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DK9292
08/01/20 8:29:56 PM
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...then why should you bother trying to be anything else?

I've still never gotten a genuine answer to this.

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Lost_All_Senses
08/01/20 8:32:17 PM
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Because there's probably a reason everyone is an asshole to you. Or maybe you just perceive everything with an asshole lense over it.

Im on the other end and think barely anyone is an asshole in person

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Eliza-Schuyler
08/01/20 8:32:53 PM
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because maybe you cant see that theres something that makes everyone treat you like that.

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KingWhiteKnight
08/01/20 8:34:33 PM
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If one person treats you badly then maby something is just wrong with that person. If almost everyone treats you badly the problem is probably you. If you're the common denimator there's a pretty good chance that you're also the problem.
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DK9292
08/01/20 8:34:37 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
Because there's probably a reason everyone is an asshole to you. Or maybe you just perceive everything with an asshole lense over it.

Eliza-Schuyler posted...
because maybe you cant see that theres something that makes everyone treat you like that.
All I'm reading is "if you do your best to not be an asshole and you still get treated like one, it's still your fault and you deserve it".

So again, why bother.

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MabusIncarnate
08/01/20 8:35:00 PM
#6:


Some people don't want to be an asshole. Not everyone is programmed that way.

Not trying to be all high and mighty and say be above it, but I have no interest in being an asshole to anyone. I try my best to be a decent person.

This is speaking in real life not message forums. I'll tell someone "shut the fuck up" on CE but it's because it's funny. I don't tell people that IRL ever.

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DK9292
08/01/20 8:35:34 PM
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KingWhiteKnight posted...
If one person treats you badly there's something wrong with that person. If almost everyone treats you badly the problem is probably you. If you're the common denimator there's a pretty good chance that you're also the problem.
Even when you try not to be. So what, I'm just beyond help? Sounds like it's not worth trying.

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DK9292
08/01/20 8:36:00 PM
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MabusIncarnate posted...
Some people don't want to be an asshole. Not everyone is programmed that way.
But apparently I fucking am.

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MabusIncarnate
08/01/20 8:37:49 PM
#9:


Give me an example as to an instance you are referring to

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OpenlyGator
08/01/20 8:38:18 PM
#10:


If the treatment is UNdeserved (and that does happen), you have a legit point.

If it IS deserved...it's time for some self-reflection.

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Eliza-Schuyler
08/01/20 8:38:20 PM
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DK9292 posted...
Even when you try not to be. So what, I'm just beyond help? Sounds like it's not worth trying.
here it is. you dont see what is making you unliked. its a common issue. it happens to almost everyone. theres not much we on CE can do to help, you have to find it in yourself. youll see one day.

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DK9292
08/01/20 8:39:33 PM
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Eliza-Schuyler posted...
here it is. you dont see what is making you unliked. its a common issue. it happens to almost everyone. theres not much we on CE can do to help, you have to find it in yourself. youll see one day.
Sounds like an excuse to judge people without having to explain yourself.

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MrKapowski
08/01/20 8:40:15 PM
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DK9292
08/01/20 8:40:54 PM
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And of course everyone's just parroting the same fucking bullshit without actually attempting to answer my question. If anything you're all PROVING my point by treating me like an asshole JUST for asking.

Fuck it.

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Eliza-Schuyler
08/01/20 8:40:57 PM
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DK9292 posted...
Sounds like an excuse to judge people without having to explain yourself.
...?
well there is a difference between judging because ur not very nice and judging because theyre not very nice

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Eliza-Schuyler
08/01/20 8:41:19 PM
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DK9292 posted...
And of course everyone's just parroting the same fucking bullshit without actually attempting to answer my question. If anything you're all PROVING my point by treating me like an asshole JUST for asking.

Fuck it.
whos treating you bad here?

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MabusIncarnate
08/01/20 8:42:10 PM
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Wait, are you the one who was putting in job applications asking for resume help, and then just kept blowing up on everyone?

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DK9292
08/01/20 8:42:48 PM
#18:


Eliza-Schuyler posted...
whos treating you bad here?
Everyone who keeps parroting the whole "if you meet an asshole/if everyone you meet are assholes" line at me.

Eliza-Schuyler posted...
...?
well there is a difference between judging because ur not very nice and judging because theyre not very nice
Your entire contribution is just

"How do I stop being an asshole"
"You ARE an asshole"
"How do I stop?"
"Dunno. Figure it out for yourself. Asshole."

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DK9292
08/01/20 8:43:27 PM
#19:


Know what, fuck it. I'm out before people start telling me to kill myself again

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Eliza-Schuyler
08/01/20 8:44:20 PM
#20:


DK9292 posted...
Everyone who keeps parroting the whole "if you meet an asshole/if everyone you meet are assholes" line at me.

Your entire contribution is just

"How do I stop being an asshole"
"You ARE an asshole"
"How do I stop?"
"Dunno. Figure it out for yourself. Asshole."
see, i dont know if you are though
maybe youre around toxic people but theres not enough info to see whats really going on

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MabusIncarnate
08/01/20 8:46:23 PM
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Yeah that's definitely you, and I see nothing has changed. You need professional help, your inability to manage anger and how fast you escalate conversations to a boiling point is scary. Seriously, look into professional help. I won't be returning to this thread, because i've seen them all before out of you TC. Good luck.

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nfearurspecimn
08/01/20 8:47:00 PM
#22:


no one treats you like you're an asshole. just stop being one

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Eliza-Schuyler
08/01/20 8:47:11 PM
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if it is such a problem to you, see a therapist!! theyre really helpful.

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DK9292
08/01/20 8:47:52 PM
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Eliza-Schuyler posted...
if it is such a problem to you, see a therapist!! theyre really helpful.
Yeah I'll get right on that with all the money I don't have, you condescending jackass.

That's everyone's fucking solution. "Just go to therapy you fucking idiot it's not that hard" FUCK YOU. Do you not think if it was that simple I WOULD have already? I have multiple reasons not to, and money's a MASSIVE one.

But no. It's got to be fucking easy, and I'm just stupid. Right?

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nfearurspecimn
08/01/20 8:48:37 PM
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DK9292 posted...
Yeah I'll get right on that with all the money I don't have, you condescending jackass.
jesus christ, you took a wellmeaning post and decided to be an asshole. good job, bro

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DK9292
08/01/20 8:49:12 PM
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nfearurspecimn posted...
jesus christ, you took a wellmeaning post and decided to be an asshole. good job, bro
Eat shit. As we've established, there's not point NOT being an asshole, because apparently I'm beyond fucking help.

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Laserion
08/01/20 8:49:45 PM
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Maybe you think they are treating you that way because of A, B, C and D.
So you try to change your behavior about A, B, C and D. But it's really all about E, and you don't know it, so you "trying your best" on A, B, C and D is not working.
Maybe if you ask them sincerely, one of them will notice that you really are clueless about E, and tell you.
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nfearurspecimn
08/01/20 8:50:06 PM
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DK9292 posted...
Eat shit.
no you. you deserve good treatment and such but you're a complete asshole that has no regard for anyone else and I fail to feel sorry for you when you're a complete dick.

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DK9292
08/01/20 8:50:14 PM
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Laserion posted...
Maybe if you ask them sincerely, one of them will notice that you really are clueless about E, and tell you.
A bold-faced fucking lie.

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DK9292
08/01/20 8:50:34 PM
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nfearurspecimn posted...
you deserve good treatment
An even bigger fucking lie

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nfearurspecimn
08/01/20 8:51:07 PM
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DK9292 posted...
An even bigger fucking lie
nah you're right. you don't deserve good treatment at all. You're an asshole

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Eliza-Schuyler
08/01/20 8:51:25 PM
#32:


DK9292 posted...
Yeah I'll get right on that with all the money I don't have, you condescending jackass.
im sorry, im saving up to go to therapy
That's everyone's fucking solution. "Just go to therapy you fucking idiot it's not that hard" FUCK YOU. Do you not think if it was that simple I WOULD have already? I have multiple reasons not to, and money's a MASSIVE one.
theres some therapists that are cheaper and insurance can help
But no. It's got to be fucking easy, and I'm just stupid. Right?


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DK9292
08/01/20 8:51:54 PM
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nfearurspecimn posted...
nah you're right. you don't deserve good treatment at all. You're an asshole
Exactly.

And I'll always BE an asshole, because I'm just "programmed" to be one and nothing will fucking change, and it's all my fault and I deserve it all. Right?

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Eliza-Schuyler
08/01/20 8:53:26 PM
#34:


DK9292 posted...
Exactly.

And I'll always BE an asshole, because I'm just "programmed" to be one and nothing will fucking change, and it's all my fault and I deserve to die.
if i could be there, i would
no one deserves to die. not you and as ive tried to learn, not me either. maybe youre not so nice, but everyone deserves help. im sorry you cant afford help. im in the same boat, buddy. i hope you can one day :)

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nfearurspecimn
08/01/20 8:53:38 PM
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DK9292 posted...
Exactly.

And I'll always BE an asshole, because I'm just "programmed" to be one and nothing will fucking change, and it's all my fault and I deserve it all. Right?
you're not programmed to be one don't give that bs. you can choose to be better but you won't because you like the feeling you get by people saying you're right about other people

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DK9292
08/01/20 8:54:29 PM
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nfearurspecimn posted...
you're not programmed to be one don't give that bs. you can choose to be better but you won't because you like the feeling you get by people saying you're right about other people
YOU'Re the one who said some people ar ejust programmed to be assholes.

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Lordgold666
08/01/20 8:54:33 PM
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Then just wink

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DespondentDeity
08/01/20 8:54:37 PM
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This guy is so pathetic lmao

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nfearurspecimn
08/01/20 8:55:30 PM
#39:


DK9292 posted...
YOU'Re the one who said some people ar ejust programmed to be assholes.
huh? I didn't say people were programmed you did that. Chell out loser

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DK9292
08/01/20 8:55:45 PM
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nfearurspecimn posted...
huh? I didn't say people were programmed you did that. Chell out loser
Fuck you

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nfearurspecimn
08/01/20 8:57:14 PM
#41:


DK9292 posted...
Fuck you
dude you're telling people they have to conform to your idea of what they should be. I think you should back the fuck up and think about what you're doing

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RedJackson
08/01/20 8:57:17 PM
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DK9292 posted...
Exactly.

And I'll always BE an asshole, because I'm just "programmed" to be one and nothing will fucking change, and it's all my fault and I deserve it all. Right?

Bruh, just take a couple steps back - sometimes shit happens and sometimes you can tip things on your favor. Shoot it's not like people are right there with ya to evaluate how you act.

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Eliza-Schuyler
08/01/20 8:58:43 PM
#43:


im sorry, i cant help...

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Laserion
08/01/20 9:00:01 PM
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DK9292 posted...

A bold-faced fucking lie.

If everyone is treating you like an asshole, statistically there must exist at least one person who will tell you.
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nfearurspecimn
08/01/20 9:07:47 PM
#46:


calm down

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Laserion
08/01/20 9:09:09 PM
#47:


I am curious: What do you think is the real explanation for why people treat you like you are an asshole?
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nfearurspecimn
08/01/20 9:09:50 PM
#48:


you want to test me?

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Lost_All_Senses
08/01/20 9:09:52 PM
#49:


Please learn from this topic. At least learn to never make this topic again. There's no winners here. You need one on one talks with people. Not talks where you're on display and constantly feel the need to defend yourself to a crowd. One on ones are where real discussions happen.

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nfearurspecimn
08/01/20 9:09:57 PM
#50:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UFcJmOs8DRQ

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FlameTurtle
08/01/20 9:10:58 PM
#51:


Youre the common factor in all of your interactions with other people. Self reflection is an important skill.

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