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Try to date for fun and not be manipulated into thinking paying for a date that doesn't end in a hook up is some type of fail or makes you a "cuck". See it as paying for the chance of a connection, so you don't become jaded like a lot of men around here. Most won't work out. Don't spend what you can't afford to throw away

pretend to be a woman online and engage in cyber sex with men

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Lost_All_Senses posted...

Try to date for fun and not be manipulated into thinking paying for a date that doesn't end in a hook up is some type of fail or makes you a "cuck". See it as paying for the chance of a connection, so you don't become jaded like a lot of men around here. Most won't work out. Don't spend what you can't afford to throw away

I don't even care about fucking tbh I just want the connection

DarthAragorn posted...

I don't even care about fucking tbh I just want the connection

Word. I'm the same. I care more about the feeling of being comfortable doing hobbies with someone else. Most that still applies to finding that. But you checked off the part where you're not vulnerable to becoming jaded over not getting laid for paying for a date.

Not even that, im just tired of feeling used for a free dinner and people can easily just break it off after that with no remorse

I keep trying, but its easy to feel used

am i missing a topic or something, i see nothing about paying for dinner ITT

bnui_ransder posted...

Not even that, im just tired of feeling used for a free dinner and people can easily just break it off after that with no remorse

I keep trying, but its easy to feel used

Man people don't even use me for food lmaooooo

bnui_ransder posted...

Not even that, im just tired of feeling used for a free dinner and people can easily just break it off after that with no remorse

I keep trying, but its easy to feel used

Yeah. If it happens enough times, I get that. A lot don't get to that point before becoming jaded about it tho. You might need a different approach if it's happening to you that much. Do you make sure you offer more than just dinner? Free dinner isn't impressing anyone. That's usually just admission price. You making sure you're good mental stimulation?