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Pus_N_Pecans
07/23/20 10:21:02 AM
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Or, what's your love language I suppose?

Here's a quiz if you aren't exactly sure either.
https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/singles-quiz/

This is what I got, but I think physical touch should probably be a bit higher than words of affirmation. Hugs and physical closeness means a lot to me.



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Guide
07/23/20 10:21:24 AM
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With my dick.

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R1masher
07/23/20 10:24:12 AM
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I give a slight nod, just up a little, quick flash of eye contact... then you feel loved

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Squall28
07/23/20 10:27:22 AM
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Physical touch followed by quality time. The acts of service and receiving gifts one sounds like a gold digger.

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BuckVanHammer
07/23/20 10:28:47 AM
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I got quality time as well. makes sense.

how I show affection is way different tho. I'm like a 12 year old boy most of the time.

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Pus_N_Pecans
07/23/20 10:29:56 AM
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Squall28 posted...
Physical touch followed by quality time. The acts of service and receiving gifts one sounds like a gold digger.
The gifts related questions in the quiz are really obvious, but I do think a thoughtful gift can be pretty special. It shows your partner/lover pays attention to you.

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Guide
07/23/20 10:30:17 AM
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Squall28 posted...
Physical touch followed by quality time. The acts of service and receiving gifts one sounds like a gold digger.

Same, but I hate that I got the same results as you.

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ZeroX91
07/23/20 10:31:30 AM
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If gifts could go into negitives that would be more correct, that shit is a fuck ton of pressure to the point im upset by them cuz you gotta get something good something they like that means something...fucking stressful man

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Squall28
07/23/20 10:31:49 AM
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Guide posted...
Same, but I hate that I got the same results as you.

Touch me Guide.

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Guide
07/23/20 10:32:28 AM
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Squall28 posted...
Touch me Guide.

Guide my hand, Slaanesh.

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DiamondDogs
07/23/20 10:34:05 AM
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Quality time. Im not the biggest fan of receiving gifts or compliments.

Makes me uncomfortable, you know?

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ZeroX91
07/23/20 10:35:13 AM
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Guide posted...
Guide my hand, Slaanesh.
I get that refrence now!!!

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Guide
07/23/20 10:44:28 AM
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ZeroX91 posted...
I get that refrence now!!!

Welcome to the club. Here's your complementary heresy and pauldrons.

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Flockaveli
07/23/20 10:47:40 AM
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I hate gifts, it feels so cheap and insulting.

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emblem boy
07/23/20 10:48:36 AM
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Acts of service
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Pus_N_Pecans
07/23/20 10:51:40 AM
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Flockaveli posted...
I hate gifts, it feels so cheap and insulting.
I really don't think it has to be that way though. Like I would consider something as simple as treating someone to dinner as a "gift".

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Flockaveli
07/23/20 10:52:48 AM
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Pus_N_Pecans posted...
I really don't think it has to be that way though. Like I would consider something as simple as treating someone to dinner as a "gift".
That sounds like an Act of Service.

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emblem boy
07/23/20 10:54:31 AM
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Ya, gifts don't have to be luxurious. I think of gifts like, when I travel for work I always try and get a postcard of the place and write something sweet in it for SO. To me that's a gift.
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Guide
07/23/20 10:55:09 AM
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emblem boy posted...
Acts of service

Everyone seems to be getting a majority balance of touch/quality time. How's your love life?

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emblem boy
07/23/20 10:56:34 AM
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Guide posted...
emblem boy posted...
Acts of service

Everyone seems to be getting a majority balance of touch/quality time. How's your love life?


I have a gf. Her language is quality time, which is like my lowest way of showing affection... I like my alone time. So that gets difficult at times.
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Pus_N_Pecans
07/23/20 1:48:28 PM
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07/23/20 2:21:28 PM
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Lost_All_Senses
07/23/20 2:32:15 PM
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I got bored of repeating questions and spazed on the last 20 questions. Ruined it. But that was more of a test of my patience and I failed. Stop asking me the same damn question

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Herodopus
07/23/20 2:34:53 PM
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This test doesn't have answers that apply to me
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Pus_N_Pecans
07/23/20 2:34:55 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
I got bored of repeating questions and spazed on the last 20 questions. Ruined it. But that was more of a test of my patience and I failed. Stop asking me the same damn question
I don't think it's THAT long. If you got through 20 questions, you were probably just about done.

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Lost_All_Senses
07/23/20 3:47:04 PM
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Pus_N_Pecans posted...
I don't think it's THAT long. If you got through 20 questions, you were probably just about done.

I meant, 20 were about how many I randomly clicked through. I probably did like 30. I kind of got wear it was going anyway. Im not big into gifts or physical touching but I thrive off deep compliments and time spent with me.

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Austin_Era_II
07/23/20 3:48:47 PM
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Guide posted...
With my dick.


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NoMeLx22x
07/23/20 3:50:38 PM
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Not a lot. I'm terrible at it. I really don't like touching or being touched very often. It's created a small issue in our relationship unfortunately and I'm working on it but it's hard.

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Guerrilla Soldier
07/23/20 3:58:43 PM
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acts of service
followed by quality time

sounds about right

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Pus_N_Pecans
07/23/20 4:05:51 PM
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NoMeLx22x posted...
Not a lot. I'm terrible at it. I really don't like touching or being touched very often. It's created a small issue in our relationship unfortunately and I'm working on it but it's hard.
Touching isnt the only way to show affection; thats kind of what the whole idea behind people having different love languages. Communication is good though! Thats the best way to bridge those gaps in compatibility a couple might have.

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teepan95
07/23/20 4:16:23 PM
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In some ways, I'm a rather needy person >_>

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FF_Redux
07/23/20 4:29:25 PM
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What a shitty quiz. Almost every question was about getting gifts or services. Had to choose the lesser shit answer many times.

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BudDupree48
07/23/20 4:30:00 PM
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I got physical touch. I'm very affectionate and need the same warmth back. I've figured that out a while ago

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CyricZ
07/23/20 4:34:30 PM
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Pus_N_Pecans posted...
The gifts related questions in the quiz are really obvious
I feel like every question in it was real obvious.

Still, I got Quality Time #1, followed closely by Physical Touch, then Words of Affirmation.

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monkmith
07/23/20 4:38:22 PM
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does donkey punch fall under physical touch, acts of service, or receiving gifts?

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foxhound101
07/23/20 4:49:15 PM
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Quality time was my highest. Receiving gifts and physical touch were the lowest.

The gifts thing makes perfect sense since my bf and I stopped giving each other gifts. Which worked out well for both of us. No more stressing about being creative with a gift, and less random things being bought.


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NoMeLx22x
07/23/20 5:25:11 PM
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Pus_N_Pecans posted...
Touching isnt the only way to show affection; thats kind of what the whole idea behind people having different love languages. Communication is good though! Thats the best way to bridge those gaps in compatibility a couple might have.

Yeah unfortunately I don't believe these quizzes do anything, and love languages are kind of a crock of shit.

Just my opinion though and I don't judge anyone who believes in them.

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Pus_N_Pecans
07/23/20 8:05:37 PM
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CyricZ posted...
I feel like every question in it was real obvious.

Still, I got Quality Time #1, followed closely by Physical Touch, then Words of Affirmation.
True. Most probably already know which way they kind of lean anyway.

NoMeLx22x posted...
Yeah unfortunately I don't believe these quizzes do anything, and love languages are kind of a crock of shit.

Just my opinion though and I don't judge anyone who believes in them.
The quiz is just kind of fun way to talk about it though. Its entertaining seeing peoples scores. In the end, the heart always knows best.

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