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Harpie
01/02/21 12:01:13 AM
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asking for a friend



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nothanks1
01/02/21 12:01:43 AM
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Probably was thinking of the hot 50 year old receptionist in the lobby during the moment and feels bad tbh
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g0ldie
01/02/21 12:02:28 AM
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yea, it's very common.


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Dark_SilverX
01/02/21 12:02:49 AM
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he was thinking of his mom

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KawiKa
01/02/21 12:03:01 AM
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It's all good if you can sneak out their house without waking them up and going back home.

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United_World
01/02/21 12:03:28 AM
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In my experienceonly when I don't really like her like that but have sex anyway because teenage me was a horny mess. On the other hand, I feel great when it's with someone I have a genuinely nice connection with.

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EnvoyOfTheLight
01/02/21 12:04:09 AM
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Never felt this.

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Wii_Shaker
01/02/21 12:04:10 AM
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I don't think that's normal at all unless you are doing something you know you shouldn't.

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Johnny_Nutcase
01/02/21 12:04:50 AM
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He didn't pull out or what?

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Harpie
01/02/21 12:05:48 AM
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Context: The guys parents are heavily conservative and have cockblocked him until he moved out at 20

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BuckVanHammer
01/02/21 12:07:32 AM
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id say its common but unhealthy. normal is kinda eh...

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g0ldie
01/02/21 12:08:00 AM
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his parents likely passed on negative views about sex/sex in some contexts to him throughout his life, so he ends up feeling guilty about it

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Fossil
01/02/21 12:08:29 AM
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Harpie posted...
Context: The guys parents are heavily conservative and have cockblocked him until he moved out at 20
So they brainwashed him
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nothanks1
01/02/21 12:08:50 AM
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Just show him a positive pregnancy test so he feels better about sex for the reason of procreation
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Ving_Rhames
01/02/21 12:10:46 AM
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Deep shame and regret? Tf? No. LOL

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Johnny_Nutcase
01/02/21 12:12:14 AM
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Ving_Rhames posted...
Deep shame and regret? Tf? No. LOL

I've never had shame but i've had regret once. "Ohhhhhh I hope to fuck she was serious when she said she couldn't get pregnant because I just hit the bullseye on that one"

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KawiKa
01/02/21 12:12:26 AM
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But to answer the Q, No.
Unless there is a shedload of guilt.

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bknight
01/02/21 12:13:22 AM
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Only if she's your cousin.
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TerraSeeker
01/02/21 12:29:39 AM
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If he's raised Chrsitian and wants to be moral, it wouldn't be strange.

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Smackems
01/02/21 12:30:23 AM
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EnvoyOfTheLight posted...
Never felt this.


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Tenlaar
01/02/21 12:31:37 AM
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No, not at all.
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FrankJaegr
01/02/21 1:14:47 AM
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Sort of? My last relationship I was dating this girl from a Christian church who like sang and did stuff with the church band

basically, I did respect her wishes not to be sexual >_> I was like man, guess this must be a sign or something of my own faith circling back with this person i have backstory with

eventually we did get it on and that first night it was both great and terrible

she was like crying and the next day she hated my guts - shoot, I even hated my own guts <_<

so we cleared that and she really made it clear that she just does not feel great really breaking what are to her incredible vows to God

time passes and eventually a couple of stressful situations later I actually get good at being like alright NAH NUH-OH NO WAY JOSE

this is very hard to do as you can imagine >_>

there were times it was like like MAN NOW ITS YOU SEE?!

this girl was trying to be within the church and really trying to love the word because thats all she really had - she really was in tune with that so on a day just sunny and bright I ended it

I dunno I just felt like she needed to be with the things that truly made her feel good - maybe even meet the right person in a church where she saw like images of God and getting married or something in a church

all we really did was just argue and fight over stupid things.. she was incredibly jealous, like I couldnt get a free sample from a lady type o thing

she was also very demeaning when it came to my own faith >_> getting talked down to and I was like how are we supposed to get on when you really do stuff like this

idk, I left it just wasnt worth tying up someone like that I felt like - especially someone working to really better their life with God and work out whatever they needed to work out since I probably wont be at that level 1000 new god flow anytime soon
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MabusIncarnate
01/02/21 1:15:45 AM
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Hold your tongue Mabus hold your tongue

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teepan95
01/02/21 1:15:46 AM
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g0ldie posted...
his parents likely passed on negative views about sex/sex in some contexts to him throughout his life, so he ends up feeling guilty about it

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I4NRulez
01/02/21 2:21:38 AM
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There's a french word for some sadness you feel after climaxing. I think it was just for masturbation.

Maybe you're friend felt pressured or he's gay or something. He should see a sex therapist.

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