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WingsOfGood 01/26/21 1:25:54 PM #1: |
https://madamenoire.com/194658/youre-not-idris-why-the-man-youre-not-immediately-attracted-to-could-be-your-perfect-match/
Men can grow on women. I know that probably sounds like the least romantic thing you can think of; but in many cases, more than you may think, its true. But sometimes when a woman doesnt get that warm and fuzzy feeling from a man right away, she may quickly dismiss the thought of ever giving him a chance. I used to be one of those women but soon realized that even the man who doesnt immediately give me butterflies has the potential of becoming someone I fall in love with; and not giving someone a chance based on an initial feeling like butterflies or sparks that you hear about in the movies might actually block me from meeting a good man. What do you think CE? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Cobalt_Wasps 01/26/21 1:27:15 PM #2: |
its almost like romance is more than physical attraction or something
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jon1012 01/26/21 1:28:21 PM #3: |
Good thing I'm not attracted to men.
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Master_Bass 01/26/21 1:32:20 PM #4: |
Yeah, people seem too quick to write people off these days imo. The modern dating scene makes finding a new person trivial for a lot of people, though, so it's easy to write people off.
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jon1012 01/26/21 1:33:17 PM #5: |
@Master_Bass why do you think it makes it trivial? The ease of which you can find a new person?
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Master_Bass 01/26/21 1:39:05 PM #6: |
jon1012 posted...
@Master_Bass why do you think it makes it trivial? The ease of which you can find a new person?Yeah, it's easier than ever for some people with all the dating apps/sites out there to just jump to a new person if they're not immediately impressed. --- Many Bothans died to bring you this post. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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WingsOfGood 01/26/21 1:40:13 PM #7: |
Master_Bass posted...
Yeah, it's easier than ever for some people with all the dating apps/sites out there to just jump to a new person if they're not immediately impressed. Well the writer of this was one of those people. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ZeroX91 01/26/21 1:46:07 PM #8: |
But I'm not attracted to men.
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Thatguyonthebus 01/26/21 1:46:57 PM #10: |
ZeroX91 posted...
But I'm not attracted to men. but they could be your perfect match ... Copied to Clipboard!
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philsov 01/26/21 1:48:30 PM #11: |
In general, it's fine. Mr (or Mrs) Right is better off being referred to as Mr (or Mrs) Good Enough. Know your deal breakers, know the qualities you'd like to have in a mate, and go from there. No one is going to check off all of your boxes, and if they do, you need to dream bigger (but also latch onto the one who did check said boxes).
But this is just stupid: it doesnt hurt to let him buy you dinner at least once. *vomits* Yeah, let's burden the man here with this shit. I want an equal, not a pet and not a project. --- Remember that I won't rest, 'til we share the same tense Just know, to me, you're better late than never again. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ZeroX91 01/26/21 1:48:54 PM #12: |
Thatguyonthebus posted...
but they could be your perfect match --- If the universe is so big why wont it fight me? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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WingsOfGood 01/26/21 1:57:17 PM #13: |
RedWhiteBlue posted...
But, honestly, I'd like to see some stats, that likely aren't out there, on how strong a relationship is and lasts and if there's a higher chance of a dead bedroom when comparing the chemistry spark people seek vs the friendship turned relationship that this is more like. It is well documented that sparks die so... Like actual scientific studies say the shelf life of sparks is about 2 years max. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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WingsOfGood 01/26/21 2:15:42 PM #15: |
RedWhiteBlue posted...
Edit - just to clarify, spark is not equal to 2 people having limerence, but they think they have common ground and share interests, but it still dies? Sparks is like that feeling of love at first sight or wanting to remove the guys pants because he is so hot or butterflies etc. Call it strong attractive desire. Many people make that a requirement and if they don't feel it will not do a 2nd date or even a 1st date if say they already knew the person asking out. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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