Current Events > Feel like I'm in my prime (24) but letting it waste socially

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Getting more fit, have a good decent paying job, have a little shadowing gig on the weekend, live a pretty boring life otherwise though. I have a hard time getting any matches I like on Hinge/Tinder, and Ive had Bumble for 5 years but 0 dates from that app so I deleted it. How do people meet other people outside of work (which is now remote lol) and going to bars/clubs?

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Go to bars, concerts, or conventions.

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you went out during the entirety of the pandemic...and yet you still feel like you're wasting your life?
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Do you actually wanna be social though? Like, if being social doesn't make you happy, I wouldn't force yourself to do it. Don't worry about what everyone else is doing. Like, I'd much rather be at home playing vidya than socializing.

Not to say you should be a shut in though. :v But like, spend your free time doing what makes you happy.

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DeroIin posted...

Getting more fit, have a good decent paying job, have a little shadowing gig on the weekend, live a pretty boring life otherwise though. I have a hard time getting any matches I like on Hinge/Tinder, and Ive had Bumble for 5 years but 0 dates from that app so I deleted it. How do people meet other people outside of work (which is now remote lol) and going to bars/clubs?

Don't worry about women right now.

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Meetup works wonders

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I like being social

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No bars huh?... I really dont know. I mean what kind of hobbies do you like? I've met friends at 4x4 meet ups or fishing.

Maybe join a club that your interested in now that people are eager to do the same.

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Flamer_Blue posted...

Don't worry about women right now.

This. As a guy, you'll have more success once you've built up your wealth & status for a few years. You can try to find chicks, but it will be easier in your 30s.

You are. You'll regret it in a decade if you don't invest yourself now.

Don't worry dude I didn't even begin to hit my stride til I was in my late 20s. There's no timeline

I don't smoke or drink or dance etc. I meet people through sports -- rock climbing, running. I joined the local clubs and had an instant group of friends

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Go to bars, concerts, or conventions.

I do go to bars and clubs. And Im going to rolling loud next month for a festival in Miami with my buddy

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