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WingsOfGood
01/22/22 4:19:33 PM
#51:


Pepys Monster posted...
I did, and she said I can attend a class on depression that starts in March. That's the quality of help you can expect from the VA. Anyway, I hate my ex-fiancee. I wasn't myself during that time. I was drinking too much, and I don't know what was wrong with me.

Get over both your ex's. Attend therapy to deal with it since you seem unable to let either one go.
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Pepys Monster
01/22/22 4:19:47 PM
#52:


cardoor123 posted...
With you bitching and moaning constantly, I can see why she dumped you and why you're alone. Pathetic.
I'm alone by choice. Several women showed interest in me, and I stopped talking to each of them.

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WingsOfGood
01/22/22 4:22:43 PM
#53:


Pepys Monster posted...
I'm alone by choice. Several women showed interest in me, and I stopped talking to each of them.

Why?
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Pepys Monster
01/22/22 4:24:52 PM
#54:


bsp77 posted...
That is worse than cheating IMO. Being drunk doesn't make you say things you don't harbor within. You meant that. Unless your only goal was to be hurtful then it is possible you didn't mean it.
I disagree. I think that when you're drunk enough, residual feelings you used to have can surface. The brain doesn't function properly while drunk.

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Pepys Monster
01/22/22 4:25:36 PM
#55:


WingsOfGood posted...
Why?
Cause fuck them, that's why. I will wait for my love.

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RenescoStCewl
01/22/22 4:27:32 PM
#56:


Pepys Monster posted...
Sometimes, I would get drunk and say terrible things like "you'll never replace [my ex-fiancee]!" One time, I got really mad at her and told her to get out, even though she lives there too. It breaks my heart, and makes me hate myself to think about it.
Sounds like she dodged a bullet. Jesus christ

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WingsOfGood
01/22/22 4:27:34 PM
#57:


Pepys Monster posted...
I disagree. I think that when you're drunk enough, residual feelings you used to have can surface. The brain doesn't function properly while drunk.

No he is right. That is a you issue.

It is said angry drunks that beat people when drunk are suppressing those emotions. The drink doesn't give it to you out of the blue.

You really had those feelings that she wouldn't replace your ex.
You are continuing this behaviour by acting like your newer ex can not be replaced.
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Pepys Monster
01/22/22 4:32:36 PM
#58:


WingsOfGood posted...
No he is right. That is a you issue.

It is said angry drunks that beat people when drunk are suppressing those emotions. The drink doesn't give it to you out of the blue.

You really had those feelings that she wouldn't replace your ex.
You are continuing this behaviour by acting like your newer ex can not be replaced.
Let's not pretend that alcohol is some kind of truth serum. It isn't. It's a poison that impairs judgement, impairs motor skills in some people, and just impairs the brain in general, I suppose.

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bsp77
01/22/22 4:32:51 PM
#59:


WingsOfGood posted...
You really had those feelings that she wouldn't replace your ex.
You are continuing this behaviour by acting like your newer ex can not be replaced.
I like that. And Pepys, it would be good for you to take this to heart and possibly get help. We aren't trying to pick on you, at least I know I am not.

And Wings, how come you seem so different in this thread and the virgin thread than so many other random topics? Are you often trolling and this is the real you? If that is the case, I like this real you better.

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WingsOfGood
01/22/22 4:33:47 PM
#60:


Pepys Monster posted...
Let's not pretend that alcohol is some kind of truth serum. It isn't. It's a poison that impairs judgement, impairs motor skills in some people, and just impairs the brain in general, I suppose.

The judgement it impairs is that you let out those deep seated issues you try so hard to hide.
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WingsOfGood
01/22/22 4:34:49 PM
#61:


bsp77 posted...
And Wings, how come you seem so different in this thread and the virgin thread than so many other random topics? Are you often trolling and this is the real you? If that is the case, I like this real you better.

? I don't see myself as being any different. People who put value on having tons of sex partners have issues as well.
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bsp77
01/22/22 4:35:03 PM
#62:


Pepys Monster posted...
Let's not pretend that alcohol is some kind of truth serum. It isn't. It's a poison that impairs judgement, impairs motor skills in some people, and just impairs the brain in general, I suppose.
But it doesn't make you say things that are 100% untrue either unless you are only trying to be hurtful. So you were either being at least partially truthful (perhaps subconsciously) or purposefully trying to hurt her. Either way, that is bad.

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bsp77
01/22/22 4:37:44 PM
#63:


WingsOfGood posted...
? I don't see myself as being any different. People who put value on having tons of sex partners have issues as well.
I could be thinking of someone else, but thought I had seen random trolling stuff (not about sex btw)

And oh yes, I agree about people trying to have lots of partners too. I know because I acted that way for a year after my divorce. I was a mess, but it helped deal with my divorce.

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Kiyune
01/22/22 4:47:07 PM
#64:


Pepys Monster posted...
Sometimes, I would get drunk and say terrible things like "you'll never replace [my ex-fiancee]!" One time, I got really mad at her and told her to get out, even though she lives there too.
And you think she'll ever want to go back to that? That she'll ever want you again? You're paying the price for your behavior

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Gobstoppers12
01/22/22 4:49:59 PM
#65:


I don't know why you guys still humor TC in these topics. Clearly they'd rather mope and complain and dwell on the past than actually take steps to improve their situation. Let 'em wallow, if you ask me.

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Pepys Monster
01/22/22 4:53:20 PM
#67:


Gobstoppers12 posted...
I don't know why you guys still humor TC in these topics. Clearly they'd rather mope and complain and dwell on the past than actually take steps to improve their situation. Let 'em wallow, if you ask me.
I'll win her back. I just have to devise how.

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WingsOfGood
01/22/22 4:55:05 PM
#68:


Pepys Monster posted...
I'll win her back. I just have to devise how.

So you are planning to destroy a relationship where she describes that she loves the dude? And this will make you a good man she will want to be with?
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Kiyune
01/22/22 4:55:18 PM
#69:


Pepys Monster posted...
I'll win her back. I just have to devise how.
I'm curious how you'll win her back when she has a better man that doesn't mistreat her

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Pepys Monster
01/22/22 5:02:11 PM
#70:


Kiyune posted...
I'm curious how you'll win her back when she has a better man that doesn't mistreat her
We had wonderful times together too. I'll find a way, because I have to find a way.

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WingsOfGood
01/22/22 5:03:25 PM
#71:


Pepys Monster posted...
We had wonderful times together too. I'll find a way, because I have to find a way.

You realize this is a toxic mindset? You are not only going to hurt yourself but potentially her as well.
Move on.
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yunalenne10
01/22/22 5:04:27 PM
#72:


Have you ever met and talked with her new partner?

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Pepys Monster
01/22/22 5:06:09 PM
#73:


yunalenne10 posted...
Have you ever met and talked with her new partner?
No.

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WingsOfGood
01/22/22 5:18:52 PM
#74:


Does her being happy with him infuriate you?
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bsp77
01/22/22 5:21:08 PM
#75:


Even more pertinent:

WingsOfGood posted...
Does her being happy infuriate you?

I am happy when my exes find someone who makes them happy

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RenescoStCewl
01/22/22 5:21:16 PM
#76:


Pepys Monster posted...
I'll win her back. I just have to devise how.
Now this is just getting creepy. I'm starting to worry for this girls safety.

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Error1355
01/23/22 7:37:31 AM
#77:


Pepys Monster posted...
I'll win her back. I just have to devise how.
This is pathetic.

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marthsheretoo
01/23/22 7:52:33 AM
#78:


Pepys Monster posted...
I'll win her back. I just have to devise how.

Ask her if she likes daggers.

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Zikten
01/23/22 8:01:57 AM
#79:


Just move on. Someone out there you haven't met yet is better than your ex
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Kakapo
01/23/22 8:10:53 AM
#80:


Pepys Monster posted...
She slowly forgets you even exist.

Pepys Monster posted...
My ex-fiancee was an abuser, so I did dodge a bullet there. She left me because I stood up for myself. But this time is different. This is the only relationship I will ever accept again.

Pepys Monster posted...
She saved my life, and put my broken heart back together.

Pepys Monster posted...
It's not the whole story. There were times where I was mean to her, and I regret it very much. There's also more to the story that I don't know.

Pepys Monster posted...
Sometimes, I would get drunk and say terrible things like "you'll never replace [my ex-fiancee]!" One time, I got really mad at her and told her to get out, even though she lives there too. It breaks my heart, and makes me hate myself to think about it.

Sounds like you learned a lot from your ex.

Your most recent ex is better off without you.

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spikethedevil
01/23/22 8:13:22 AM
#81:


Please get professional help for your own mental health and wellbeing.

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MedeaLysistrata
01/23/22 8:15:32 AM
#82:


spikethedevil posted...
Please get professional help for your own mental health and wellbeing.
There's a lot to unpack here, I don't think they would care

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spikethedevil
01/23/22 8:20:36 AM
#83:


MedeaLysistrata posted...
There's a lot to unpack here, I don't think they would care

What?

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MedeaLysistrata
01/23/22 8:21:39 AM
#84:


spikethedevil posted...
What?
N-nothing

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Will_VIIII
01/23/22 10:17:26 AM
#85:


TC is a red flag

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