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fuming
04/12/21 1:44:54 PM
#101:


MrFingers07 posted...
Mind elaborating on post 89 further? Did your parents forced you into activities that you really did not want to do or something? And then witness your achievements in a field that you couldn't care less?

I don't really wanna get into it, but I'll just say generally speaking, everything was always about them, with little thought given to my own desires or comfort. And this continued into my adulthood where my parents sabotaged me to force me to go to college nearby so that I could not escape them. A lot of the time parents feel narcissistically entitled to their children and their lives in unhealthy ways and my partner had similar experiences to me that just really turned us off from the idea of being parents ourselves.
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Zodd3224
04/12/21 2:01:48 PM
#102:


fuming posted...
I don't really wanna get into it, but I'll just say generally speaking, everything was always about them, with little thought given to my own desires or comfort. And this continued into my adulthood where my parents sabotaged me to force me to go to college nearby so that I could not escape them. A lot of the time parents feel narcissistically entitled to their children and their lives in unhealthy ways and my partner had similar experiences to me that just really turned us off from the idea of being parents ourselves.

So with this knowledge in hand you could make sure not to make the same mistakes as your parents. That's usually on my mind with my kids, don't do what my parents did.

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AtelierRyza3462
04/12/21 2:19:38 PM
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MedeaLysistrata
04/12/21 2:23:01 PM
#104:


It's probably rewarding and you get out what you put into it. But imo a human life shouldn't be that kind of risky experiment, so probably not for me.

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masticatingman
04/12/21 2:25:17 PM
#105:


I think plenty of later parents honestly just have kids so they have something to do, and/or fulfill their otherwise now-pointless lives.

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RaulJenkins
04/12/21 2:28:19 PM
#106:


AtelierRyza3462 posted...

LMFAO

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The Trent
04/12/21 4:04:45 PM
#108:


my kindergartener made me a picture of grogu and the mandolorian at school one day
it was fuckin dope, she rocks

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sLaCkEr408___RJ
04/12/21 4:26:58 PM
#110:


Conflict posted...
This is completely different from what cuh was talking about.
https://youtu.be/rPqfLdpImRo?t=10
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Lairen
04/12/21 4:28:01 PM
#111:


You sound like your mother.

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Number090684
04/12/21 4:50:13 PM
#113:


RaulJenkins posted...
I mean, this is why I wouldn't be able to have kids

don't trust myself enough so I'll stay far away

This sounds kind of sus and really justifies the person you just quoted.
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MrDrMan
04/12/21 5:56:11 PM
#114:


skermac posted...
adults

I just went and got a new car today. Have fun with those kids though lmao.

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The Trent
04/12/21 5:57:35 PM
#115:


MrDrMan posted...
I just went and got a new car today. Have fun with those kids though

Lmao I have both!

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BloodMoon7
04/12/21 6:02:51 PM
#116:


Sitting here eating some caramel popcorn, thinking about how much I hate it.

But at least there are no snot nosed brats around, getting their piss and poo covered grubby hands on it.

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brestugo
04/12/21 6:04:03 PM
#117:


sLaCkEr408___RJ posted...
Tagged as 99.9999% experience with women
lmao

+1

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MrDrMan
04/12/21 6:07:42 PM
#118:


sLaCkEr408___RJ posted...
Tagged as 99.9999% experience with women

Sounds pretty accurate.


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MrDrMan
04/12/21 6:07:55 PM
#119:


The Trent posted...
Lmao I have both!

Congrats but thats not the life for me.

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The Trent
04/12/21 6:08:32 PM
#120:


MrDrMan posted...
Congrats but thats not the life for me.

Oh well bad news buddy I won't be satisfied until you have a kid

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BloodMoon7
04/12/21 6:10:01 PM
#121:


The Trent posted...
Oh well bad news buddy I won't be satisfied until you have a kid
Are you offering yourself/your partner here or...

Cause that sounds kinda hawt

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MrDrMan
04/12/21 6:10:29 PM
#122:


The Trent posted...
Oh well bad news buddy I won't be satisfied until you have a kid

Let me borrow your wife for a weekend and Ill get right on that.

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The Trent
04/12/21 6:10:51 PM
#123:


BloodMoon7 posted...
Are you offering yourself/your partner here or...

Cause that sounds kinda hawt

No I am offering moral support and distant encouragement

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MrDrMan
04/12/21 6:12:42 PM
#124:


The Trent posted...
No I am offering moral support and distant encouragement

Thats no fun.

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The Trent
04/12/21 6:18:59 PM
#126:


Hey buddy this ain't some kinda ebrothel breeding pen

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BloodMoon7
04/12/21 6:19:51 PM
#127:


The Trent posted...
Hey buddy this ain't some kinda ebrothel breeding pen
Mods are asleep, release Mara.

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The Trent
04/12/21 6:20:11 PM
#128:


BloodMoon7 posted...
Mods are asleep, release Mara.

I dont watch that weaboo shit

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BloodMoon7
04/12/21 6:21:54 PM
#129:


The Trent posted...
I dont watch that weaboo shit
He's a penis demon.

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The Trent
04/12/21 6:22:37 PM
#130:


No u

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Hipparmchia
04/12/21 6:22:48 PM
#131:


I told you to stop calling me Mara

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The Trent
04/12/21 6:24:02 PM
#133:


leverageblargh posted...
What's a penis demon

Nothing, whatsa penis demon you?

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BloodMoon7
04/12/21 6:24:37 PM
#134:


The Trent posted...
No u
The response here should've been "that's what she said". Get it together man.

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The Trent
04/12/21 6:25:23 PM
#135:


BloodMoon7 posted...
The response here should've been "that's what she said". Get it together man.

I'm not in the business of doing what should be done

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BloodMoon7
04/12/21 6:28:03 PM
#136:


The Trent posted...
I'm not in the business of doing what should be done
Stop having children.

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The Trent
04/12/21 6:29:05 PM
#137:


BloodMoon7 posted...
Stop having children.

I got my two, man, I'm well done on that front

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skermac
04/12/21 6:31:53 PM
#138:


Number090684 posted...
IMO Having a kid is terrible if you aren't well off and live in a good neighborhood. Even then do you really want to bring another soul into this world to suffer given the harsh direction the world is heading in? That is the biggest moral dilema I have when it comes to having kids.

thw world has always been terrible and harsh its a poor excuse not to have kids imo

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Solid Snake07
04/12/21 6:43:50 PM
#139:


Lonestar2000 posted...
So your wife has to shoulder the majority of the burden? You sure do sound like a great husband.


No? She takes care of most of the childcare responsibilities cause she doesn't work. Which is how she prefers it, atleast until our girl is in school.

I wouldn't call that "shouldering the majority of the burden". I have a full time career and bring home the vast majority of our household income. And I'm not saying I do nothing with my daughter, but I'm pretty much working all day 5-6 days a week.

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TheAnthraxBunny
04/12/21 7:06:35 PM
#140:


I dont want any to due to mine and my familys history of bad mental health. Ive was suicidal for almost my entire life, but for the past 4ish years things have been great and Ive been getting my shit together. The problem is I never treated my depression; it just sort of went away. Im worried that making any huge life changes like that might put me back in that place and Im terrified of it.

Im also just not that interested in having kids to begin with. I doubt Ill regret it. Im really good at not letting things bother me once theyre out of my control.

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IfGodCouldDie
04/12/21 11:08:53 PM
#141:


fuming posted...
I don't really wanna get into it, but I'll just say generally speaking, everything was always about them, with little thought given to my own desires or comfort. And this continued into my adulthood where my parents sabotaged me to force me to go to college nearby so that I could not escape them. A lot of the time parents feel narcissistically entitled to their children and their lives in unhealthy ways and my partner had similar experiences to me that just really turned us off from the idea of being parents ourselves.
This is the kind of thing that really makes me sad for other people. They feel so damaged by their parents that they don't believe they could be better.

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AuraBlaze1
04/13/21 12:13:13 AM
#143:


IfGodCouldDie posted...
This is the kind of thing that really makes me sad for other people. They feel so damaged by their parents that they don't believe they could be better.

The sad part is the shit job their parents did and not that they didn't become parents. If a child doesn't exist they don't need to do better. While trauma may give a person insight on what not to do to a child, it doesn't teach them what they should be doing instead. I honestly doubt most parents even bother doing any research or training in child rearing.

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IfGodCouldDie
04/13/21 1:08:04 AM
#144:


AuraBlaze1 posted...
The sad part is the shit job their parents did and not that they didn't become parents. If a child doesn't exist they don't need to do better. While trauma may give a person insight on what not to do to a child, it doesn't teach them what they should be doing instead. I honestly doubt most parents even bother doing any research or training in child rearing.
Yes?

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sLaCkEr408___RJ
04/13/21 2:42:22 AM
#145:


IfGodCouldDie posted...
Yes?
I don't understand this question
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IfGodCouldDie
04/13/21 2:47:30 AM
#146:


sLaCkEr408___RJ posted...
I don't understand this question
I agree with him but am unsure of why he quoted me, because what he said doesn't really add or detract from what I said.

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BloodMoon7
04/13/21 2:49:00 AM
#147:


Children are smelly

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Ilishe
04/13/21 3:48:43 AM
#148:


NoxObscuras posted...
The hell kind of mindset is that?

A very ill mindset.

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