Current Events > A girl invited me on a cross-country trip to go to a concert in Alabama.

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DeadmansGun
07/24/21 12:16:38 AM
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I've known her since about jr. high, but we've always just been friends. She had a boyfriend who went to jail before for beating her up. Apparently, he did it again, and she texted me about a week or so ago to say they broke up and said that we can talk again.

She got some tickets to a concert, but it's all the way in Alabama. We're in the southwestern U.S. She was supposed to go to the concert with her now ex, so she invited me to go with her. She's been calling me to talk about random crap (music, movies, TV shows, etc.) for the past few days.

If we go on this trip, it'll probably take multiple days to get to the concert and back. Should I go? I consider her a friend, but I would bang, tbh. I'm not looking for a relationship or anything tho, and I doubt she is either.
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What_
07/24/21 12:17:37 AM
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Sounds like a bad idea tbh
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Dark_SilverX
07/24/21 12:18:12 AM
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the woods of alabama are great for sex.

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Eramir
07/24/21 12:18:57 AM
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Nah I wouldn't. Short notice and too much signs of crazy.

Honestly I just hit it before and after her trip.
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DeadmansGun
07/24/21 12:19:08 AM
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Dark_SilverX posted...
the woods of alabama are great for sex.


I've never been to Alabama lol, but sounds cool lol.
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Ruvan22
07/24/21 12:19:36 AM
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Dark_SilverX posted...
the woods of alabama are great for sex.

Is that your favorite place to take each new date?
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DeadmansGun
07/24/21 12:19:44 AM
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Eramir posted...
Nah I wouldn't. Short notice and too much signs of crazy.

Honestly I just hit it before and after her trip.


I moved out of state, so that's not doable yet. She keeps telling me to come visit her tho.
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berlyman101
07/24/21 12:20:16 AM
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yeah definitely bang her and move states

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Dark_SilverX
07/24/21 12:21:16 AM
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Ruvan22 posted...
Is that your favorite place to take each new date?


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WingsOfGood
07/24/21 12:24:48 AM
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If your intention is to bang her, don't.
If your intention is to be her male friend she leans on and nothing more then gom if you would enjoy it ofc.
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DeadmansGun
07/24/21 12:26:32 AM
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WingsOfGood posted...
If your intention is to bang her, don't.
If your intention is to be her male friend she leans on and nothing more then gom if you would enjoy it ofc.


https://i.imgur.com/BwrPXvT.gif
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Dark_SilverX
07/24/21 12:26:52 AM
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DeadmansGun posted...
I moved out of state, so that's not doable yet. She keeps telling me to come visit her tho.
she ready go hit dat shit bruh.

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DeadmansGun
07/24/21 12:28:27 AM
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Dark_SilverX posted...

she ready go hit dat shit bruh.


I just might lol. I'm not sure if I want to go on the trip tho. It could be fun, but I wasn't really planning to go on a big road trip like that this year. Maybe I can just go visit her instead.
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Naysaspace
07/24/21 12:28:37 AM
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you're the rental car she rides before she buys

"just to see what it's like with soemone else"

If you are legit friends, go, but absolutely do not expect to have sex with her.

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WingsOfGood
07/24/21 12:28:59 AM
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DeadmansGun posted...
https://i.imgur.com/BwrPXvT.gif

What are you like the creepy guy who been her friend for years hoping to find her in a sad emotional state so you get your lifelong dream fulfilled or something?
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dj1200
07/24/21 12:29:09 AM
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Id go. Pics of girl?

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DeadmansGun
07/24/21 12:29:47 AM
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WingsOfGood posted...


What are you like the creepy guy who veen her friend for years hoping to find her in a sad emotional state so you get your lifelong dream fulfilles or something?


No, just the friend who banged other girls while she banged other guys.
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WingsOfGood
07/24/21 12:31:19 AM
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DeadmansGun posted...
No, just the friend who banged other girls while she banged other guys.

So has she hinted she wants sex or to pursue you in any way?
Obviously your friend is in a vulnerable state at the moment. But it seems you just want to make her another sexual conquest.
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Ruvan22
07/24/21 12:31:31 AM
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Naysaspace posted...
you're the rental car she rides before she buys

"just to see what it's like with soemone else"

If you are legit friends, go, but absolutely do not expect to have sex with her.

Giggity
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Naysaspace
07/24/21 12:32:32 AM
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by rides i mean "talks to and flirts with and hey maybe even sends a nude or 2".

But TC will 100% never bang her

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Naysaspace
07/24/21 12:33:16 AM
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WingsOfGood posted...
Obviously your friend is in a vulnerable state at the moment. But it seems you just want to make her another sexual conquest.
but yeah basically this.

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DeadmansGun
07/24/21 12:35:03 AM
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yemmy
07/24/21 12:36:54 AM
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Where in Alabama?

And yes pics of girl

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WingsOfGood
07/24/21 12:37:35 AM
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DeadmansGun posted...
Shes the one been calling me. I didnt hit her up. Lmao

Because when you are sad and feel lonely, you talk to your friends to try and push through.
She thinks you are a true friend. It seems you might just want to bang her? Idk, you be honest with yourself. I am just a stranger on the internet.

If you know 100% she would never fuck you, would you even remotely consider this trip let alone actually still talk to her?
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Solid Snake07
07/24/21 12:40:38 AM
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Dark_SilverX posted...
the woods of alabama are great for sex.


No they aren't, it's humid as shit here and there are a ton of insects. Maybe during the couple of weeks it's actually nice between summer and fall.

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DeadmansGun
07/24/21 1:02:08 AM
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yemmy posted...
Where in Alabama?

And yes pics of girl


I dunno where yet. And no pics. Just picture a brunette Italian girl with blue eyes and big boobs.
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g0ldie
07/24/21 1:04:45 AM
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considering who the TC is (SMaL), I call bullshit

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BloodMoon7
07/24/21 1:09:46 AM
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Alabama SMASH

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DeadmansGun
07/24/21 1:17:19 AM
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pfh1001
07/24/21 2:11:38 AM
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How much is this trip going to cost you? Can you afford it? Can you afford to take a bunch of time off work?

Personally, I wouldn't do it. Even if you are trying to score, she's thrown up a huge red flag that would make me stay away.
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RedJackson
07/24/21 2:12:41 AM
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DeadmansGun
07/24/21 2:16:41 AM
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pfh1001 posted...
How much is this trip going to cost you? Can you afford it? Can you afford to take a bunch of time off work?

Personally, I wouldn't do it. Even if you are trying to score, she's thrown up a huge red flag that would make me stay away.


Well, probably not too much. She already has the tickets. If we end up driving, maybe $1,000 at most? (gas, food, the occasional motel stay, etc.) According to GPS, Alabama is about 25 hours from me, so we could make it in about 3 days if we drive a little over 8 hours per day, which isn't that bad.

She's also trying to get a job at a private jet company as a receptionist or something. She used to work at a different one not too long ago. She said if she gets the job, we might even be able to take a private jet lol. /shrug

The trip wouldn't be until November, and I could easily afford it. I work for myself, so I just have to make sure I have nothing scheduled that week.

RedJackson posted...
Doooo eeeeet


Assuming she doesn't change her mind later, I theeeeeeeeenk I wiiiiiiilll.
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DeadmansGun
07/24/21 3:05:04 AM
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DeadmansGun
07/25/21 1:56:27 AM
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