Current Events > How do I stop jerking off so much?

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I get it man, but nobody can do it for you.
You have to set small goals. Like go one day. Then go 2 days. And so on

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What is so difficult about not melting down over peoples dicks? Jesus fucking Christ

J03can posted...

I get it man, but nobody can do it for you.
You have to set small goals. Like go one day. Then go 2 days. And so on

But other people have successfully done that and had successful strategies and ways to keep themselves honest. Im not expecting someone to pull my hand off my dick but telling myself not tonight honestly never works for more than a night or two. So advice is appreciated.

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DuranOfForcena posted...

the justification is that it is harmless

It is not.

DuranOfForcena posted...

and can go on to be a part in preventing issues like phimosis and nasty buildup

...soap and water.

DuranOfForcena posted...

as well as being regarded as more aesthetically pleasing by a large majority of the western world

lol, no. The only majority western country might be the US and even that is slowly changing. It's also not a reason to force it on others.

DuranOfForcena posted...

and the aesthetics part is obviously objective, even if many many more are in one camp compared to the other.

You mean subjective and you still overestimate your side.

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...and now that other dude blocked me for asking him not to engage with the dick meltdown in my topic

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Jerk it to stuff that disgusts you or turns you off. That'll kick the habit.

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FortuneCookie posted...

Jerk it to stuff that disgusts you or turns you off. That'll kick the habit.

Or result in some weird fetishes.

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Sir Will posted...

Or result in some weird fetishes.

Ok Im confused right now - I cant see post #55 but I can see this one.

FortuneCookie posted...

Jerk it to stuff that disgusts you or turns you off. That'll kick the habit.

Nah that just means Ill jerk off for longer trying to get that nut

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King_Hellebuyck posted...

Ok Im confused right now - I cant see post #55 but I can see this one.

I quoted DuranOfForcena, so if you blocked him then that's why you can't see mine I guess.

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King_Hellebuyck posted...

What is so difficult about not melting down over peoples dicks? Jesus fucking Christ

But other people have successfully done that and had successful strategies and ways to keep themselves honest. Im not expecting someone to pull my hand off my dick but telling myself not tonight honestly never works for more than a night or two. So advice is appreciated.

Well dude that is my advice. Set small goals. I would strongly recommend dating. If you dont have confidence and think your ugly or some other dumb shit like that (not calling you dumb, i just used to be like this and now know its toxic thinking thats not true), do stuff to get yourself some confidence - excercise, new clothes, a haircut, etc

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Sir Will posted...

I quoted DuranOfForcena, so if you blocked him then that's why you can't see mine I guess.

Oh whoops, hes the first person I blocked and didnt realize thats how it works. My bad.

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Sir Will, I assumed he had me on ignore because I couldnt see 55.

J03can posted...

Well dude that is my advice. Set small goals. I would strongly recommend dating. If you dont have confidence and think your ugly or some other dumb shit like that (not calling you dumb, i just used to be like this and now know its toxic thinking thats not true), do stuff to get yourself some confidence - excercise, new clothes, a haircut, etc

Ive been struggling with romantic and sexual relationships for a few years now, which certainly hasnt helped. My
mental health definitely has too much toxicity, and Im working on all that. But unfortunately get a date during a pandemic isnt very helpful advice for me right now, although I do appreciate the effort.

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Sir Will posted...

Or result in some weird fetishes.

"Horses in high heels was a mistake!"

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If I talk to a new chick I usually stop jerking it at least 3 days before we meet up or whatever. I used to jerk it like mad then actually get some cheeks I wouldn't be able to nut. Jerking it all the time screws up your ability to actually nut from sex.

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King_Hellebuyck posted...

Oh whoops, hes the first person I blocked and didnt realize thats how it works. My bad.

Sir Will, I assumed he had me on ignore because I couldnt see 55.

Ive been struggling with romantic and sexual relationships for a few years now, which certainly hasnt helped. My
mental health definitely has too much toxicity, and Im working on all that. But unfortunately get a date during a pandemic isnt very helpful advice for me right now, although I do appreciate the effort.

Well there was more to it. If youre not comfortable dating thats ok, try to focus more on getting rid of that toxicity. Sounds like you are, so good.

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J03can posted...

Well there was more to it. If youre not comfortable dating thats ok, try to focus more on getting rid of that toxicity. Sounds like you are, so good.

Yup! Last year I fucked my knee up so bad that it still hasnt recovered, like Im in a ton of pain if I walk too much or try to push it exercise wise and that interferes with my job where Im on my feet all day. Trying to really work out so I can feel good hasnt been viable and that gets me down so much. Like whats the point of getting laid if Im out of breath in 2 minutes?

Jerking less is actually fairly low on my list of shit I need to do, but I figured it would also be the one that CE would have advice for.

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This topic is a rollercoaster I never want to get off of.

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Lost_All_Senses posted...

I never want to get off

Hard disagree

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