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Pome
04/08/21 12:27:04 PM
#51:


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omg there are so many where to even start like there's brown spots in my grass, i have to replace a bunch of landscaping, some stupid broad at my office came to work with covid, my game of thrones shoes are getting a bit worn out, i think my dog is going deaf, my parents laid a big guilt trip on me about not coming to see them in a few months

like which one do you even want to talk about man
Everyone has their problems but you don't have to pretend to befriend me and then put me down when I'm vulnerable and alone.
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The Trent
04/08/21 12:29:08 PM
#52:


Pome posted...
Everyone has their problems but you don't have to pretend to befriend me and then put me down when I'm vulnerable and alone.

dude i'll be your friend i didn't know you were vulnerable and alone but to be friends we have to talk about my problems too let's start with the brown spots in the grass do you think it's a fungus or cinch bugs or what

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Machete
04/08/21 12:29:47 PM
#53:


Pome posted...

That's an extreme analogy. Getting a girl is a good thing. Cutting your arm off is not. The process of getting a girl is what scares you because you aren't good at it. But that's easy to fix. I used to be like that too.


Again, you are not listening. The more I am expected to chase, the less I am interested. "Bend over backwards and jump through hoops to chase me" is literally a turn off for me. Think of a food you find disgusting. You can't be taught to like it. You can't "get better at" liking it. You either like it or you don't. Taste can change, but you don't have control over that. My taste in women hasn't changed. I am put off by being expected to chase. It is a matter of preference. "You have to go to the ends of the earth to chase me" gets the same mental response from me as "I am an anti-vax q anon believing flat earther trump supporter." I don't want anything to do with that.
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Guide
04/08/21 12:32:10 PM
#54:


That's not really a relationship tho

And I mean, I think I would get it if I ever had to try.

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Machete
04/08/21 12:32:30 PM
#55:


Pome posted...

Girls are just like men, incredibly shallow.


And this hammers my point in further. This is a major turn off and I won't pursue her if she is shallow because she's already crossed off the list. I'm highly unattracted to people like that.
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No_U_L7
04/08/21 12:39:31 PM
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Veggeta X
04/08/21 12:53:12 PM
#57:


No_U_L7 posted...
Ew
Why

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No_U_L7
04/08/21 1:06:41 PM
#58:


Veggeta X posted...

Why


guys, the OP is trolling y'all based off the perception of what people think pick up artists think, instead of what pick up artists actually think. i'm in a staff meeting, but i'll type out all the reasons how i know the OP is full of BS right after
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philsov
04/08/21 1:08:13 PM
#59:


Pome posted...
We get no joy from having sex or being in a long term loving relationship.


that sounds miserable. Sex and love are awesome for me.
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Veggeta X
04/08/21 1:32:10 PM
#60:


No_U_L7 posted...
guys, the OP is trolling y'all based off the perception of what people think pick up artists think, instead of what pick up artists actually think. i'm in a staff meeting, but i'll type out all the reasons how i know the OP is full of BS right after
Can't wait

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CyricZ
04/08/21 1:41:25 PM
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No_U_L7 posted...
i'm in a staff meeting
A pick-up artist staff meeting?

No wonder you guys do numbers. Organization, yo.

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WingsOfGood
04/08/21 1:59:38 PM
#62:


Pome posted...
We just want to get approval from as many partners as possible


Holy

An actually honest pua.

You are desperate for approval, that is why you pua.
Which is ironic since part of pua is to pretend like you don't crave this.
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Veggeta X
04/08/21 2:00:59 PM
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The only approval I need is from my fellow CEmen

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Veggeta X
04/08/21 2:01:07 PM
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And Cewomen

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WingsOfGood
04/08/21 2:03:43 PM
#65:


No_U_L7 posted...
guys, the OP is trolling y'all based off the perception of what people think pick up artists think, instead of what pick up artists actually think. i'm in a staff meeting, but i'll type out all the reasons how i know the OP is full of BS right after

I think op is being honest about what pua is all about.

Guys get into pua not to find the one but to get approval.
Why else would someone post online about how good they are with women.
They crave the approval of men and women.
If they tell guys they get laid all the time, if believed, men approve.
And if a girl gives phone number they feel approval.
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No_U_L7
04/08/21 2:10:01 PM
#66:


Being a pick up artist isn't a religion. It is an understanding of attraction, girls and underlying concepts. It does not tell you how to live your life, what your ideal life should be or what your moral code should be.

I know plenty of pick up artists that play the field, in committed relationships, married or open relationships. That has no bearing on someone as a pick up artist

Pome posted...
The best part of a relationship is not sex or love


just to get it out of the way, the topic title is 100% an opinion and will vary extremely among people, including extreme variation amongst pick up artists

Pome posted...
It's the chase.


right here i begin to suspect the OP is trolling. an underlying concept of being a pick up artist is that you dont chase girls. you establish yourself as the prize to entice girls to chase after you.

Pome posted...
It's the part leading up to point where the girl says "yes" and everything after that is downhill.


100% his personal opinion, of which i will not pass judgement on

Pome posted...

That's why pickup artists like me and other CEmen here exist.


once again, there is no correlation.

Pome posted...
We get no joy from having sex or being in a long term loving relationship.


this is 100% the OPs personal ethos and not that of pick up artists in general, if OP were really a pick up artist, he would know that. also notice that he threw in "loving" just to really get everyone's goat. and imagine saying you don't get joy from sex lol. you can say there are better joys or sex is overrated etc...but to flat out say there is no joy in it is obviously bs.

Pome posted...
We just want to get approval from as many partners as possible.


and this is where i 100% know OP is bs. perhaps the most underlying concept of being a pick up artist is to detach yourself from your ego and establish complete inner confidence. that means you need approval from no one. pick up artists don't care about approval at all.

i once watched an instructor coaching his student. he noticed his student was way too attached to his ego and "looking cool". he had that student go up to the next girl and open with the words "hey i have a very tiny penis". ego completely gone and once he was unattached from that he was able to loosen up and be himself without fear.

Pome posted...
It's so exhilarating especially when you're a 6/10 attractiveness guy like myself to put everything into your game, all the years of knowledge and experience to get a girl way out of ur league that you have no business getting.


a pick up artist would never refer to himself as "6/10". First, pick up artists try to avoid numeral ratings as much as possible (but this is a trap i fall into online). second, pick up artists realize that looks are only one aspect of what makes a person themselves (that's another underlying concept). Third, a pick up artist would have true inner confidence

and pick up artists 100% don't think "leagues" exist or that anyone would be out of it

@Pome

please stop trolling and giving pick up artists a bad name, or if you are being serious, please go about the craft the right way instead of your current bs mindset and path
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No_U_L7
04/08/21 2:12:46 PM
#67:


WingsOfGood posted...


I think op is being honest about what pua is all about.

Guys get into pua not to find the one but to get approval.
Why else would someone post online about how good they are with women.
They crave the approval of men and women.
If they tell guys they get laid all the time, if believed, men approve.
And if a girl gives phone number they feel approval.


i post about it, because it's a craft that i have dedicated my life to. it's an intricate process of which i am proud to know and very much enjoy. of course i want to share that online, same way i post about my basketball knowledge
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masticatingman
04/08/21 2:15:45 PM
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A lot of adults are addicted to that anticipation with a new date that leads to sex. They like the sex that happens too, of course, but moreso just being able to achieve that end goal. Afterwards, it doesn't matter.

At the same time, a basic need for companionship is pretty much a universal human trait, and nobody really escapes that.

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The Trent
04/08/21 2:23:48 PM
#70:


The Trent posted...
dude i'll be your friend i didn't know you were vulnerable and alone but to be friends we have to talk about my problems too let's start with the brown spots in the grass do you think it's a fungus or cinch bugs or what

@Pome are you thinking fungus

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No_U_L7
04/08/21 2:27:25 PM
#71:


masticatingman posted...
A lot of adults are addicted to that anticipation with a new date that leads to sex. They like the sex that happens too, of course, but moreso just being able to achieve that end goal. Afterwards, it doesn't matter.

At the same time, a basic need for companionship is pretty much a universal human trait, and nobody really escapes that.


and just so i don't sound preachy, here is my personal opinion:

i myself, also think that feeling of getting to know someone new and beautiful is the best part of a relationship, so you could say the seduction is also the most fun/favorite part for me

however, i am extremely introverted and very stubborn/set in my ways. i simply don't value much the stuff that comes with long term relationships (comfort, sharing your lives, etc). not to mention how disappointing i find 99.9% of people (all people, but that is including girls). i like to do what i want when i want. if i want to go a week without saying a word out loud or spend 5 hours a night every night watching basketball, that is what i will do. and that has more value to me than any relationship. but i completely understand that is mostly attributed to having a fucked up home life growing up and parents that were the complete opposite of role models and having that affect me. and that is something i am working on. however, since i am quite happy with the way life is, where i can do whatever i want whenever and still have the ability to meet new girls whenever i want (thanks pick up artist skills!) i see no reason to change that. but i am open to it.
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No_U_L7
04/09/21 1:06:49 PM
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Funny how op leaves once I called him out
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Pome
04/09/21 1:16:19 PM
#73:


I'm still here, I haven't read your replies yet (or any others).
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The Trent
04/09/21 1:16:51 PM
#74:


oh okay let me know when you catch up and what you think i can post some pics of the lawn if it will help

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Pome
04/09/21 1:18:50 PM
#75:


The Trent posted...
oh okay let me know when you catch up and what you think i can post some pics of the lawn if it will help
Please stop trolling me
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No_U_L7
04/09/21 1:19:07 PM
#76:


Pome posted...
I'm still here, I haven't read your replies yet (or any others).


And yet you have the time to make more troll topics

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/400-current-events/79396190

How convenient...
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FL81
04/09/21 1:19:38 PM
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*chases the Topic List button*

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Pome
04/09/21 1:19:57 PM
#78:


Yeah, I've been posting regularly on CE but I haven't paid much attention to this topic. I skimmed it a few times whenever I get notifcations though.
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SquirtleSkwad
04/09/21 1:22:15 PM
#79:


Boy you must have had some bad relationships.

The best part of mine is that she's my best friend. She's thoughtful in areas that I am not and she doesn't hold my lesser qualities against me. She accepts me fully, which is a lot more than I can say for my past relationships. She loves plants and animals. Doesn't judge my Pokemon addiction, but jokes about it. The anxiety of dating is gone. I got mine. I can focus on other areas of my life now.

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SquirtleSkwad
04/09/21 1:23:01 PM
#80:


WingsOfGood posted...
Holy

An actually honest pua.

You are desperate for approval, that is why you pua.
Which is ironic since part of pua is to pretend like you don't crave this.
PUA isn't a verb, my good chum.

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