Poll of the Day > Attractive SINGLE Men have their SEXUALITY Questioned but NOT Ugly Single Men...

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EvilMegas posted...

Hey, if you want to go down this road. White men made are societal norms this way. It's white dudes fault it's seen as weak to get professional help in America.

Although I don't live in America but yeah I agree.
Men have done a lot of this to ourselves.
Why do we men have to be so toxic to eachother?

We should all be brothers and help eachother instead of making fun of someone's shortcomings.

FrndNhbrHdCEman posted...

Im a gay and black. I suffered from major depressive disorder most my early teenage years. Shits only as fruitless as you let it get. So dont use that my lifes worse bullshit with me.
Youve gotta get up and tell yourself no thanks and keep pushing towards the improvement. So if ya want to lay down wallow thats on you fam. But take accountability or dont be shocked when people get tired of your excuses.

I never said my life is the worst.
I know that my life is rather decent in comparison to others.

I just typed another longass post(and erased most of it) and I just remembered this is a Duckbear topic and not a topic about my mental health.

I'm so sorry for derailing the topic, guys.
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deoxxys posted...

I doubt this will change the mind of anyone in denial but I made poll on CE:

<u>"Is it much easier for women to get laid/get dates?"</u>
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/400-current-events/79558830

Yes=96.3% Its equal=3.64 No=0%
Total number of votes = 55

They all voted that way because you included "get laid" instead of separating it.
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No this doesn't work for me. While attractive folk have no issue getting laid that doesn't mean they must and for sure doesn't indicate their sexuality. I mean if they were homosexual they would still be getting laid by that dumb logic. I will say though as a unattractive virgin guy in their 30's some will believe I have underlining issues and are probably right so I can't knock that though process. However I've never had my sexuality questioned.

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wwinterj25 posted...

No this doesn't work for me. While attractive folk have no issue getting laid that doesn't mean they must and for sure doesn't indicate their sexuality. I mean if they were homosexual they would still be getting laid by that dumb logic. I will say though as a unattractive virgin guy in their 30's some will believe I have underlining issues and are probably right so I can't knock that though process. However I've never had my sexuality questioned.

It's even more nonsensical when you consider how pervasive internet hookup culture is these days. When I was growing up in the 90s people did assume that a hot single guy was gay because he didn't have a girlfriend. It was dumb then but its much dumber now because lots of straight men DON'T want traditional girlfriends in the first place. They can have (insert any number of) "hoes" and you wouldn't see them going out showing off with a regular girl. It's all casual hookup.

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MeteoricBurst posted...

It's even more nonsensical when you consider how pervasive internet hookup culture is these days. When I was growing up in the 90s people did assume that a hot single guy was gay because he didn't have a girlfriend. It was dumb then but its much dumber now because lots of straight men DON'T want traditional girlfriends in the first place. They can have (insert any number of) "hoes" and you wouldn't see them going out showing off with a regular girl. It's all casual hookup.

Agreed. People assume things way too much.

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Toxic masculinity

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Zeus posted...

I think it's usually easier, unless you're in a very conservative part of the country

Easier in that men even gay ones tend to have low standards on personality they just want sex.

Easier too that most gay people tend to be liberal. Let me tell ya looking for a guy when you support even some conservative ideals makes things a tad difficult.

But out here in the sticks where I live its definitely playing on hard mode. I've only fucked around with 2 people in the past 10 years (both recent history actually) but I ended up having to say fuck it and either them or I drive hours out of our way

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MeteoricBurst posted...

It's even more nonsensical when you consider how pervasive internet hookup culture is these days. When I was growing up in the 90s people did assume that a hot single guy was gay because he didn't have a girlfriend. It was dumb then but its much dumber now because lots of straight men DON'T want traditional girlfriends in the first place. They can have (insert any number of) "hoes" and you wouldn't see them going out showing off with a regular girl. It's all casual hookup.

Guess I was born in the wrong decade then.
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