Current Events > What's With Women Who Want To Be CHOKED Or PASSED OUT During Sex?

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A surprising amount of women I've met have informed me that

A. They wanted to be choked during sex
B. They wanted or were open to the idea of me making them pass out

Whenever they asked me to do this or talked about this, I always told them that it's not something I do for safety reasons and all. Can someone explain the obsession with "some" women who want to be choked during intimacy?

being choked is awesome. my girlfriend likes it in light moderation

passing out seems way too far though

*provided it's all done safely

PatrickMahomes posted...

being choked is awesome. my girlfriend likes it in light moderation

passing out seems way too far though

*provided it's all done safely

does it provide a high or something? whenever ive gotten choked, it always felt like i was being strangled and my head felt like it would burst

LookMoneyStatus posted...

does it provide a high or something? whenever ive gotten choked, it always felt like i was being strangled and my head felt like it would burst

youre not supposed to try to murder her, just cut off the airway for a bit

because we're a fucked up species with an evolutionary hardwiring linking violence and sex

idk. A chick asked me to do it when I was banging her but I couldn't go through with it. It felt too weird for me >_>

If a woman likes you enough she thinks it's hot to treat her like shit.

I'm actually surprised by the amount of women that have told me to choke them during sex.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erotic_asphyxiation

MetalGearOcto posted...

idk. A chick asked me to do it when I was banging her but I couldn't go through with it. It felt too weird for me >_>

at least you would have the skills to resuscitate(wow I spelled that right on the first try) her though

Besides having to do with the domination/abuse kink...

If you grip a person's neck the right way you restric airflow and blood flow. Think of all the ways humans have tried to get high from inhalants and it's kinda similar to that. I like it. It's even better when you don't have to tap out because the guy can figure out a kind of rhythm of pressure and release.

I'll be in my bunk

Do you want a genuine, long winded answer that you promise not to quote bits and pieces of asking for me to repeat what I just said?

Or do you want a short meme-ified version of why?

I actually have a weird issue with touching my neck, since it always tennis l reminds me how easily I die or be severely disabled if it were harmed, and sometimes I will visualize some of the blood gushing out of it.

So it's difficult for me to aggressively handle another neck.

Youre not murdering people during coitus, you goof.

gunplagirl posted...

Do you want a genuine, long winded answer that you promise not to quote bits and pieces of asking for me to repeat what I just said?

Or do you want a short meme-ified version of why?

do the long way

PatrickMahomes posted...

do the long way

I was asking tc

gunplagirl posted...

I was asking tc

No you werent.

gunplagirl posted...

Do you want a genuine, long winded answer that you promise not to quote bits and pieces of asking for me to repeat what I just said?

Or do you want a short meme-ified version of why?

@gunplagirl
Longwinded version, please. Don't worry, I won't quote to bits

One time I was with a crazy girl, normal til we took it between the sheets. We started getting into it, then she slapped me in the face and yelled "Hit me back, bitch!"

I didnt. She got mad and rubbed her hand up her ass crack and smacked me again with the same hand. She started in "you like that? You're a dirty bitch aren't you?"

This went on for only a couple minutes, I came in like 20 seconds.

One of my exes was into that. And that's about as far I'd go with her kinks. She wanted me to punch her to and I was like nah not gonna do that lol

MabusIncarnate posted...

One time I was with a crazy girl, normal til we took it between the sheets. We started getting into it, then she slapped me in the face and yelled "Hit me back, bitch!"

I didnt. She got mad and rubbed her hand up her ass crack and smacked me again with the same hand. She started in "you like that? You're a dirty bitch aren't you?"

This went on for only a couple minutes, I came in like 20 seconds.

hot

LookMoneyStatus posted...

@gunplagirl
Longwinded version, please. Don't worry, I won't quote to bits

All right. Let's start with the basic parts about how the lack of air in general can be really good feeling. You might recall the knock out game from a few years ago because of... What was that app before tiktok? Anyways, it can borderline make you feel high from the light headedness.

Of course I'll have to remind you, if you've never done it before be sure she tells you how to do it. If you press on the vein parts to cut the blood flow you're good. If you press on the front, you're gonna injure or kill her.

Now this is where I mention the whole sexual submissive nature that's expected of women. Our culture and most others expect women to kinda just take whatever they get and enjoy it. Then there's the fact that in America especially, there's plenty of kinks but the number of acceptable ones to joke about or talk about are pretty small because of our cultural fixations on purity and other bullshit. For heterosexual girls that means the number of options they have for sexual kink exploration is pretty small. Spanking, name calling, finishing on her, and choking (be it on a body part or being choked at the neck by a hand) are the main ones, and maybe trying anal. It's regrettable, but not the main focus. Basically, all of those have the woman as the one receiving targeted applications of force. And it really does turn on a bunch of women when they get that focused type of physical harm done to them. A good hurt, as people usually put it.

Most importantly of all, for heterosexual women especially, there's the fact that there's a power imbalance between her and her partner. Like, just in general. But especially during those types of sexual acts. Voluntary helplessness of women is fetishised in our culture, insert link to some princess and her brave knight trope article here. For them, knowing your partner could kill you if he wanted is a really big turn on to many of them.

Then for girls such as myself with some deeper than surface level experience with BDSM stuff (purple bruises that last for days and hurt to sit on in turn acting as a reminder of that moment and thus leaving a nice sexy reminder at later random moments like getting into a chair for a meal), well. There's a lot more going on, the whole idea that you trust them and give up control and leave them in charge. It's just a nice thrill. Especially if they have the right attitude, like for me personally them being really receptive and sweet and calling me sweetheart during and after is so nice. But others might like indifferent reactions from someone who knows what they're doing.

And lastly, I mean. If you're being choked during sex it'll amplify the experience because you're enjoying multiple kinds of good feels. So basically, you're able to mix all these psychological and physical good feels together and literally get left breathless and just. It's a really wonderful experience that's common and culturally acceptable enough that most girls (well, hereto ones at least) know about it through word of mouth and have been able to receive it during sex before. So uh. Knowledge in turn gets passed along more and more. And it being something simple and easy to throw in mid sex means it's something a lot of us might want if we liked it.

Again, it's surface level BDSM stuff. But the concepts of voluntary helplessness still apply. Giving up control can be really empowering, but that would require an entirely new explanation for it. So uh. I think I've rambled enough and I hope I've answered your question, TC. tl;dr Feels good, mang.

MabusIncarnate posted...

Reminds me of that greentext that was like "older woman ruined me, she called me good boy during and pulled me close to her chest and told me to cum for mommy, I exploded like I've never done before, I can never go back"

ultimate reaver posted...

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erotic_asphyxiation

Same reason this is a thing-- cutting off air flow heightens the sensation.

Huh.

gunplagirl posted...

Reminds me of that greentext that was like "older woman ruined me, she called me good boy during and pulled me close to her chest and told me to cum for mommy, I exploded like I've never done before, I can never go back"

Fuck I want a mommy gf

gunplagirl posted...

Reminds me of that greentext that was like "older woman ruined me, she called me good boy during and pulled me close to her chest and told me to cum for mommy, I exploded like I've never done before, I can never go back"

Lmao

WorsCaseOntario posted...

Fuck I want a mommy gf

I had a big tiddy goth mommy dommy gf once.

God, I miss her.

This woman on my Facebook keeps posting shit like if you choke me during sex and the sex isn't good then I'm calling the police

LookMoneyStatus posted...

Can someone explain the obsession with "some" women who want to be choked during intimacy?

Literally any one of the surprising amount of women you mentioned

Irony posted...

This woman on my Facebook keeps posting shit like if you choke me during sex and the sex isn't good then I'm calling the police

lmao

sounds fair

Irony posted...

This woman on my Facebook keeps posting shit like if you choke me during sex and the sex isn't good then I'm calling the police

Let me guess, she's white?

gunplagirl posted...

Let me guess, she's white?

Nope black

Irony posted...

Nope black

Damn that's surprising

gunplagirl posted...

Damn that's surprising

Why

I dunno, I dont ask questions - it allows for my mind to create inane scenarios about why though

Shoot first, ask questions later

[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

Something about joking about contacting a militarized force with a history of racially disparate outcomes and being a member of a racial minority group which in turn results in being more wary of police interactions. I think.

I've got a pretty simple explanation. All right. Let's start with the basic parts about how the lack of air in general can be really good feeling. You might recall the knock out game from a few years ago because of... What was that app before tiktok? Anyways, it can borderline make you feel high from the light headedness.

Of course I'll have to remind you, if you've never done it before be sure she tells you how to do it. If you press on the vein parts to cut the blood flow you're good. If you press on the front, you're gonna injure or kill her.

Now this is where I mention the whole sexual submissive nature that's expected of women. Our culture and most others expect women to kinda just take whatever they get and enjoy it. Then there's the fact that in America especially, there's plenty of kinks but the number of acceptable ones to joke about or talk about are pretty small because of our cultural fixations on purity and other bullshit. For heterosexual girls that means the number of options they have for sexual kink exploration is pretty small. Spanking, name calling, finishing on her, and choking (be it on a body part or being choked at the neck by a hand) are the main ones, and maybe trying anal. It's regrettable, but not the main focus. Basically, all of those have the woman as the one receiving targeted applications of force. And it really does turn on a bunch of women when they get that focused type of physical harm done to them. A good hurt, as people usually put it.

Most importantly of all, for heterosexual women especially, there's the fact that there's a power imbalance between her and her partner. Like, just in general. But especially during those types of sexual acts. Voluntary helplessness of women is fetishised in our culture, insert link to some princess and her brave knight trope article here. For them, knowing your partner could kill you if he wanted is a really big turn on to many of them.

Then for girls such as myself with some deeper than surface level experience with BDSM stuff (purple bruises that last for days and hurt to sit on in turn acting as a reminder of that moment and thus leaving a nice sexy reminder at later random moments like getting into a chair for a meal), well. There's a lot more going on, the whole idea that you trust them and give up control and leave them in charge. It's just a nice thrill. Especially if they have the right attitude, like for me personally them being really receptive and sweet and calling me sweetheart during and after is so nice. But others might like indifferent reactions from someone who knows what they're doing.

And lastly, I mean. If you're being choked during sex it'll amplify the experience because you're enjoying multiple kinds of good feels. So basically, you're able to mix all these psychological and physical good feels together and literally get left breathless and just. It's a really wonderful experience that's common and culturally acceptable enough that most girls (well, hereto ones at least) know about it through word of mouth and have been able to receive it during sex before. So uh. Knowledge in turn gets passed along more and more. And it being something simple and easy to throw in mid sex means it's something a lot of us might want if we liked it.

Again, it's surface level BDSM stuff. But the concepts of voluntary helplessness still apply. Giving up control can be really empowering, but that would require an entirely new explanation for it. So uh. I think I've rambled enough and I hope I've answered your question, TC. tl;dr Feels good, mang.