.
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gamepimp12
04/10/22 1:56:31 AM
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My school was the districts pride in joy.

it was one of the more wealthy schools in the district without being overwhelming wealthy, it sat right in the richer and poorer schools on both sides.

it also had direct middle and grade schools that funneled into it.

because of this you have a pretty diverse population where almost everyone at least knew someone they went to kindergarten with, because of that we avoided a lot of the issues most high schools would go have.

i would always remember every time theyd do a student exchange the students never wanted to go back.

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Jabodie
04/10/22 2:06:40 AM
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I graduated hs in 2013 in Texas. Pretty racist... that's about it.

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GameGodOfAll
04/10/22 2:24:02 AM
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Boston Public. I was usually like 1 of 3 or 4 white kids in a class. School was about 45% black 45% hispanic 6% white 4% other. Never had a problem.

4 years and very little racism. The black students did tend to hang out with the other black students and vice versa with Spanish, but never really any race based animosity of note. This was mid 00s. Also surprisingly chill on homophobia given the year. Least from an outsider's perspective. Other than calling everything lame "gay" of course...but that wasn't really anything against gay people.

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YookaLaylee
04/10/22 9:13:45 AM
#86:


LeoRavus posted...


I always wondered what it would be like going to a school with thousands. I graduated with like 70 people and there were less than 400 in the school. I think the count was 375 when I was a senior.

There were 800 kids in my grade but somehow it felt like everyone sort of knew everyone for the most part. The halls were obviously crowded in between each bell but it never really bothered me. The best thing about a big school was that there were too many students for there to really be any cliques

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Solid Snake07
04/10/22 9:32:12 AM
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I went to a high school that was like 50% black and 40% white. I never felt any substantial tension. For the most part social groups did tend to segregate themselves, but thats generally just whats gonna happen naturally. There were definitely generally white and black neighborhoods in the town I grew up in so people were going to hang out with the people they live around. I had a lot of black friends but there were only a few I would regularly hang out with outside of school.

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h23456bca
04/10/22 9:35:12 AM
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I went to a semi rural school in a affluent area. I think my graduating class had 1, maybe 2 black guys and a couple of Latinos. So yeah, not diverse at all. I do remember there being a number of foreign exchange students though. I became really good friends with a guy from Montenegro.

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ECW_Originals12
04/10/22 9:36:21 AM
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ComfortablySad posted...
Hypersensitive to a fault.

A white classmate had a black girlfriend for 3 years. She cheated on him and in a fit of rage he called her a n-word slut. He was expelled. Lost his scholarship, turned to drugs, hung himself in prison.

All because of a knee jerk reaction to saying a fucking word while angry.

I.... really hope this isn't true.
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NoMeLx22x
04/10/22 9:39:55 AM
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My high school had a mix of kids who lived out in the country farm lands, and kids who lived in the run down parts of the town.

The racism was insane. We literally made the local news my junior year of school because we actually had some "race war" stuff going on. A white kid fought a black kid which made a bunch of smaller fights break out amongst them as well. And then all of the racists declared they would wear white shirts to school for the next couple days while the black kids wore black shirts.

Crazy.

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Oubliettes
04/10/22 9:44:13 AM
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when I went there they were absolutely fine. i really can't recall much prejudiced/bigoted behavior. we had a good mix of white, black, and hispanic kids, and outside of isolated incidents, everyone got along. i had plenty of black friends in my classes, and i was a pasty scrawny goth kid.

in the 70s there were race riots though. a black kid got thrown off a balcony iirc

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Dathrowed1
04/10/22 9:59:57 AM
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I went to a mostly black school. Only a couple of racial incidents I remember: one black kid was calling Indian kids Osama and his mom (who worked at the school) corrected him, which the Indian kids had a good laugh at. The other was was some black kids wanted to jump Mexicans and one Mexican who did get jumped was removed from the school (his brothers and uncle stayed though)

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