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MedeaLysistrata
03/04/21 1:41:57 PM
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My gf in HS, never forget, said she loved me, but then ended saying I wasn't who she thought I was

So, was she really in love or did she just like the way it sounds? That was my only relationship so I can't say if it was love or not

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Smackems
03/04/21 1:43:18 PM
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I did. But I probably grew up faster than most teens in the west do

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Veggeta X
03/04/21 1:43:55 PM
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Young love are some of the most deceptive things in life IMO.

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MedeaLysistrata
03/04/21 1:43:56 PM
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Smackems posted...
I did. But I probably grew up faster than most teens in the west do
So what is the different between love and just being in a relationship

Inb4youdontbreakupwiththem

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Veggeta X
03/04/21 1:45:32 PM
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I've come to understand that acceptance and tolerance of another person is a huge part of love.

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Smackems
03/04/21 1:45:53 PM
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MedeaLysistrata posted...
So what is the different between love and just being in a relationship

Inb4youdontbreakupwiththem
Oh boy lol

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SrRd_RacinG
03/04/21 1:46:09 PM
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Yes, absolutely. But it requires high emotional intelligence.

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Lairen
03/04/21 1:46:34 PM
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Well teens are dumb and emotional. Theyre feeling the right emotion but logical things such as if one person is abusive, arnt being factored in to their feelings.

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MedeaLysistrata
03/04/21 1:46:44 PM
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SrRd_RacinG posted...
Yes, absolutely. But it requires high emotional intelligence.
You need a really high EQ to understand Bojack Horseman, the fans get it

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CanuckCowboy
03/04/21 1:47:01 PM
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Sure.

But I think more often than not its infatuation or obsession rather than love.

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FL81
03/04/21 1:47:09 PM
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True love doesn't exist.

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MedeaLysistrata
03/04/21 1:48:32 PM
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For now I will just say love is when you don't leave someone because there is no better account

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CanuckCowboy
03/04/21 1:48:50 PM
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FL81 posted...
True love doesn't exist.

Thats only a true statement if you define true love as the idea that there's one specific person your meant to be with.

True love exists but the idea that there's only one specific individual meant for you is laughable.

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Veggeta X
03/04/21 1:51:42 PM
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CanuckCowboy posted...
Thats only a true statement if you define true love as the idea that there's one specific person your meant to be with.

True love exists but the idea that there's only one specific individual meant for you is laughable.
I agree. Too many people think love is spiritual or something that can't be explained. I believe love takes lots of mental work.

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CanuckCowboy
03/04/21 1:52:38 PM
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Veggeta X posted...
I agree. Too many people think love is spiritual or something that can't be explained. I believe love takes lots of mental work.

Exactly.

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NoxObscuras
03/04/21 1:53:52 PM
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Yes, they absolutely can. But they can also confuse other feelings, like lust, for love. So not every teen that says "I love you" is really in love, but that doesn't mean that it can't happen.

But I know that some people very adamantly believe that teens can't experience true love. I remember when I was in 10th grade, 2 of my classmates were gossiping and saying I was in love with this girl (I only said she was cute) and the girl's older sister heard them say that. She blew up at me, saying "you're too young to understand what love is" and that I shouldn't go around saying that I love someone, until I'm older... Yeah

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garan
03/04/21 3:59:56 PM
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CanuckCowboy posted...
Sure.

But I think more often than not its infatuation or obsession rather than love.


Nailed it.
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MedeaLysistrata
03/04/21 4:01:17 PM
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garan posted...
Nailed it.
I don't think my gf back then was obsessed or infatuated with me. So she felt something else.

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Veggeta X
03/04/21 4:10:55 PM
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Puppy love

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philsov
03/04/21 4:15:39 PM
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Love is a verb more than a feeling.

Teens absolutely can participate in true love, but the overwhelming probability is they simply don't know better. Most people, myself included so I might be projecting a bit, need to fall in and out of love a few times to refine what is and isn't love. Love is more than just liking someone's company and wanting to have sex with them, but those qualities are great starting points.
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I4NRulez
03/04/21 4:16:42 PM
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All love is true love IMO

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MedeaLysistrata
03/04/21 4:16:58 PM
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philsov posted...
Love is a verb more than a feeling.
Makes sense

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DespondentDeity
03/04/21 4:36:12 PM
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I4NRulez posted...
All love is true love IMO

this tbh, nothing else really makes that much sense to me

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Orlando_Jordan
03/04/21 4:37:09 PM
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Your only relationship was in high school? How old are you now?

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MedeaLysistrata
03/04/21 4:37:24 PM
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sorry, saying 'true love' was stupid, just pretend i said love in general. i guess it's just because some people confuse infatuation for love, but if love is just a verb then that mindset is destroyed

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MedeaLysistrata
03/04/21 4:38:55 PM
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Orlando_Jordan posted...
Your only relationship was in high school? How old are you now?
it was right at the end of high school though, so it's not like it happened in grade 9 guess. 30

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