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Vermander
08/01/20 12:49:50 AM
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I am now confused.

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OffTempo
08/01/20 12:51:03 AM
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More details and full love story

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viewmaster_pi
08/01/20 12:52:23 AM
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well that's a bummer, but she's an ex for a reason, moving on

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Vermander
08/01/20 12:53:31 AM
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viewmaster_pi posted...
well that's a bummer, but she's an ex for a reason, moving on

I feel like its causing me not to fully emotionally invest in my new experience though.

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ohiostate124
08/01/20 12:53:33 AM
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Dont fall for it op
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Vermander
08/01/20 12:56:38 AM
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ohiostate124 posted...
Dont fall for it op

Im not its just bugging me. She blocked me on everything cause she is upset

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ohiostate124
08/01/20 12:57:14 AM
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Sounds very manipulative.
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R1masher
08/01/20 12:58:19 AM
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Get some sexy time out of it

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Vermander
08/01/20 12:58:32 AM
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ohiostate124 posted...
Sounds very manipulative.

Yeah especially since she has a boyfriend and 2 months ago said she felt nothing for me.

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Solid Snake07
08/01/20 1:00:17 AM
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Vermander posted...
I feel like its causing me not to fully emotionally invest in my new experience though.


Which is probably what this girl is trying to manipulate you for

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B-Factor
08/01/20 1:00:56 AM
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Vermander posted...
she has a boyfriend and 2 months ago said she felt nothing for me

Forget she existed.
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Vermander
08/01/20 1:01:51 AM
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Solid Snake07 posted...
Which is probably what this girl is trying to manipulate you for

At what gain?

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DespondentDeity
08/01/20 1:01:52 AM
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People want things they feel are out of reach, if she unblocks you, block her and forget about it. If you get back with her literally nothing will be different and it will just fail again.

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Vermander
08/01/20 1:02:39 AM
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DespondentDeity posted...
People want things they feel are out of reach, if she unblocks you, block her and forget about it. If you get back with her literally nothing will be different and it will just fail again.

I just feel like at 26 adults would grow out of this wanting what you cant have phase.

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RiKuToTheMiGhtY
08/01/20 1:02:56 AM
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She is trying to bullshit you, women who play games like this are annoying as fuck.

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Vermander
08/01/20 1:03:50 AM
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...
She is trying to bullshit you, women who play games like this are annoying as fuck.

I called her out for it and she tried to pretend I wasnt interested months ago.

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emmo
08/01/20 1:04:57 AM
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It's a game. Don't buy it.

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LordDemonWolf
08/01/20 1:05:14 AM
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It's just 'cause your not the most important thing for her, but, when nothing else is going on, you're a safe alternative that can be easily dropped when something better comes along. Just block her shit and have fun with the new girl.

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Blue_School
08/01/20 1:08:21 AM
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Vermander posted...
I called her out for it and she tried to pretend I wasnt interested months ago.
Ah, gaslighting. Truly the most refined form of manipulation and an early indicator of later underhanded psychological tactics that are to come.

mwaa, such a fine form of argumentation to sprinkle and employ into ones bag of tricks.

RUN TC

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Vermander
08/01/20 1:08:54 AM
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LordDemonWolf posted...
It's just 'cause your not the most important thing for her, but, when nothing else is going on, you're a safe alternative that can be easily dropped when something better comes along. Just block her shit and have fun with the new girl.

she did that for me so I win I guess?

Im not entirely sure how I feel about the new girl. She feels way too into me.


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Unsugarized_Foo
08/01/20 1:09:06 AM
#21:


She's broken and will marry her current bf in a year or so

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Number090684
08/01/20 1:09:57 AM
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...
She is trying to bullshit you, women who play games like this are annoying as fuck.

This. Sounds your ex wants a spare just in case things go south with whoever she is currently seeing. IMO focus on the new girl and forget your ex. Seems like she's trying to sabotage your current relationship and the new girl you're currently with deserves a clean slate instead of being inconvenienced and toyed around with by you, just because you're ex want to be a selfish slut and screw around.

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LordDemonWolf
08/01/20 1:11:32 AM
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Well true. But, if you dont block her. Shell randombly unblock you, and then a message will come through when you're not expecting shit, and it could go ok, or it can fuck all sorts of stuff up. If you block her, it's on your terms, and youll never hear from her unless you remove it.

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ZeroX91
08/01/20 1:11:59 AM
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Vermander posted...
I just feel like at 26 adults would grow out of this wanting what you cant have phase.
Fuck no. We as a generation stopped developing emotinally at 14....think it had something to do with facebook

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DespondentDeity
08/01/20 1:12:27 AM
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Vermander posted...
I just feel like at 26 adults would grow out of this wanting what you cant have phase.

I'm 31 and this shit comes up all the time. Like a recent example is someone canceling a first date and I said "cool, I'm not interested in rescheduling" then they started blowing up my phone trying to change my mind and when that didn't work they started abuse tactics insulting and attempting to make it seem like they were never interested. Not everyone is toxic about it but the attitudes change pretty quickly one way or another when their games have no payoff.

My rule is I never honor an action or message from anyone if the intention is to stress me out.

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Vermander
08/01/20 1:13:26 AM
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Unsugarized_Foo posted...
She's broken and will marry her current bf in a year or so

She has BPD so kinda. She did start seeing a therapist.

Number090684 posted...
This. Sounds your ex wants a spare just in case things go south with whoever she is currently seeing. IMO focus on the new girl and forget your ex. Seems like she's trying to sabotage your current relationship and the new girl you're currently with deserves a clean slate instead of being inconvenienced and toyed around with by you, just because you're ex want to be a selfish slut and screw around.

Yeah thats what I am trying to give the new girl. At least shes been patient and hasnt been pushing me to call it official.


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Unsugarized_Foo
08/01/20 1:16:49 AM
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Vermander posted...
She has BPD so kinda. She did start seeing a therapist.

Yeah, I kinda assumed that from what you said. So I'm gonna go ahead and double down on that. Don't get mixed up in the 'I hate you don't leave me' life, if you can avoid it

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fhqwhgads
08/01/20 1:19:06 AM
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Jealousy isn't a good metric for love

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TheMikh
08/01/20 1:19:09 AM
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exes are exes for a reason bro

don't fall for that manipulation

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Vermander
08/01/20 1:23:02 AM
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I am sure in her own twisted way she does really believe she loves me.

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berlyman101
08/01/20 1:26:41 AM
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Classic trap tc, it's a good sign for you but don't for a minute think it's authentic.

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Try_Another___
08/01/20 1:27:00 AM
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TC how old are you?

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Vermander
08/01/20 1:27:20 AM
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Try_Another___ posted...
TC how old are you?

28, why?

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Unsugarized_Foo
08/01/20 1:28:08 AM
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People with BPD are absolutely terrified of being abandoned.

She was probably thinking that she had you within reach until you started going out with the new chick. Then she felt like you're totally abandoning her, which makes her horrified to the point she's willing to say stuff like that.

She'd probably shower you with love for a hot minute before she ends up turning and projecting her negative feelings on to you or place you on the back burner again

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Vermander
08/01/20 1:30:33 AM
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Unsugarized_Foo posted...
People with BPD are absolutely terrified of being abandoned.

She was probably thinking that she had you within reach until you started going out with the new chick. Then she felt like you're totally abandoning her, which makes her horrified to the point she's willing to say stuff like that.

She'd probably shower you with love for a hot minute before she ends up turning and projecting her negative feelings on to you or place you on the back burner again

I called her out about this too. I said Im not abandoning you, we are still friends and can go to the gym together. She basically said she cant be friends with me if I am with someone else so...


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Solid Snake07
08/01/20 1:33:58 AM
#36:


Vermander posted...
At what gain?


That I don't know. It could be a ton of reasons, including just for shits and giggles

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Try_Another___
08/01/20 1:35:40 AM
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Vermander posted...
28, why?

I think your age is an important factor in how to respond to something like this. You certainly arent old, but you certainly arent a kid either. I say go with your intuition, but be mindful of the feelings of everyone involved, including your own

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Unsugarized_Foo
08/01/20 1:38:21 AM
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Vermander posted...
I called her out about this too. I said Im not abandoning you, we are still friends and can go to the gym together. She basically said she cant be friends with me if I am with someone else so...

Oh well, what can ya do. Is she prone to getting angry af over basically nothing?

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Reiss
08/01/20 1:39:31 AM
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time for a harem
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Vermander
08/01/20 9:33:12 AM
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Reiss posted...
time for a harem

Threesome confirmed

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MarqueeSeries
08/01/20 9:41:42 AM
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Is this the same girl you've been posting about for years
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jon1012
08/01/20 9:54:22 AM
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It didnt work out for a reason. Move on

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Vermander
08/01/20 10:15:22 AM
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jeffhardyb0yz posted...
For literal years smh, beta males never learn lol

*juggling 2 girls*

*Beta male*

Anyways I havent said a word to her in a couple days. If anything Im more upset since we were good friends and Id just like to have my friend back.

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alphagamble
08/01/20 10:19:01 AM
#46:


Vermander posted...
Id just like to have my friend back.
That's never going to happen

Move on

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DespondentDeity
08/01/20 10:47:01 AM
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Vermander posted...
*juggling 2 girls*

*Beta male*

This isn't juggling tho, you're simping over an ex and happen to be seeing someone new.

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BakonBitz
08/01/20 11:18:24 AM
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Vermander posted...


*juggling 2 girls*

*Beta male*

Anyways I havent said a word to her in a couple days. If anything Im more upset since we were good friends and Id just like to have my friend back.

Well, unfortunately I don't think that'll happen. She gave an ultimatum and if it means abandoning your current relationship, I'd say fuck no.
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ohiostate124
08/01/20 12:05:36 PM
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jeffhardyb0yz posted...
LOL juggling 2 girls doesn't make you not beta wtf kinda logic is that. The fact that that's your reasoning is pretty beta in itself. Also, you're not juggling two girl, she's juggling you. The minute she does something, you're thrown off base, and you come here to vent/act confused. You can't even fully enjoy the new girl you're with so you gotta stop framing it like you're the one that's holding the cards here.

Here's the gist: She's not really your friend. She's a girl you dated and is now a crutch you want to find every reason to be attached to and you're a crutch she uses for attention and an occasional fuck when she's down. When you're falling for the games, she backs off because she has you. When you're not, then she tries to draw you back into her web. Harsh but it will continue as you keep getting thrown off base by her.
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