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Drpooplol
12/31/20 3:29:46 PM
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I found out because he told me that he had sex with her, but wasn't sure if they should tell their partners. I'm good friends with both of their partners, so I told him that they needed to tell their partners or I would. Then when he found out that his girlfriend cheated, the boyfriend came to my place to vent. I learned that they were inebriated on shrooms, she was dissociating (look it up if you don't know what it is) beforehand and she had 6 hours of sleep over the previous 2 days.

I talked to my wife about it, and we came to the conclusion that it sounds like she was at least taken advantage of (my wife has a previous history of sexual abuse, so it sounded familiar to her). So we called the boyfriend up because I was worried he may be under the impression she made conscious decisions to cheat on him). He was with his girlfriend, so he put us on speaker, and my wife basically told her she was at least taken advantage of. Then it comes out that the guy didn't ask for any kind of consent, waived off her concerns, pushed her over, took her clothes off, and did it 4 times over the next like 6 hours. We heard the story of how she was raped. The worst part was when she had fully come to terms with what happened, she asked "So what happens now?". None of us had a good answer for her.

I've been a wreck since figuring all of this out. I've bawled on and off thinking about her experience and I just feel shell shocked. I also feel an incredible anger inside of me about the guy. I had considered him a really good friend of mine. I'm going to make sure he's at least ex-communicated by every mutual friend we have.

/blogfaqs

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RiKuToTheMiGhtY
12/31/20 3:33:55 PM
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Contact the police, file a report, and hope she has an article of clothing still unwashed from that event.


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Drpooplol
12/31/20 3:34:54 PM
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...
Contact the police, file a report, and hope she has an article of clothing still unwashed from that event.
She doesn't want to

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RiKuToTheMiGhtY
12/31/20 3:36:30 PM
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Well then she is not going to have much resolution and a rapist goes free to rape other women. If she actually was taken advantage of she should want this guy punished.

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deanshow
12/31/20 3:38:40 PM
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If she doesn't want to contact the police, then what? If you're gonna whoop that rapists ass I'd be all for it

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King_Hutton
12/31/20 3:39:07 PM
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Holy fuck

Thats bleak man

Sorry

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spikethedevil
12/31/20 3:41:52 PM
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...
The problem with this is if it gets police involved then it is he said she said since the woman does not want to file a report.

Women who do not want to file a rape report is a red flag, actual victims should not want a rapist to be free to attack them or others again. It also makes me wonder when a woman refuses to file a report if she was actually attacked.


Not being believed is a big part of it.


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Drpooplol
12/31/20 3:44:54 PM
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...
Well then she is not going to have much resolution and a rapist goes free to rape other women. If she actually was taken advantage of she should want this guy punished.
Do you think I don't fucking know that? How fucking dense do you think people are? The girl can barely exist right now she's experiencing so much trauma.

Please get the fuck out of my topic.

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Drpooplol
12/31/20 3:46:08 PM
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...
Women who do not want to file a rape report is a red flag
Jesus fucking Christ this is wrong.

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Antifar
12/31/20 3:49:20 PM
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...

This is a very uninformed take, my dude.

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Ruvan22
12/31/20 3:49:49 PM
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...
People who file a report are the women who more people think have a legit case of being attacked. Filing a report is the woman saying this fuck head raped me and I refuse to let him get away with it, I want to have it as official record.

Women who post it on social media however are most likely lying and just want to ruin a mans life. Real victims will report the crime and not let it go.

A) Did the girl in the original post "post it on social media"?
B) Are you claiming that EVERY woman should want to report a rape, no matter who the rapist is/their environment/surrounding culture/etc? Are you aware of the mounds of research that shows the multiple reasons a woman might not report a rape?
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ghostblob
12/31/20 3:50:02 PM
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People don't report rape because most of the time it's pointless as the police and justice system the world over heavily favours abusers over victims.

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King_Hutton
12/31/20 3:52:43 PM
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Ending 2020 by talking shit about rape victims

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Monolith1676
12/31/20 3:56:10 PM
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Nothing happens if she doesn't report it.

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Ruvan22
12/31/20 3:56:27 PM
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...
The reason I say that is because of the huge amount of false accusations going on since 2018. Women who report a rape mean business and they need to be believed because that report is not something to take lightly especially now.

While that may be true (I don't believe you that there's a "huge amount"), are you saying this particular girl wasn't raped? If not, why bring it up? You come across as very unsympathetic if your first response to a rape victim is bringing up all the "false accusations"...
And since you missed/ignored it,
B) Are you claiming that EVERY woman should want to report a rape, no matter who the rapist is/their environment/surrounding culture/etc? Are you aware of the mounds of research that shows the multiple reasons a woman might not report a rape?
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SquirtleSkwad
12/31/20 3:57:58 PM
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Drpooplol posted...
Then it comes out that the guy didn't ask for any kind of consent, waived off her concerns, pushed her over, took her clothes off, and did it 4 times over the next like 6 hours.
Holy SHIT

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Cornmuffins
12/31/20 4:27:52 PM
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Should have been banned. Warning is too light.

I am sorry for your friend and the awful situation she's in TC.
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Drpooplol
12/31/20 6:05:04 PM
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Thanks, bud.

And my wife is having a really hard time today as well from her friend going through this and reliving some trauma herself.

Shit's rough.

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