Current Events > today i have been married for 12 years. AMA.

Topic List
Page List: 1, 2, 3
The Trent
03/07/21 11:00:41 AM
#51:


leverageblargh posted...
What was this websight like in your day

you will never find a more wretched hive of scum and villainy

---
i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent
you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended
... Copied to Clipboard!
WashYourHands
03/07/21 11:18:49 AM
#52:


Congrats. I was married for 9 years, current gf of 6 years hounding for a ring. Maybe next year

---
20 seconds is all it takes!
... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent
03/07/21 11:20:22 AM
#53:


WashYourHands posted...
Congrats. I was married for 9 years, current gf of 6 years hounding for a ring. Maybe next year

thanks mate
personally, i think i'd have a hard time getting married again


---
i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent
you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended
... Copied to Clipboard!
emblem boy
03/07/21 11:20:43 AM
#54:


The Trent posted...
WashYourHands posted...
Congrats. I was married for 9 years, current gf of 6 years hounding for a ring. Maybe next year

thanks mate
personally, i think i'd have a hard time getting married again


Why's that?
---
Pitter-patter, let's get at 'er
... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent
03/07/21 11:21:42 AM
#55:


because being married is not an easy thing, you have to work at maintaining a good relationship over time
i don't know if i would have interest in putting up that work a second time
probably just drugs and thots, because i know myself

---
i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent
you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended
... Copied to Clipboard!
Gafemage
03/07/21 11:23:40 AM
#56:


What would you say was your most memorable anniversary on record? What did you do to celebrate?
---
astrology is real
... Copied to Clipboard!
emblem boy
03/07/21 11:24:24 AM
#57:


The Trent posted...
because being married is not an easy thing, you have to work at maintaining a good relationship over time
i don't know if i would have interest in putting up that work a second time
probably just drugs and thots, because i know myself


Ahh ya I can understand that
---
Pitter-patter, let's get at 'er
... Copied to Clipboard!
ROOTFayth
03/07/21 11:24:43 AM
#58:


lol congrats buddy
... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent
03/07/21 11:27:00 AM
#59:


Gafemage posted...
What would you say was your most memorable anniversary on record? What did you do to celebrate?

honestly it may end up being last year, 2020 - 11 years married
we went to an all-inclusive resort in jamaica, just the two of us, and did a vow renewal ceremony on the date standing on a jetty of rocks with water crashing around
she looked amazing and everything was beautiful and bought a different lingerie set to wear every night
we smoked a ton of jamaican weed on the beach and got wasted and ate a flock of jerk chickens
we were literally wasted on the beach staring at the ocean when she was reading news back home that was like "apparently this covid thing is getting real? wait they shut down the houston rodeo? baseball is done? basketball? everything is closing? ...people are rushing the stores? ...there's no more toilet paper? ...do we have toilet paper when we get home?"
to which i replied "look, if this is the end of the world, at least we're here and we did this beforehand" and passed the blunt

how do you forget that kind of shit man?

---
i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent
you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended
... Copied to Clipboard!
Simp
03/07/21 11:32:49 AM
#60:


what can she do that I can't

---
Faceless goofus in a sea of alts
... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent
03/07/21 11:33:30 AM
#61:


Simp posted...
what can she do that I can't

birth children, for starters?
i don't know what you're capable of but i'm going to start there because safe assumptions

---
i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent
you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended
... Copied to Clipboard!
#62
Post #62 was unavailable or deleted.
AzNDarkSamurai
03/07/21 11:41:52 AM
#63:


Congrats

Been married for 2 years now and the relationship is kinda rocky at times due to her being tired from work and raising 2 kids.

Has your relationship ever been rocky during your marriage? Do women usually mean the hurtful things they say when theyre angry? If so how did you go about handling this?

I usually fight back and rarely to never apologize for bad things I say during an argument

---
Pinoy Pride, 1988 - the day I die!
... Copied to Clipboard!
Bananana
03/07/21 11:48:17 AM
#64:


will my dreams of being a touring folk singer come to fruition?

---
... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent
03/07/21 11:48:28 AM
#65:


AzNDarkSamurai posted...
Congrats
Been married for 2 years now and the relationship is kinda rocky at times due to her being tired from work and raising 2 kids.
Has your relationship ever been rocky during your marriage? Do women usually mean the hurtful things they say when theyre angry? If so how did you go about handling this?
I usually fight back and rarely to never apologize for bad things I say during an argument

i don't believe people generally when they say they've been together as long as my wife and i have and that they haven't had fights
we've absolutely had it out, mostly because of me a lot of the time
do women mean the hurtful things they say when they're angry? sometimes. sometimes no. sometimes they mean it at the time but not really most of the time. you'll never know, man. all you can do is decide for yourself if she is overall more happy than not happy? and you can always decide how you engage and control your output in any argument. you don't have to give up control of that in any situation, ever.
and if i ever say anything hurtful or upsetting i ALWAYS apologize to my wife after the situation has calmed. i believe in reconciliation and that's not a thing without consolation and admission of "look some shit happened back there, part me and for that i'm sorry"
i'll force an apology out of her in the same way too because i believe in reciprocity and i'm kind of a dick

---
i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent
you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended
... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent
03/07/21 11:48:41 AM
#66:


Bananana posted...
will my dreams of being a touring folk singer come to fruition?

maybe are you on tiktok yet

---
i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent
you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended
... Copied to Clipboard!
Bananana
03/07/21 11:51:23 AM
#67:


The Trent posted...
maybe are you on tiktok yet

no but i have received applause at every performance thus far and i strongly suspect at least 90% was genuine enjoyment

---
... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent
03/07/21 11:53:56 AM
#68:


Bananana posted...
no but i have received applause at every performance thus far and i strongly suspect at least 90% was genuine enjoyment

Whats your stage name

---
i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent
you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended
... Copied to Clipboard!
emblem boy
03/07/21 12:05:30 PM
#69:


Does she work? What does she do?
---
Pitter-patter, let's get at 'er
... Copied to Clipboard!
CE_gonna_CE
03/07/21 12:06:02 PM
#70:


Does your wife care about, or is into, any of the stock stuff you do, or no?

Mine doesnt give a shit. I could tell her I made $1M on a trade and shed probably just be like oh thats nice lol

---
... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent
03/07/21 12:08:29 PM
#71:


emblem boy posted...
Does she work? What does she do?

Nope she got laid off almost 10 years ago while 6mo pregnant with our first girl and hasn't had a job since
I was working two jobs for a pittance and finishing my degree
Just a stay at home milf now

---
i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent
you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended
... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent
03/07/21 12:11:10 PM
#72:


CE_gonna_CE posted...
Does your wife care about, or is into, any of the stock stuff you do, or no?

Mine doesnt give a shit. I could tell her I made $1M on a trade and shed probably just be like oh thats nice lol

Not really
I mean if I make a bag shell be like "yeah good job" but if I'm losing shes just like "oh well"
There were times in our relationship that we were overdrafting to eat so we remember that

---
i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent
you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended
... Copied to Clipboard!
#73
Post #73 was unavailable or deleted.
The Trent
03/07/21 12:13:25 PM
#74:


Cpt_Pineapple posted...
why don't you shit post about her on a regular basis?

Because I don't want to do what you do but better then you'd have to live with that shame compounding the shame of your wife banging everyone and your sister
So basically out of consideration because I'm a considerate motherfucker

---
i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent
you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended
... Copied to Clipboard!
#75
Post #75 was unavailable or deleted.
The Trent
03/07/21 12:15:33 PM
#76:


leverageblargh posted...
Have you ever known another Trent

I have never met another in person, no

---
i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent
you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended
... Copied to Clipboard!
emblem boy
03/07/21 12:19:05 PM
#77:


The Trent posted...
emblem boy posted...
Does she work? What does she do?

Nope she got laid off almost 10 years ago while 6mo pregnant with our first girl and hasn't had a job since
I was working two jobs for a pittance and finishing my degree
Just a stay at home milf now


Does she want to work in the future?
---
Pitter-patter, let's get at 'er
... Copied to Clipboard!
emblem boy
03/07/21 12:19:53 PM
#78:


What are your retirement plans
---
Pitter-patter, let's get at 'er
... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent
03/07/21 12:20:30 PM
#79:


emblem boy posted...
Does she want to work in the future?

Unclear
There's not much financial reason to
I think she may open an etsy shop or something

---
i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent
you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended
... Copied to Clipboard!
BeantownHero
03/07/21 12:21:07 PM
#80:


can you dance if you want to

---
... Copied to Clipboard!
BignutzisBack
03/07/21 12:21:35 PM
#81:


Congratulations!

Or sorry to hear that

Whatever works best for you my man

---
... Copied to Clipboard!
RiKuToTheMiGhtY
03/07/21 12:22:49 PM
#82:


Your in that rare number of marriages that lasted more then 5-7 years.

Hope you go the distance.

---
doa-plus.com - We Press Forward. . . By Pressing Back.
... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent
03/07/21 12:34:04 PM
#83:


BeantownHero posted...
can you dance if you want to

absolutely, and sometimes my body dances a little even when i don't want to because i'm just kinda groovy

BignutzisBack posted...
Congratulations!
Or sorry to hear that
Whatever works best for you my man

thanks!

RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...
Your in that rare number of marriages that lasted more then 5-7 years.
Hope you go the distance.

i think we're in it to win it
both of our parents are still married (hers unhappily, mine happily) so we've got that going for us!

---
i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent
you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended
... Copied to Clipboard!
RiKuToTheMiGhtY
03/07/21 12:35:45 PM
#84:


That sounds like the odds are in your favor, sad to hear her parents are in an unhappy marriage.

If I can ask what age are you and is she your age, younger, or older ?

---
doa-plus.com - We Press Forward. . . By Pressing Back.
... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent
03/07/21 12:36:23 PM
#85:


RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...
That sounds like the odds are in your favor, sad to hear her parents are in an unhappy marriage.
If I can ask what age are you and is she your age, younger, or older ?

i'm 36, she's 38

---
i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent
you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended
... Copied to Clipboard!
#86
Post #86 was unavailable or deleted.
The Trent
03/07/21 12:41:26 PM
#87:


leverageblargh posted...
What age do you want to live up to

eh i guess 80's a pretty decent cutoff
depends on how bad my kids and grandkids are fucking up and who's on my lawn on any given day and how much drugs i'm able to continue doing probably

---
i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent
you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended
... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent
03/07/21 12:42:25 PM
#88:


emblem boy posted...
What are your retirement plans

i'm not a great planner
we will probably own a ranchette kinda situation in texas somewhere on some land and possibly a second place on a beach somewhere in the bahamas or belize or some shit
and i'll have a dodge viper that i can't get into or out of

---
i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent
you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended
... Copied to Clipboard!
RiKuToTheMiGhtY
03/07/21 12:46:22 PM
#89:


Sounds like you have made some good choices as a couple, again your rare now.

Hell I do not know anyone that is married, know plenty of people who refuse marriage or are divorced though.

One dude I know says the only way he will ever get hitched is doing so in south east asia.

---
doa-plus.com - We Press Forward. . . By Pressing Back.
... Copied to Clipboard!
Turbam
03/07/21 12:47:45 PM
#90:


Have you ever messed with Texas?

---
~snip (V)_(;,;)_(V) snip~
I'm just one man! Whoa! Well, I'm a one man band! https://imgur.com/p9Xvjvs
... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent
03/07/21 12:48:11 PM
#91:


Turbam posted...
Have you ever messed with Texas?

Da fif

---
i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent
you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended
... Copied to Clipboard!
emblem boy
03/07/21 12:54:20 PM
#92:


How's your sex life at this point in life
How difficult has raising kids been?
---
Pitter-patter, let's get at 'er
... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent
03/07/21 1:00:21 PM
#93:


emblem boy posted...
How's your sex life at this point in life
How difficult has raising kids been?

10/10 last week she gave me a blowie in the bathtub and took it on the chest like a champ

Kids thing isn't as hard as it sounds, but I'm also willing to strong arm some little girls into doing what needs to be done when it's time to handle some business
They watch mandolorian with me and we play soccer and i watch them get big and buy them new shoes all the time

---
i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent
you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended
... Copied to Clipboard!
Bananana
03/07/21 1:02:12 PM
#94:


is Another Side of Bob Dylan in the top 10 albums of all time?

---
... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent
03/07/21 1:02:53 PM
#95:


Bananana posted...
is Another Side of Bob Dylan in the top 10 albums of all time?

Yeah I think it might be

---
i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent
you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended
... Copied to Clipboard!
RiKuToTheMiGhtY
03/07/21 1:04:06 PM
#96:


If she is still willing to give you blow jobs 12 years later in a marriage that is a very good sign. Most bedrooms are dead 12 years in for a lot of marriages and any kind of sex is only on your birthday, maybe christmas, and maybe new years.

Be glad your not in that category, and I hope you still go down on her, fair is fair.

---
doa-plus.com - We Press Forward. . . By Pressing Back.
... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent
03/07/21 1:04:36 PM
#97:


Of course I'm not the monster the cyriczs of the world would have you believe jeez

---
i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent
you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended
... Copied to Clipboard!
pure_temper
03/07/21 1:05:50 PM
#98:


in your experience and knowledge thus far, do you recommend marriage? under which circumstances would you recommend marriage? should a competent man or woman with ambitions greater than themselves prioritize finding a quality partner or is this deprecated thinking in 2021?

did you have a reasonable income/net worth prior to marriage, and if so do you have any guidance on the role of a pre-nup?

---
proudclad LAYIN DOWN THE SMACK - Error1355
Christian Marxism actually makes sense. (Islamic, Buddhist, Hindu, etc too!)
... Copied to Clipboard!
pure_temper
03/07/21 1:07:02 PM
#99:


The Trent posted...
i'm 36, she's 38

you're at the age where I think I'll be in my prime. do you consider it your prime? from a physical/net worth/mind perspective.

---
proudclad LAYIN DOWN THE SMACK - Error1355
Christian Marxism actually makes sense. (Islamic, Buddhist, Hindu, etc too!)
... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent
03/07/21 1:07:06 PM
#100:


pure_temper posted...
in your experience and knowledge thus far, do you recommend marriage? under which circumstances would you recommend marriage? should a competent man or woman with ambitions greater than themselves prioritize finding a quality partner or is this deprecated thinking in 2021?

did you have a reasonable income/net worth prior to marriage, and if so do you have any guidance on the role of a pre-nup?

Marriage is not for everyone
And I dont tell anyone what they should do, I much prefer letting everyone fuck everything up like I did

We were broke as hell when we got married

---
i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent
you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended
... Copied to Clipboard!
Topic List
Page List: 1, 2, 3