Poll of the Day > Do women sleep with rising stars or get sexual with them

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Just so they can get a big pay day later in life when that celeb or athlete gets famous. Should women be taught to report incidents right away. People often say they are scared but does that millions that person is making give them the courage and strength. This is mostly about the Deshaun Watson case. One of them said he nutted on her. Arvs just wondering if its starting to become new that if you fool around or someone wants you. You just let them. Arvs not talking about the r word because thats not acceptable at all levels. But just have that in your back pocket for a pay day. Arv wishes these women would report earlier because these are people kids look up to and if they are just looking for a pay day. It hurts other women that could be a victim next. Especially adults. In the age of socia media and where anything can get said at any time. Because once one person reports something acouple years ago 10 others come out of the woodworks and they could have been avoided if it was reported. Arv puts blame on both sides

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A lot of them do and they are not believed by others or law enforcement, or they are retaliated against through smear campaigns to discredit them. The Bill Cosby allegations were public for literally decades before enough people found out about them or realized they could be true.

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Just to be clear, when Arv says he puts blame on both sides you mean the perpetrator and the victim because the victim didn't speak out early enough and this allowed the perp to victimize more people?

hockey7318 posted...

Just to be clear, when Arv says he puts blame on both sides you mean the perpetrator and the victim because the victim didn't speak out early enough and this allowed the perp to victimize more people?

Yea if they purposely are going for a big pay day then of course Arv would blame them

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In the day where everything blows up on social media it seems like theres a lot more support for victims than in the previous days

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ArvTheGreat posted...

In the day where everything blows up on social media it seems like theres a lot more support for victims than in the previous days

oh the humanity

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Are you saying thats false

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Cancel culture doesnt exist?

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Social media is a powerful tool believe it or not

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ArvTheGreat posted...

Cancel culture doesnt exist?

No. It doesnt. Its a made up concept like cultural-appropriation. Throughout history people have always reacted towards things they dont like.

If someone is a public figure or a public facing company and they make some unpopular opinion widely known or they commit some offense that most people find egregious, then of course the masses are not going to want to support that person or organization.

The lie is that it is some leftist agenda or political in nature. Its just how society works.

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Then why are people getting fired or quitting right away just by simple allegations

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ArvTheGreat posted...

Then why are people getting fired or quitting right away just by simple allegations

In some cases they dont. Cuomo is still in office and wants to stay there and wait for an investigation to happen. People stepping down or quitting right away is a bigger news story though so those are the cases everyone hears about.

In those cases its either because people have reason to believe the allegations and there is enough pressure put on them about it or because they know they did something wrong d want to avoid further judgment.

Either way the truth has a way of coming out eventually. Just look at the Johnny Depp and Amber Heard situation. Things ended up being a lot more complicated than they seemed initially.

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It's impossible to know either way. But I always do find it interesting that the women always find the courage to speak out when the person becomes wealthy and powerful, not when they are some nobody.

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DragonClaw01 posted...

It's impossible to know either way. But I always do find it interesting that the women always find the courage to speak out when the person becomes wealthy and powerful, not when they are some nobody.

So you think that only the wealthy and famous get accused of mistreating women? Theres no poor rapists in the world or in prison?

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Mead posted...

So you think that only the wealthy and famous get accused of mistreating women? Theres no poor rapists in the world or in prison?

Not all cases are the same the ones that are being discussed are the ones purposely doing it for money or the speculation leave the women that it happens to and they report it alone they did their part this isnt about them they are the heros Arv is talking about the ones trying to make a big pay day

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This image pertains to this topic

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Welp I'm out of this topic about victim blaming and worrying about rich and powerful men being held accountable for reprehensible behavior.

Mead posted...

So you think that only the wealthy and famous get accused of mistreating women? Theres no poor rapists in the world or in prison?

I think I may remember some rape if a couple million settlement was on the table. Maybe that sex was not as consentual as you thought.

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DragonClaw01 posted...

I think I may remember some rape if a couple million settlement was on the table. Maybe that sex was not as consentual as you thought.

maybe you should talk to some rape victims and ask them if theyd go through the trauma of what happened if they could get a big payday out of it

the answers may surprise you

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Arvs not taking about the victims that have no one to turn to or have reported it and society failed them Arvs only talking about the oranges

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Arvs not victim blaming because hes not 100% against the person at fault and only that person Arv thinks they are at fault

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No one has the right to touch someone or make someone feel uncomfortable for personal gain

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Mead posted...

maybe you should talk to some rape victims and ask them if theyd go through the trauma of what happened if they could get a big payday out of it

the answers may surprise you

Not tramatic enough to report thier rapist right away like those poor rapists in prison you like mentioning. I don't trust eye witness testimony from years ago. Human memory is faulty, it is not a video camera.

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lots of thoughts especially the ones against Watson make Arv wonder are they reporting Watson for themselves or are they reporting Watson to do others arent victim. Its pure speculation on Arvs part it could be a total 180 for all Arv knows. Arv doesnt wanna see big cash pay outs but safety for others but when Arv looks in the news this person got this much money in a scandal that did nothing because they didnt want it to get past civil court. Its like that doesnt do anything what is that teaching anyone why should society go with the if you are rich pay them off. At that point Arv wonders is it about the money. Even if you lose dont you want justice. Like if Arv was sexually mistreated Arv wouldnt be happy with a big pay day. That would be disgracing other victims. Arv cant wait to see the day where every women tells a man or someone else enough is enough and it means something instead of a big cash pay out for yourselves if you are using it for charity thats one thing. Heh sorry Arv gets emotional about assault against others

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"cancel culture" is a term created by people who don't like that there is accountability for their shitty beliefs now.

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DragonClaw01 posted...

Not tramatic enough to report thier rapist right away like those poor rapists in prison you like mentioning.

Okay so you think rape and sexual abuse is super easy to report to authorities in general? Even against people who arent wealthy or powerful, things can turn out very badly for the victim if they are even believed in the first place

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Mead posted...

Okay so you think rape and sexual abuse is super easy to report to authorities in general? Even against people who arent wealthy or powerful, things can turn out very badly for the victim if they are even believed in the first place

So are you against reporting

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Its okay if you are. Arv can see a negative impact if something is reported

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ArvTheGreat posted...

So are you against reporting

Im against Arv shitposting

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Arv isnt here to say what everyone likes to hear everyone has their own opinions and disagreements on things. Arv has his own opinions Weither they are right or wrong about something Arv can figure that down the road. Arv isnt about telling people what they wanna hear to be on their good side nor is Arv trying to purposely make enemies. People can name call Arv for all they want while calling themselves the better person. Thats on them and its to be expected sometimes Arv name calls also so Arv isnt innocent in that regard. Arv isnt Gods gift to you guys. But the ones who care are the ones that are gods gift to Arv

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