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would you ever allow dem to stay at home, never going outside, never looking for work and basically having no motivation at all to do anything?

how long until you threaten to kick em out?
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If they're not pulling down six figures by 8, they're out the door.

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i wouldn't kick them out but id hound them day and night to get a job, help them write cover letters, resumes, find jobs, prep them for interviews, teach them how to budget, etc.

being a parent doesnt' stop at 18

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I feel like I'd be cool with them staying at home, but they'd at least have to work at being self-sufficient.

not necessarily because I'd be adverse to supporting them, but because I won't always be around.

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I will not allow my kids to fail. I'll give them tough love and motivational speeches.

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Dis seems like an autobiographical question
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_BlueMonk posted...

i wouldn't kick them out but id hound them day and night to get a job, help them write cover letters, resumes, find jobs, prep them for interviews, teach them how to budget, etc.

being a parent doesnt' stop at 18

Being a parent never stops. Cause when your kids are older and this go wrong, even though they have a wife and kids, they should still be able to come ask you for help or advice.

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They can stay as long as they're employed, actively trying to gain employment, or going to/actively taking steps to further their education.

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nah I couldn't od what your parents do for you sorry

Your NEET daughter says, "Hey, ugly fuck, is it okay if I keep living here without paying rent?"

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My son turned 17 this month. He is on the spectrum and struggles with just about everything, mostly because hes stubborn and narrow minded. My husband already talks about building an ADU for our son to live in, but I think my husband is selling our son short. He is lazy, yes, but I think hell find his niche and do okay for himself.

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I wish I had lived at home longer. So easy to save up money.

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As long as theyre working toward something to better themselves, id let them stick around

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Would I allow them to become kings, in other words?

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I could never kick my baby out.

I would push her to work or go to college or a trade school. but i could never force her out.

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AzNDarkSamurai posted...

As long as theyre working toward something to better themselves, id let them stick around

In dis scenario, dey aren't
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Hmm
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