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Femputer
01/19/22 10:30:16 AM
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feels bad man

Lordy lord this has been the absolute week from hell. Feel like I'm going nuts from all the stress!! Argh!!!!!!!!!!

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Questionmarktarius
01/19/22 10:31:08 AM
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what?
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gunplagirl
01/19/22 10:32:10 AM
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It's a blight on the world to be sure

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Cornmuffins
01/19/22 10:32:17 AM
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Questionmarktarius posted...
what?

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Femputer
01/19/22 10:34:26 AM
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Cornmuffins posted...
what?

https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Transmedicalism

Marginalized people throwing those in their group under the bus in order to gain the approval of cisnormative society at large. radically exclusionary, gatekeeping, and express highly bigoted sentiments

in short they are jerks

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pinky0926
01/19/22 10:36:42 AM
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Femputer posted...


https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Transmedicalism

Marginalized people throwing those in their group under the bus in order to gain the approval of cisnormative society at large. radically exclusionary, gatekeeping, and express highly bigoted sentiments

in short they are jerks

I am even more confused than before your explanation

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Cornmuffins
01/19/22 10:36:43 AM
#7:


Stop being friends with jerks

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Cornmuffins
01/19/22 10:37:41 AM
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pinky0926 posted...


I am even more confused than before your explanation


Also this

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Femputer
01/19/22 10:37:49 AM
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pinky0926 posted...
I am even more confused than before your explanation
I'm fine with that. I didn't make this topic to explain things to ppl. Just venting

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gunplagirl
01/19/22 10:41:56 AM
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Basically they're trans people who use the no true Scotsman stuff on other trans people and ultimately they uphold transphobic sentiments.

"You're not really trans if you don't get all these surgeries" or "you don't put effort into your voice so I'll not properly gender you" types of stuff being common ones.

Basically, they're not just jerks but they should know better and hurt those who are going through the exact same shit as them.

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nfearurspecimn
01/19/22 10:42:29 AM
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ohh... you're hair

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Femputer
01/19/22 10:50:23 AM
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Yes

It's a special kind of hurt when your friend, who you share a common struggle with, decides to throw you to the wolves. When i said "you know that they think I'm a ridiculous freak right" she goes "well...you ARE in a weird place"

Like ok. Thanks. Super great

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Esrac
01/19/22 11:28:07 AM
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pinky0926 posted...
I am even more confused than before your explanation

As per wikipedia:

Transmedicalism is broadly defined as the belief that being transgender is contingent upon experiencing gender dysphoria or wanting medical treatment to transitioning.

I guess, as opposed to, saying you're transgender, despite having no sense of gender dysphoria or any inclination to transition.
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eston
01/19/22 11:30:12 AM
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tfw only works when you post a reaction pic

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Femputer
01/19/22 11:30:47 AM
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eston posted...
tfw only works when you post a reaction pic
O my bad I used it as "that feel when", I though face only applied to mfw

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_Krave_
01/19/22 11:38:42 AM
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It's crazy to think that there are people like this

These shouldn't be problems that people have to deal with in 2022.

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Femputer
01/19/22 2:33:09 PM
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Can I get some opinions gang

https://i.imgur.com/FNQp4gm.jpeg
https://i.imgur.com/0tplbM3.jpeg

https://i.imgur.com/Z3AYfWa.jpeg

https://i.imgur.com/Cyd8vkh.jpeg

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https://i.imgur.com/N49yBWy.jpeg

I haven't responded. Idk if I will. Thoughts?

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Femputer
01/19/22 2:43:37 PM
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Idk. She's being really defensive and multi texting, so maybe what I think about it does actually mean something to her

I don't really have the energy to deal with it this week. This may very well have been the worst week of my life, physically, socially, and emotionally speaking

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Femputer
01/19/22 3:47:00 PM
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Yeah I'm prob giving too much credit

I've had another friend just absolutely wound me this week, so I don't wanna lose anymore lol. Also been getting hounded like mad on reddit, by trans and cis people telling me I ain't one of em

Stress starting to weigh on me :v

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Robot2600
01/19/22 3:50:41 PM
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Chill out and get off reddit. the lgbtq "community" there basically tells everyone to just fuck off and stop being so sensitive.

getting off of queer reddit was the best social-media related decision I've ever made.

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Medussa
01/19/22 3:50:56 PM
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you be the best you you can be. try not to sweat those who say otherwise, and let the labels work themselves out.

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Cokewave
01/19/22 3:57:14 PM
#25:


Trans on Trans VERBAL VIOLENCE

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Tyranthraxus
01/19/22 3:58:51 PM
#26:


Blair White is a transmedicalist

In case anyone is still confused.

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SKAMartist
01/19/22 3:59:23 PM
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Wow that's a new term I haven't heard. I have a friend going through with stuff so I try my best to understand everything even though I'm not part of her group, just solely to support her.

That's ridiculous that they are basically saying their is a standard when nothing about anyone's lives are standard.

We as people all have many many MANY differences in minute ways. You can say you feel closer to a group but that does not mean you are 100% just like that group

It's already a community divided and a lot of people seem to want to keep splitting more and more.

The views in that group seem very troubling

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ElatedVenusaur
01/19/22 4:21:33 PM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

Definitely! Also Ive found a lot of really nice trans people on Twitter who feel really healthy and inclusive.

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Robot2600
01/19/22 4:25:24 PM
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gfaqs is better at least there is less bullshit, even if someone is a transphobe.

ill be real, CE is 10000000% more accepting than the real world of LGBTQIA+

not even being sarcastic

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COVxy
01/19/22 4:26:57 PM
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What's your preferred label/group and why?

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Femputer
01/19/22 4:49:20 PM
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COVxy posted...
What's your preferred label/group and why?
I just say I'm a guy

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greyfox747
01/19/22 4:53:00 PM
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All of my homies hate transmedicalists

life is too short for gatekeeping bullshit. Just let people love frogs and vibe, thats what me maw always told me

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Femputer
01/19/22 5:01:22 PM
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greyfox747 posted...
All of my homies hate transmedicalists

life is too short for gatekeeping bullshit. Just let people love frogs and vibe, thats what me maw always told me
agreed

very very disappointing revelation today. I honestly hate that I can call myself trans, after this week. I'm no longer gonna be active in trans spaces or make my labels known

very sad week

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greyfox747
01/19/22 5:02:18 PM
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Femputer posted...
agreed

very very disappointing revelation today. I honestly hate that I can call myself trans, after this week. I'm no longer gonna be active in trans spaces or make my labels known

very sad week
Oh no, babe

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Kiyune
01/19/22 5:06:25 PM
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This, also your friend doesn't seem like much of a friend at all for disregarding your feelings and pain. Is that someone you want in your life?

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Funkydog
01/19/22 5:08:35 PM
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Femputer posted...
agreed

very very disappointing revelation today. I honestly hate that I can call myself trans, after this week. I'm no longer gonna be active in trans spaces or make my labels known

very sad week
Fuck those trying to do this to you. Don't let them stop you from interacting with a community you want to.

Shit stains will always be shit stains.

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Femputer
01/20/22 12:20:09 AM
#39:


I had such a shitty fucking week you guys

Lost 2 best friends (and I NEVER lose friends)

Another friend relapsed in their addiction to opiates

Got demolished on reddit, discord, and Instagram left and right for being trans, or being cis, or whatever the fuck I can't even keep up

Got an undiagnosed severe health issue that will hopefully be diagnosed tomorrow and not be fucking cancer

Losing weight so rapidly

Losing the will to work

Complete anhedonia

Relapsed on cigs literally TODAY

Arrrgghhhh

if I had a soul this week would have snuffed it out

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nfearurspecimn
01/20/22 12:23:18 AM
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wow I didn't know this was a thing. how awful.

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DeadBankerDream
01/20/22 12:25:18 AM
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gunplagirl posted...
Basically they're trans people who use the no true Scotsman stuff on other trans people and ultimately they uphold transphobic sentiments.

"You're not really trans if you don't get all these surgeries" or "you don't put effort into your voice so I'll not properly gender you" types of stuff being common ones.

Basically, they're not just jerks but they should know better and hurt those who are going through the exact same shit as them.
Oh, like Blair White.

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Femputer
01/20/22 12:32:44 AM
#42:


Yes like her

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SKAMartist
01/20/22 3:25:09 AM
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Femputer posted...
I had such a shitty fucking week you guys

Lost 2 best friends (and I NEVER lose friends)

Another friend relapsed in their addiction to opiates

Got demolished on reddit, discord, and Instagram left and right for being trans, or being cis, or whatever the fuck I can't even keep up

Got an undiagnosed severe health issue that will hopefully be diagnosed tomorrow and not be fucking cancer

Losing weight so rapidly

Losing the will to work

Complete anhedonia

Relapsed on cigs literally TODAY

Arrrgghhhh

if I had a soul this week would have snuffed it out
Damn I don't like coming into contact with people but you need a hug or something

I try to ignore people and say in my own positive zone but I understand with such a huge amount of BS going on that would be hard to do...

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teep_
01/20/22 4:57:04 AM
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Wishing you all the best TC. Keep your head up, you'll get through this

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jumi
01/20/22 5:35:50 AM
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Femputer posted...


https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Transmedicalism

Marginalized people throwing those in their group under the bus in order to gain the approval of cisnormative society at large. radically exclusionary, gatekeeping, and express highly bigoted sentiments

in short they are jerks

From that link: "Anatomy is modifiable surgically and otherwise, but while there are men with vaginas and women with penises, there are no female penises..."

They deny the existence of the feminine penis?! Heresy!

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jumi
01/20/22 5:42:19 AM
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Joking aside, know that whoever you are and whatever you feel is valid, regardless of what gatekeepy assholes say or think.

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Mistere Man
01/20/22 5:56:13 AM
#47:


I really hate to ask, but it is the best way I can learn.

I understand the not transitioning via surgery part as that is pretty clear, but can someone explain the no gender dysphoria part?

I am probably mistaken or forgetting something, but I thought gender dysphoria was basically feeling you were not born the correct gender. Which is why I am confused on this part.

I mean no offense to anyone, I just lack the knowledge on the finer details of all this.


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Femputer
01/20/22 10:27:51 PM
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Femputer posted...
Can I get some opinions gang

https://i.imgur.com/FNQp4gm.jpeg
https://i.imgur.com/0tplbM3.jpeg

https://i.imgur.com/Z3AYfWa.jpeg

https://i.imgur.com/Cyd8vkh.jpeg

https://i.imgur.com/mhdeKjd.jpeg

https://i.imgur.com/N49yBWy.jpeg

I haven't responded. Idk if I will. Thoughts?
do I say anything back or just let it die. We've been good friends for a long time and been through mutual shit

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Kiyune
01/20/22 10:36:42 PM
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Femputer posted...
do I say anything back or just let it die. We've been good friends for a long time and been through mutual shit
Tell them how you feel and that you feel hurt, if they don't apologize or try to make things right, or if they continue with their nonsense, then tell them you can't in good conscience continue the friendship and cut it off. Don't you want friends that respect you and your feelings?

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Femputer
01/20/22 11:03:31 PM
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Told her I think we're at too different a place in life and we should part ways

:(

I've never had to cut out a best friend before. This one hurt

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