Current Events > I think my married female friend low key wants to cheat on her husband with me

Topic List	Page List: 1, 2
Shin Kudo 08/14/20 2:48:55 PM #51:	Politics posted... In what way did I describe her that throws a red flag? Basically the OP where she wants to visit despite being married and hinting it can get sexual. To me it's a cry for attention but I'm all for you doing your thing lol --- https://imgur.com/WjiGN0g https://imgur.com/o2NVhgX <cite>Shin Kudo posted [p:943380988] in I think my... [t:78910954]...</cite> <quote>Politics posted... </cite> <quote>In what way did I describe her that throws a red flag?</quote>Basically the OP where she wants to visit despite being married and hinting it can get sexual. To me it's a cry for attention but I'm all for you doing your thing lol </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BroodRyu 08/14/20 2:49:51 PM #52:	She should not be with this guy. Simple as that. If she wants to see other people, she should proceed with divorce proceedings. Dont participate in an affair. <cite>BroodRyu posted [p:943381025] in I think my... [t:78910954]...</cite> <quote>She should not be with this guy. Simple as that. If she wants to see other people, she should proceed with divorce proceedings. Dont participate in an affair. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gwynevere 08/14/20 2:50:50 PM #53:	Gobstoppers12 posted... I take it that you've cheated on your significant other before. I've never stayed in a relationship that I was unhappy in --- A hunter is a hunter...even in a dream <cite>Gwynevere posted [p:943381061] in I think my... [t:78910954]...</cite> <quote>Gobstoppers12 posted... </cite> <quote>I take it that you've cheated on your significant other before.</quote>I've never stayed in a relationship that I was unhappy in </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tenlaar 08/14/20 2:51:59 PM #54:	Politics posted... The thing is neither of us wants to travel because of COVID, so it's possible we might change our mind by then. So...what you're saying is that BroodRyu should have no respect for you? <cite>Tenlaar posted [p:943381097] in I think my... [t:78910954]...</cite> <quote>Politics posted... </cite> <quote>The thing is neither of us wants to travel because of COVID, so it's possible we might change our mind by then.</quote>So...what you're saying is that BroodRyu should have no respect for you? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BroodRyu 08/14/20 2:53:27 PM #55:	Tenlaar posted... So...what you're saying is that BroodRyu should have no respect for you? Im not saying he needs my respect. Why should he care if a random stranger respects him? Doesnt mean he wouldnt be a terrible person though if he proceeds. <cite>BroodRyu posted [p:943381162] in I think my... [t:78910954]...</cite> <quote>Tenlaar posted... </cite> <quote>So...what you're saying is that BroodRyu should have no respect for you?</quote>Im not saying he needs my respect. Why should he care if a random stranger respects him? Doesnt mean he wouldnt be a terrible person though if he proceeds. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Perascamin 08/14/20 2:56:48 PM #56:	Politics posted... Thank you lol Keep in mind guys this isn't like some random coworker or a girl I met at a bar, I've been close friends with her for several years and I legitimately give a shit about her as a person. Evidently you don't give a shit about her if you're thinking about having sex with her. Could that become a thing later down the line and in a healthy manner? Sure. Nothing about cheating is healthy for anyone involved. Its a temporary ego boost, and that's all. You give a shit about this woman as a friend? Talk and encourage her through divorce so she can actually move on with her life. --- I've grown. <cite>Perascamin posted [p:943381285] in I think my... [t:78910954]...</cite> <quote>Politics posted... </cite> <quote>Thank you lol Keep in mind guys this isn't like some random coworker or a girl I met at a bar, I've been close friends with her for several years and I legitimately give a shit about her as a person.</quote>Evidently you don't give a shit about her if you're thinking about having sex with her. Could that become a thing later down the line and in a healthy manner? Sure. Nothing about cheating is healthy for anyone involved. Its a temporary ego boost, and that's all. You give a shit about this woman as a friend? Talk and encourage her through divorce so she can actually move on with her life. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Politics 08/14/20 2:56:53 PM #57:	Look you have to understand this is difficult for me too. I've known this person for years and have caught feelings for her. Now her marriage is going south and she has caught feelings for me. I mean I realize some of this makes me sound like an asshole but like, put yourself in my shoes, wouldn't you at least be tempted to do this? --- (= <cite>Politics posted [p:943381290] in I think my... [t:78910954]...</cite> <quote>Look you have to understand this is difficult for me too. I've known this person for years and have caught feelings for her. Now her marriage is going south and she has caught feelings for me. I mean I realize some of this makes me sound like an asshole but like, put yourself in my shoes, wouldn't you at least be tempted to do this? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BroodRyu 08/14/20 2:58:06 PM #58:	No. Talk her through this, encourage her to divorce, whatever. But dont participate in an affair. <cite>BroodRyu posted [p:943381354] in I think my... [t:78910954]...</cite> <quote>No. Talk her through this, encourage her to divorce, whatever. But dont participate in an affair. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Perascamin 08/14/20 2:58:57 PM #59:	no, because I respect women whether or not it would be gainful to me --- I've grown. <cite>Perascamin posted [p:943381385] in I think my... [t:78910954]...</cite> <quote>no, because I respect women whether or not it would be gainful to me </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Politics 08/14/20 2:59:19 PM #60:	BroodRyu posted... No. Talk her through this, encourage her to divorce, whatever. But dont participate in an affair. Well honestly, maybe that's another way of looking at this. IDK I haven't talked to her today and we were both drunk on cam last night, maybe we need to figure something out that is more constructive in the long term >_< --- (= <cite>Politics posted [p:943381403] in I think my... [t:78910954]...</cite> <quote>BroodRyu posted... </cite> <quote>No. Talk her through this, encourage her to divorce, whatever. But dont participate in an affair.</quote> Well honestly, maybe that's another way of looking at this. IDK I haven't talked to her today and we were both drunk on cam last night, maybe we need to figure something out that is more constructive in the long term >_< </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gobstoppers12 08/14/20 2:59:52 PM #62:	On another note, keep in mind that you're really only getting her side of the story. Her abusive, neglectful husband could be trying his best and she's not satisfied. She could just be bored and trying to justify the cheap, destructive thrill of infidelity. Always be wary of a girl who has a "grass is greener" mentality, because she might be thinking the same thing about you in a couple of years. --- I write Naruto Fanfiction. But I am definitely not a furry. <cite>Gobstoppers12 posted [p:943381416] in I think my... [t:78910954]...</cite> <quote> On another note, keep in mind that you're really only getting her side of the story. Her abusive, neglectful husband could be trying his best and she's not satisfied. She could just be bored and trying to justify the cheap, destructive thrill of infidelity. Always be wary of a girl who has a "grass is greener" mentality, because she might be thinking the same thing about you in a couple of years. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gwynevere 08/14/20 3:03:32 PM #63:	Politics posted... Look you have to understand this is difficult for me too. I've known this person for years and have caught feelings for her. Now her marriage is going south and she has caught feelings for me. I mean I realize some of this makes me sound like an asshole but like, put yourself in my shoes, wouldn't you at least be tempted to do this? The only reason anyone is saying it'd make you an asshole is because society has pushed this nonsense about being loyal even to shitty abusive partners. I dont know the whole situation with him and her, but is she worried about how he'll take/what he'll do if she tries to leave? Either way, she has some needs that aren't being fulfilled and if you're both feeling each other then so be it --- A hunter is a hunter...even in a dream <cite>Gwynevere posted [p:943381557] in I think my... [t:78910954]...</cite> <quote>Politics posted... </cite> <quote>Look you have to understand this is difficult for me too. I've known this person for years and have caught feelings for her. Now her marriage is going south and she has caught feelings for me. I mean I realize some of this makes me sound like an asshole but like, put yourself in my shoes, wouldn't you at least be tempted to do this?</quote>The only reason anyone is saying it'd make you an asshole is because society has pushed this nonsense about being loyal even to shitty abusive partners. I dont know the whole situation with him and her, but is she worried about how he'll take/what he'll do if she tries to leave? Either way, she has some needs that aren't being fulfilled and if you're both feeling each other then so be it </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lysandear 08/14/20 3:03:45 PM #64:	Politics posted... Look you have to understand this is difficult for me too. I've known this person for years and have caught feelings for her. Now her marriage is going south and she has caught feelings for me. I mean I realize some of this makes me sound like an asshole but like, put yourself in my shoes, wouldn't you at least be tempted to do this? No, because I'm not thirsty and if I was I'd have outlets that don't involve homewrecking. I do think I was too hard on you before but you honestly just seem thirsty <cite>Lysandear posted [p:943381568] in I think my... [t:78910954]...</cite> <quote>Politics posted... </cite> <quote>Look you have to understand this is difficult for me too. I've known this person for years and have caught feelings for her. Now her marriage is going south and she has caught feelings for me. I mean I realize some of this makes me sound like an asshole but like, put yourself in my shoes, wouldn't you at least be tempted to do this?</quote>No, because I'm not thirsty and if I was I'd have outlets that don't involve homewrecking. I do think I was too hard on you before but you honestly just seem thirsty </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shin Kudo 08/14/20 3:05:36 PM #65:	Politics posted... Look you have to understand this is difficult for me too. I've known this person for years and have caught feelings for her. Now her marriage is going south and she has caught feelings for me. I mean I realize some of this makes me sound like an asshole but like, put yourself in my shoes, wouldn't you at least be tempted to do this? I did do something like what you want to despite everyone else around telling me to abandon ship. I thought I knew better but had to see for myself. Hindsight is 20/20 but if I could take it back, I 100% would. If she really wants your D, she should at least be separated from her husband. But this is part of the reason why I'm all for you making your own mistakes because people really need to see how shit works out for themselves because despite all the good advice, you'll always do what you want --- https://imgur.com/WjiGN0g https://imgur.com/o2NVhgX <cite>Shin Kudo posted [p:943381638] in I think my... [t:78910954]...</cite> <quote>Politics posted... </cite> <quote>Look you have to understand this is difficult for me too. I've known this person for years and have caught feelings for her. Now her marriage is going south and she has caught feelings for me. I mean I realize some of this makes me sound like an asshole but like, put yourself in my shoes, wouldn't you at least be tempted to do this?</quote>I did do something like what you want to despite everyone else around telling me to abandon ship. I thought I knew better but had to see for myself. Hindsight is 20/20 but if I could take it back, I 100% would. If she really wants your D, she should at least be separated from her husband. But this is part of the reason why I'm all for you making your own mistakes because people really need to see how shit works out for themselves because despite all the good advice, you'll always do what you want </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tenlaar 08/14/20 3:07:20 PM #66:	Gwynevere posted... The only reason anyone is saying it'd make you an asshole is because society has pushed this nonsense about being loyal even to shitty abusive partners. Not being a cheater isn't about who your partner is, it's about who you are. Being in a shitty and/or abusive marriage is a reason to leave the marriage, it's not a reason to cheat. <cite>Tenlaar posted [p:943381693] in I think my... [t:78910954]...</cite> <quote>Gwynevere posted... </cite> <quote>The only reason anyone is saying it'd make you an asshole is because society has pushed this nonsense about being loyal even to shitty abusive partners.</quote>Not being a cheater isn't about who your partner is, it's about who you are. Being in a shitty and/or abusive marriage is a reason to leave the marriage, it's not a reason to cheat. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gobstoppers12 08/14/20 3:08:58 PM #67:	Gwynevere posted... society has pushed this nonsense about being loyal Gwynevere posted... Either way, she has some needs that aren't being fulfilled and if you're both feeling each other then so be it Spoken like a person who has no honor or sense of responsibility. If a marriage is over, at least have the courtesy to talk to your husband/wife/whatever and come to an understanding. Marriage isn't just some ceremony for the cameras. It's a promise to be loving, faithful, and honest with your spouse. Cheating on a boyfriend/girlfriend is disgusting enough, but sneaking behind the back of your partner in marriage? That's truly fucked up. --- I write Naruto Fanfiction. But I am definitely not a furry. <cite>Gobstoppers12 posted [p:943381744] in I think my... [t:78910954]...</cite> <quote>Gwynevere posted... </cite> <quote>society has pushed this nonsense about being loyal</quote> Gwynevere posted... </cite> <quote>Either way, she has some needs that aren't being fulfilled and if you're both feeling each other then so be it</quote> Spoken like a person who has no honor or sense of responsibility. If a marriage is over, at least have the courtesy to talk to your husband/wife/whatever and come to an understanding. Marriage isn't just some ceremony for the cameras. It's a promise to be loving, faithful, and honest with your spouse. Cheating on a boyfriend/girlfriend is disgusting enough, but sneaking behind the back of your partner in marriage? That's truly fucked up. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jerry_Hellyeah 08/14/20 3:59:05 PM #68:	TC really wants a taste of some sloppy seconds. I dunno how cheating isnt gross to you people, but I guess some of you just have to take what you can get, huh.... --- This is a cool sig <cite>Jerry_Hellyeah posted [p:943383594] in I think my... [t:78910954]...</cite> <quote>TC really wants a taste of some sloppy seconds. I dunno how cheating isnt gross to you people, but I guess some of you just have to take what you can get, huh.... </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Topic List	Page List: 1, 2

Current Events > I think my married female friend low key wants to cheat on her husband with me (+) Yeah! (+)

Current Events > I think my married female friend low key wants to cheat on her husband with me