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Ermac 07/25/21 5:24:29 PM #1:	Lets say you still have feelings and nothing went wrong In what circumstance would they want to leave --- We are many, you are but one <cite>Ermac posted [p:956454042] in Is it ok t... [t:79582719]...</cite> <quote>Lets say you still have feelings and nothing went wrong In what circumstance would they want to leave </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BloodMoon7 07/25/21 5:25:58 PM #2:	Yes. There are many reasons. --- My maid will hear about this. <cite>BloodMoon7 posted [p:956454067] in Is it ok t... [t:79582719]...</cite> <quote>Yes. There are many reasons. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
furb 07/25/21 5:26:29 PM #3:	Yes like if their behavior is harmful or dangerous to you or others. You can still love that person but being harmed in a the process is an obvious bail. --- You know how fads are. Today it's brains, tomorrow, pierced tongues. Then the next day, pierced brains. -Jane Lane <cite>furb posted [p:956454077] in Is it ok t... [t:79582719]...</cite> <quote>Yes like if their behavior is harmful or dangerous to you or others. You can still love that person but being harmed in a the process is an obvious bail. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RedJackson 07/25/21 5:35:17 PM #4:	I think about this often since I did exactly just that I just felt she needed someone else, that she needed to fulfill this idea or image of a perfect marriage to someone religious to fix herself and her relationship with her mother. It wasnt going to happen with me though, I dont think I was there at her religious level and I expressed that to her but she kinda played it off. Wed get into fights over our views (mine being much more lax, hers being much more strict since she sang at a church and was involved with all of that) and she was incredibly insecure, she would always blow up and get mad at me for simple shit like taking a free sample from a lady or ordering food at a diner. It just felt like she wasnt ever going to feel good unless she was dating the perfect Christian or something >_> --- https://imgur.com/ibuqBTh - https://imgur.com/L5vXdS5 https://imgur.com/bve6U7T - <cite>RedJackson posted [p:956454291] in Is it ok t... [t:79582719]...</cite> <quote>I think about this often since I did exactly just that I just felt she needed someone else, that she needed to fulfill this idea or image of a perfect marriage to someone religious to fix herself and her relationship with her mother. It wasnt going to happen with me though, I dont think I was there at her religious level and I expressed that to her but she kinda played it off. Wed get into fights over our views (mine being much more lax, hers being much more strict since she sang at a church and was involved with all of that) and she was incredibly insecure, she would always blow up and get mad at me for simple shit like taking a free sample from a lady or ordering food at a diner. It just felt like she wasnt ever going to feel good unless she was dating the perfect Christian or something >_> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
mooreandrew58 07/25/21 5:40:25 PM #5:	If it's toxic sure. Like the person I loved most was a toxic relationship. I ended up on drugs was slowly having a wedge driven between him and my mother cause they didnt like each other. He failed but always got bitchy about me having any friends. Yeah I had to get out of that. Fact I never stopped loving him has been a major hang up on me ever finding love again though. Always end up comparing and nobody just makes me feel as good. How can someone compete with the romantic even if idiotic gesture of walking 20 miles in the rain just so we could curl up on the couch and watch a movie? --- Cid- "looks like that overgrown lobster just got served!" Bartz-"with cheese biscuts AND mashed potatoes!" <cite>mooreandrew58 posted [p:956454426] in Is it ok t... [t:79582719]...</cite> <quote>If it's toxic sure. Like the person I loved most was a toxic relationship. I ended up on drugs was slowly having a wedge driven between him and my mother cause they didnt like each other. He failed but always got bitchy about me having any friends. Yeah I had to get out of that. Fact I never stopped loving him has been a major hang up on me ever finding love again though. Always end up comparing and nobody just makes me feel as good. How can someone compete with the romantic even if idiotic gesture of walking 20 miles in the rain just so we could curl up on the couch and watch a movie? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lairen 07/25/21 5:42:00 PM #6:	Man up and say you want to fuck someone else. --- When it rains, it pours. <cite>Lairen posted [p:956454473] in Is it ok t... [t:79582719]...</cite> <quote>Man up and say you want to fuck someone else. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 07/25/21 6:01:05 PM #7:	If you want to leave someone and don't, it's toxic. Unless it's just a period of doubt. --- Name checks out "Try to talk and they ain't listening, but they'll point it out when you get ignorant" - Dreezy <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:956454967] in Is it ok t... [t:79582719]...</cite> <quote>If you want to leave someone and don't, it's toxic. Unless it's just a period of doubt. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
masticatingman 07/25/21 6:14:51 PM #8:	You can love somebody for real and there still be extenuating circumstances. Such as mounds of previous life baggage that just will never go away with that other person. --- To/fro from-towards <cite>masticatingman posted [p:956455330] in Is it ok t... [t:79582719]...</cite> <quote>You can love somebody for real and there still be extenuating circumstances. Such as mounds of previous life baggage that just will never go away with that other person. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ermac 07/25/21 6:35:46 PM #9:	furb posted... Yes like if their behavior is harmful or dangerous to you or others. You can still love that person but being harmed in a the process is an obvious bail. that would imply something went wrong which isnt the question im asking RedJackson posted... It just felt like she wasnt ever going to feel good unless she was dating the perfect Christian or something >_> different views like that can be considered a problem especially if it was a mutual disagreement, its pretty fair Lairen posted... Man up and say you want to fuck someone else. Honesty > loyalty --- We are many, you are but one <cite>Ermac posted [p:956455918] in Is it ok t... [t:79582719]...</cite> <quote>furb posted... </cite> <quote>Yes like if their behavior is harmful or dangerous to you or others. You can still love that person but being harmed in a the process is an obvious bail.</quote> that would imply something went wrong which isnt the question im asking RedJackson posted... </cite> <quote>It just felt like she wasnt ever going to feel good unless she was dating the perfect Christian or something >_></quote> different views like that can be considered a problem especially if it was a mutual disagreement, its pretty fair Lairen posted... </cite> <quote>Man up and say you want to fuck someone else.</quote> Honesty > loyalty </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ermac 07/25/21 6:39:49 PM #10:	Lost_All_Senses posted... If you want to leave someone and don't, it's toxic. Unless it's just a period of doubt. A period of doubt implies theyll get back together. If they dont, was it a mistake? masticatingman posted... You can love somebody for real and there still be extenuating circumstances. Such as mounds of previous life baggage that just will never go away with that other person. that implies something went wrong --- We are many, you are but one <cite>Ermac posted [p:956456026] in Is it ok t... [t:79582719]...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted... </cite> <quote>If you want to leave someone and don't, it's toxic. Unless it's just a period of doubt.</quote> A period of doubt implies theyll get back together. If they dont, was it a mistake? masticatingman posted... </cite> <quote>You can love somebody for real and there still be extenuating circumstances. Such as mounds of previous life baggage that just will never go away with that other person.</quote> that implies something went wrong </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
haloiscoolisbak 07/25/21 6:46:15 PM #11:	you can do whatever you like so 'its okay' in one sense but don't judge the other person for not taking it well that's what bothers me, when people hurt people then can't understand why they start acting different --- Started from the bottom now we here <cite>haloiscoolisbak posted [p:956456222] in Is it ok t... [t:79582719]...</cite> <quote>you can do whatever you like so 'its okay' in one sense but don't judge the other person for not taking it well that's what bothers me, when people hurt people then can't understand why they start acting different </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DespondentDeity 07/25/21 6:47:12 PM #12:	How can you really love someone you cant leave? --- The web of destiny carries your blood and soul back to the Genesis of my life form. I'm softer than a daisy, if you cut me I'll bleed pink <cite>DespondentDeity posted [p:956456251] in Is it ok t... [t:79582719]...</cite> <quote>How can you really love someone you cant leave? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 07/25/21 7:19:23 PM #13:	Ermac posted... A period of doubt implies theyll get back together. If they dont, was it a mistake? I meant concealed doubt when you're still together. Wondering to yourself if other paths would be better. I think that's a normal thing and you should spend time thinking it over before you jump the gun. This stuff probably is more likely to come up when asked to take the next step into marriage or having a child. I think it's unreasonable to expect someone to just be able to jump on board immediately with the idea just because they love you or been with you a long time. Both sides being able to not rely on pressure to fet what they want is really important to a healthy relationship. But I think a lot of the times people aren't capable of that and they'll consider any doubt you have as you doing something wrong. That's a slippery slope. Also potentially when one side becomes dominant and the other becomes submissive. Because one person will make you into the bad one for not "loving" them how they view love should be and the other giving up their own perspective to try to fit the others in a insincere but trying way. This is why relationships are so tricky. You really gotta make sure you can communicate. If I was in a relationship, I'd have no problem saying everything I just said to a partner to see what their reaction would be. Because that would be very valuable insight to have before committing to being more than just friends having fun. --- Name checks out "Try to talk and they ain't listening, but they'll point it out when you get ignorant" - Dreezy <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:956457107] in Is it ok t... [t:79582719]...</cite> <quote>Ermac posted... </cite> <quote>A period of doubt implies theyll get back together. If they dont, was it a mistake?</quote> I meant concealed doubt when you're still together. Wondering to yourself if other paths would be better. I think that's a normal thing and you should spend time thinking it over before you jump the gun. This stuff probably is more likely to come up when asked to take the next step into marriage or having a child. I think it's unreasonable to expect someone to just be able to jump on board immediately with the idea just because they love you or been with you a long time. Both sides being able to not rely on pressure to fet what they want is really important to a healthy relationship. But I think a lot of the times people aren't capable of that and they'll consider any doubt you have as you doing something wrong. That's a slippery slope. Also potentially when one side becomes dominant and the other becomes submissive. Because one person will make you into the bad one for not "loving" them how they view love should be and the other giving up their own perspective to try to fit the others in a insincere but trying way. This is why relationships are so tricky. You really gotta make sure you can communicate. If I was in a relationship, I'd have no problem saying everything I just said to a partner to see what their reaction would be. Because that would be very valuable insight to have before committing to being more than just friends having fun. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
masticatingman 07/25/21 7:21:29 PM #14:	Ermac posted... A period of doubt implies theyll get back together. If they dont, was it a mistake? that implies something went wrong No it doesnt. Somebody elses life baggage is stuff that came before their relationship with you. --- To/fro from-towards <cite>masticatingman posted [p:956457164] in Is it ok t... [t:79582719]...</cite> <quote>Ermac posted... </cite> <quote>A period of doubt implies theyll get back together. If they dont, was it a mistake? that implies something went wrong</quote>No it doesnt. Somebody elses life baggage is stuff that came before their relationship with you. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ermac 07/26/21 5:27:42 PM #15:	DespondentDeity posted... How can you really love someone you cant leave? How does that make sense? haloiscoolisbak posted... that's what bothers me, when people hurt people then can't understand why they start acting different Some people set rules for others that they cant follow --- We are many, you are but one <cite>Ermac posted [p:956485539] in Is it ok t... [t:79582719]...</cite> <quote>DespondentDeity posted... </cite> <quote>How can you really love someone you cant leave?</quote> How does that make sense? haloiscoolisbak posted... </cite> <quote>that's what bothers me, when people hurt people then can't understand why they start acting different</quote> Some people set rules for others that they cant follow </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GMAK2442 07/26/21 5:28:53 PM #16:	I doubt it's what should be done. Also, I say that to be Respectful, you need to have a reason to leave someone. --- Prosperity and Peace! 77 <cite>GMAK2442 posted [p:956485569] in Is it ok t... [t:79582719]...</cite> <quote>I doubt it's what should be done. Also, I say that to be Respectful, you need to have a reason to leave someone. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ermac 07/26/21 6:12:15 PM #17:	GMAK2442 posted... I doubt it's what should be done. Also, I say that to be Respectful, you need to have a reason to leave someone. took 16 posts --- We are many, you are but one <cite>Ermac posted [p:956486775] in Is it ok t... [t:79582719]...</cite> <quote>GMAK2442 posted... </cite> <quote>I doubt it's what should be done. Also, I say that to be Respectful, you need to have a reason to leave someone.</quote> took 16 posts </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DespondentDeity 07/26/21 8:42:23 PM #18:	Ermac posted... How does that make sense? Youre fuckin shittin me right? Like youre not legit that dense? Promise? --- The web of destiny carries your blood and soul back to the Genesis of my life form. I'm softer than a daisy, if you cut me I'll bleed pink <cite>DespondentDeity posted [p:956491416] in Is it ok t... [t:79582719]...</cite> <quote>Ermac posted... </cite> <quote>How does that make sense?</quote> Youre fuckin shittin me right? Like youre not legit that dense? Promise? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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