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Master Kazuya
09/03/21 10:49:29 PM
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Sometimes girls will act into me, laugh a little extra at my jokes, look to me frequently for my reactions, engage me if I'm around, place themselves near me, etc

And then the next day or next time I see them, they're cold. They act like they want nothing to do with me and only engage in a distant way.

Is this her changing her mind that she doesn't like me anymore? Or maybe doesn't like me that day? Is it her way of seeing if I really am desperate for her attention? Does she still like me but needs some space to process it more objectively?

I just never really understood why this happens.

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Smackems
09/03/21 10:50:06 PM
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Maybe you're cool one day but you suck the next

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Big_Nabendu
09/03/21 10:51:46 PM
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They probably heard you speak

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Pepys Monster
09/03/21 11:16:18 PM
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Good question, TC. The only logical conclusion I can arrive at is that she decided she likes some other guy better.

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Flockaveli
09/03/21 11:19:16 PM
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Depends on how the guy she actually likes treats her that day.

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JTilly
09/03/21 11:19:44 PM
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Came to her senses. Came in some instances might have more than one meaning
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Ser_Jaker
09/03/21 11:20:32 PM
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She's scoping you out and seeing if your worth her time


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Lairen
09/03/21 11:26:39 PM
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What the fuck does act into someone mean?

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QueenCarly
09/03/21 11:29:06 PM
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You're hot then you're cold
You're yes then you're no
You're in then you're out
You're up then you're down

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Master Kazuya
09/04/21 8:21:14 AM
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dolomedes posted...
don't you have good days and bad days?

Yeah but if I like someone, I don't scurry away

Lairen posted...
What the fuck does act into someone mean?

It seems like she likes me


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Master Kazuya
09/04/21 8:22:02 AM
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QueenCarly posted...
You're hot then you're cold
You're yes then you're no
You're in then you're out
You're up then you're down

Katy was onto something, that songs been in my head since I made topic

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Master Kazuya
09/04/21 1:49:50 PM
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Last bump

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trillgully
09/04/21 1:52:38 PM
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Easy. It depends on whos around if she will be warm or cold to you. If someone she likes
more is around, or if someone that knows the person she likes more is around, then shell be cold. Youre only Alpha until someone more Alpha comes around.

it could also be how youre dressed. Maybe she doesnt like what you have on when shes being cold.

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SSJPurple
09/04/21 1:54:55 PM
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There are like a million possible variables at play here lol

It could have nothing to do with youits possible she has stuff going on in her personal life you dont know about. Sometimes people can come off as cold or disinterested when their mind is on something else in their life possibly stressing them out.

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kage_53
09/04/21 1:56:06 PM
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Because they are playing mind games. Youre basically their back up option.
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trillgully
09/04/21 1:57:48 PM
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Bottom line is, if shes being warm one minute and cold the next, dont engage with her. She doesnt really like you and shell play you when given the chance.

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spanky1
09/04/21 2:10:58 PM
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Some guys would say if you're too available or share too much then a woman will get bored of you.
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JimmyFraska
09/04/21 2:13:20 PM
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I'd say there's a 20% chance it's on her, and an 80% chance it's something you did. If the last interaction with her was great, and you left her feeling good, then there's no reason for her to be cold.

THough, her being cold tells me, it's you trying to contact her, yes? There's your problem.
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