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SomeGuyUO
05/06/21 11:53:20 AM
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There's too much overlap most of the time.
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teep_
05/06/21 11:53:59 AM
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Tag cause I haven't really figured this out yet either
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Lost_All_Senses
05/06/21 11:54:44 AM
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You ask?

You say "Hey slut, you just being friendly? Or you trying to see what this peepee do?"

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RaulJenkins
05/06/21 11:55:13 AM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
You ask?

You say "Hey slut, you just being friendly? Or you trying to see what this peepee do?"

Exactly

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SaltyWet
05/06/21 11:55:23 AM
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With me, it's always friendly

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Flockaveli
05/06/21 11:55:32 AM
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Don't worry about it if they haven't clearly expressed romantic interest in you.

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teep_
05/06/21 11:56:14 AM
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Flockaveli posted...
Don't worry about it if they haven't clearly expressed romantic interest in you.

what do you mean by 'romantic interest'?

Like, I know what you mean, but how would they express it?
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nothanks1
05/06/21 11:56:35 AM
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They all want the computer cheeto dick imo
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R1masher
05/06/21 11:57:16 AM
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Pfft, they aint breaking these defenses

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voldothegr8
05/06/21 11:58:28 AM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
You ask?

You say "Hey slut, you just being friendly? Or you trying to see what this peepee do?"

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Dreepapult
05/06/21 11:59:16 AM
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Make a really bad joke and see if she still laughs

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Veggeta X
05/06/21 11:59:53 AM
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If she likes you then you'd already know.

Is what my female friends tell me.

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Lost_All_Senses
05/06/21 12:00:28 PM
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Foreal tho. I always just told them and then if they didn't want to commit to me, I just became their equal friend and kepty options open. The one time, she ended up hooking me up with her friend and then acting surprised when we actually did stuff.

If you can accept that you don't always get 100% of what you want, it's way easier. If she's not a good friend, be nothing.

This girl use to call me and just start singing and I thought that shit was awesome, so she stuck around.

The only fucked up part is that I continued to pursue her even when I got a different gf >_>.

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Dakimakura
05/06/21 12:17:09 PM
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Dreepapult posted...
Make a really bad joke and see if she still laughs

If they don't laugh then that means you are already dating.


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Esrac
05/06/21 12:21:28 PM
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There is a lot of overlap.

Basically, you just have to ask her out. If she really likes you, she'll make time to go.
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Pus_N_Pecans
05/06/21 12:22:38 PM
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Admittedly, there's a lot of overlap, and it's going to be different in every case, but generally speaking, if she goes out of her way to spend time with you, finds subtle ways to get touchy feely, or flirts with you often enough, she's probably interested to some degree, but it really depends on what her personality is like, and how she acts when she's around other people can usually tell you a lot too.

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Irony
05/06/21 12:22:47 PM
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Esrac posted...
There is a lot of overlap.

Basically, you just have to ask her out. If she really likes you, she'll make time to go.
But what if she doesn't and say ewww

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Ermac
05/06/21 12:27:13 PM
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You get to know them better

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BakonBitz
05/06/21 12:31:50 PM
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There's really no way you can know, honestly. There's some women who are actually flirty but that's just how they are and aren't actually interested. Came across a couple who were like that.

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sktgamer_13dude
05/06/21 12:33:34 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
You ask?

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Jiek_Fafn
05/06/21 12:40:16 PM
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A lot of women bounce back and forth with their feelings about me. There's a lot of women I know that have claimed that I'm not their type that would later come clean about having a crush on me at some point but no longer feel that way. Often these are things that aren't even told directly to me.

So now I just assume everyone secretly wants to fuck me. Chicks, dudes, plants, animals--it doesn't matter. Everybody

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Lost_All_Senses
05/06/21 12:53:22 PM
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Jiek_Fafn posted...
So now I just assume everyone secretly wants to fuck me

Now that's just silly!

*Smiles at you and plays with hair*

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thronedfire2
05/06/21 1:08:49 PM
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I dont.

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Flockaveli
05/06/21 1:53:56 PM
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teep_ posted...
what do you mean by 'romantic interest'?

Like, I know what you mean, but how would they express it?
I've literally heard everything from "When are you gonna take me out on a date " to "Sooo we should fuck."

If you're ugly and women haven't approached you directly and made their intentions clear don't worry about it. They'll be blunt if you "play dumb" hard enough like I do. Until then you're just friends or she's just the type to flirt for fun/jokingly, be happy you're at least getting that much attention and not just nothing at all, like most men.

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Flockaveli
05/06/21 1:55:19 PM
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jeffhardyb0yz posted...
Most women arent going to clearly express romantic interest. They need you to help them out
Yeah but it's a good thing I don't need "most women". Roll with what cards you're dealt and make the most of it. Can't have them all.

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ElatedVenusaur
05/06/21 1:59:49 PM
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Women are no more certain of anything than we are. Like, I remember a friend of mine telling me about a stretch in her relationship with her now-husband where she was avoiding him because she was certain he was going to break up with her(he was intending no such thing).
The best things you can do is be clear and not to pressure her. Women are understandably leery of men, so it's vital to respect her space(physical and emotional) and her decisions. Respect her in action. Even if you don't get with her, it pays to have a rep as some one who is respectful and trustworthy(women absolutely warn each other about creeps, so add that to the bottom of the very long list of reasons to not be a f***ing creep).
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Zanzenburger
05/06/21 2:03:37 PM
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Sometimes you just have to go for it and prepared to be wrong. It's a fine line, and it varies by the person. I've misread hints before and asked out girls who clearly weren't romantically interested in me. But then I asked out a girl who was and she's now my wife. It's trial and error, really. And you have to be willing to take a chance of being wrong. You might get lucky and have a girl that's much more direct, but that's typically more the exception than the rule.

Though according to my wife, I'm also naturally flirty with women, which has caused some awkward situations where a woman thinks I'm hitting on her and tells my wife about it. Fortunately, she knows me too well to know that I don't have any mal intentions and it's just my personality.

EDIT: lol typo

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CelestialVoices
05/06/21 2:05:49 PM
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i don't. i can never tell. whichever i think it is i'm wrong
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The Trent
05/06/21 2:07:03 PM
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i can tell when her eyes dilate when she gazes into my penis

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philsov
05/06/21 2:08:54 PM
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Tell the girl you're interested in her and see how she deals with this information. Ask her out, e.g.
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teep_
05/06/21 2:13:51 PM
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Flockaveli posted...
If you're ugly and women haven't approached you directly and made their intentions clear don't worry about it. They'll be blunt if you "play dumb" hard enough like I do. Until then you're just friends or she's just the type to flirt for fun/jokingly, be happy you're at least getting that much attention and not just nothing at all, like most men.

That's fair

The only time I recognised it in the moment was when she asked me where I liked to ...end... on a woman
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Lost_All_Senses
05/06/21 2:21:51 PM
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teep_ posted...
That's fair

The only time I recognised it in the moment was when she asked me where I liked to ...end... on a woman

When you're in her bedroom, you run over to the closet and get it on as much as possible.

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teep_
05/06/21 2:22:14 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
teep_ posted...
That's fair

The only time I recognised it in the moment was when she asked me where I liked to ...end... on a woman

When you're in her bedroom, you run over to the closet and get it on as much as possible.

This was over Snapchat <_<
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ROOTFayth
05/06/21 2:22:57 PM
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if you're good looking and/or charismatic she's probably interested and flirting, if not she's probably just being friendly or courteous

seriously though it's very obvious when a girl is into you, if you can't tell she probably just isn't into you
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Lost_All_Senses
05/06/21 2:23:08 PM
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teep_ posted...
This was over Snapchat <_<

You should of sent back a pic with jizz covering half the camera.

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teep_
05/06/21 2:26:24 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
teep_ posted...
This was over Snapchat <_<

You should of sent back a pic with jizz covering half the camera.

eeeehhhhh

That would have been as gross as it would have been amazing
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Lost_All_Senses
05/06/21 2:28:23 PM
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teep_ posted...
eeeehhhhh

That would have been as gross as it would have been amazing

Ok. I got a different one.

Get a bunch of paper towels and stick them to the wall by your bed. So it looks like you just jizz in napkins and stick them to your wall then pass out.

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teep_
05/06/21 2:28:57 PM
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Why not the ceiling?
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Zanzenburger
05/06/21 2:29:04 PM
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JACKBUTTMOMMY posted...
lol

She's not your wife!1!
Good catch lol

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Lost_All_Senses
05/06/21 2:29:39 PM
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teep_ posted...
Why not the ceiling?

Like you cover your dick with the napkin and it shoots them up fo the ceiling? ...yes

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AsucaHayashi
05/06/21 2:30:23 PM
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when her ankles are behind her neck(and you didn't put them there)

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PatrickMahomes
05/06/21 2:33:38 PM
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if she's a waitress/bartender/similar tip-based role, then she is definitely flirting and wants to bang you

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Flockaveli
05/06/21 2:34:07 PM
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ROOTFayth posted...
if you can't tell she probably just isn't into you


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Pus_N_Pecans
05/06/21 3:09:43 PM
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Jesus, this topic sure got gross quick.

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Lost_All_Senses
05/06/21 3:10:59 PM
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Pus_N_Pecans posted...
Jesus, this topic sure got gross quick.

Don't judge use for what we decide to do with our cum.

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