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WarfireX
07/20/20 2:35:11 PM
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So, my friend has been here since March, basically because of COVID and her parents. She visited in March, this all happened, now she's been here since the unexpectedly.

She doesnt have many friends who live here. It was her birthday this weekend, so I invited her over to watch Family Guy with me.

We stayed up till 1:00 together, went to my room and cuddled/dry humped, then fell asleep.

I woke up horny as **** and tried to kiss her but she wouldn't let me. She told me I could **** off of I wanted and she would watch, so I did.

After a few minutes of that she went down on me, and she was really good so I asked if we could have sex. She just kind of nodded and laid on her back but didn't look at me.

Tried kissing her three times through it, she dodged twice, let me kiss the third time but broke off.

After, she did make out with me for a little bit, and then she left, but now I've been texting her today and zero response.

Starting to get worried she's going to pull some shady stuff and tarnish my rep on Facebook or something. She has a bf in Colorado, so I think she feels bad, but she was also pissed that he was barely texting her this week and it was her bday.

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Austin_Era_II
07/20/20 2:37:21 PM
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She was using you cause he wasn't around. Seems like she didn't really wanna do anything with you, but felt lonely.

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Tenlaar
07/20/20 2:41:32 PM
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You knew she had a boyfriend and you did that anyway, your reputation deserves to be tarnished because you did something shitty.
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RedJackson
07/20/20 2:43:11 PM
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Austin_Era_II posted...
She was using you cause he wasn't around. Seems like she didn't really wanna do anything with you, but felt lonely.

Just it is what it is TC, no need to think about it any further than that
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Austin_Era_II
07/20/20 2:44:29 PM
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Tenlaar posted...
You knew she had a boyfriend and you did that anyway, your reputation deserves to be tarnished because you did something shitty.

She went over to watch Family Guy cause he invited. When they went to his room to sleep why didn't she say she should go or sleep on the couch? Why sleep in the same bed??? The blame is on her also.

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Returning_CEmen
07/20/20 2:44:30 PM
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TC sounds like a scumbag.

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WarfireX
07/20/20 2:44:35 PM
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I didn't do anything she didn't want to do. I didn't push things the night she stayed over, but when you wake up with a girl in your bed your mind is in a different place.

I only feel a little bit bad because the night we were cuddling she said she has a "no sex" rule, but that flew out the window when she got me to finish in her mouth.

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Austin_Era_II
07/20/20 2:46:55 PM
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She had a choice and she wanted the D.

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Tenlaar
07/20/20 2:49:36 PM
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WarfireX posted...
I didn't do anything she didn't want to do. I didn't push things the night she stayed over,but when you wake up with a girl in your bed your mind is in a different place.
Do you know how absolutely awful this sounds? Do you understand why?
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Boombam99
07/20/20 2:49:51 PM
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I love how you saved the she has a bf bit for last when it pretty much explains everything that you wrote before it.
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Austin_Era_II
07/20/20 2:51:06 PM
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Stop blaming TC. She has blame also. She could have said no. Her first mistake was sleeping in the same bed. Who fucking does that???

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WarfireX
07/20/20 2:51:16 PM
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Tenlaar posted...
Do you know how absolutely awful this sounds? Do you understand why?
And yet like I described to you, I got full consent from her. To her outright telling me what was OK, then me asking her if sex was alright after she continued to escalate. You can call me whatever names you like but even the most ardent feminist will agree I did nothing wrong.

I'm hurt this girl used me, honestly.

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Cookie Bag
07/20/20 2:52:04 PM
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>She has a boyfriend already

"b-but i got consent"

wow tc sounding like a piece of shit right now, and all you care is about fucking facebook rep lmao

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WarfireX
07/20/20 2:53:20 PM
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Cookie Bag posted...
>She has a boyfriend already

"b-but i got consent"

wow tc sounding like a piece of shit right now, and all you care is about fucking facebook rep lmao
So what, her having a bf nullifies consent? Why is that? Because she's his property or something?

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Austin_Era_II
07/20/20 2:53:23 PM
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I've ghosted women in the past. Get over it. You got something either way from it. Move on bro. She wanted something sexual not a relationship from you.

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Tenlaar
07/20/20 2:53:34 PM
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WarfireX posted...
And yet like I described to you, I got full consent from her.
As you described it, it seems more likely that she felt pressured into something that she didn't want to do.
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WarfireX
07/20/20 2:54:16 PM
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Tenlaar posted...
As you described it, it seems more likely that she felt pressured into something that she didn't want to do.
She told me to **** off in front of her.

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Austin_Era_II
07/20/20 2:54:30 PM
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CEmen here will put 100% the blame on you. Who cares if she's got a bf or even married. Was she under the influence where she couldn't say no? Checkmate theists.

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Austin_Era_II
07/20/20 2:55:05 PM
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After seeing it she got hungry <_<

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DeroIin
07/20/20 2:57:08 PM
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Whos give af what CE thinks lmao. Good job hanging. Move on to the next thot

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Gobstoppers12
07/20/20 2:57:46 PM
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Imagine being the guy who enables a girl to cheat. You're not a good person, TC.

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Tryhaptaward
07/20/20 2:58:37 PM
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Who else but TC?!
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Austin_Era_II
07/20/20 2:59:10 PM
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You'll get ghosted again in the future and you may ghost someone. It can suck if you kinda have feelings for them. Move on.

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krazychao5
07/20/20 2:59:32 PM
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Gobstoppers12 posted...
Imagine being the guy who enables a girl to cheat. You're not a good person, TC.
imagine not placing blame on the cheater for their actions.

also, good job tc. you got what most guys want. bang and leave.

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voldothegr8
07/20/20 2:59:42 PM
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Give her some time, she just cheated and is probably mauling over the decision in her head.
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WarfireX
07/20/20 3:08:11 PM
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Gobstoppers12 posted...
Imagine being the guy who enables a girl to cheat. You're not a good person, TC.
So imagine being virtually any other guy that a woman approaches when she's not getting what she needs? You realize how often people cheat? How old are you that you're taking this stance? I cheated on no one.

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ChrisTaka
07/20/20 3:09:34 PM
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WarfireX posted...
She told me I could **** off of I wanted and she would watch, so I did.

wat

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Gobstoppers12
07/20/20 3:18:37 PM
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WarfireX posted...
So imagine being virtually any other guy that a woman approaches when she's not getting what she needs? You realize how often people cheat? How old are you that you're taking this stance? I cheated on no one.
Cheating is an ageless breach of trust and a stain on one's honor. The girl is obviously a horrific human being with no redeeming qualities, but you're not exactly a hero for fucking some unfortunate dude's girlfriend.

Don't be so fucking smug about it. It can happen to you, too.

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WarfireX
07/20/20 3:22:36 PM
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It has happened to me and it probably will happen again. Putting people on blast on CE, or turning a blind eye to my friend's needs is not going to change the world. Also, why wasn't this dude paying attention to her on her bday?

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Austin_Era_II
07/20/20 3:25:51 PM
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WarfireX posted...
It has happened to me and it probably will happen again. Putting people on blast on CE, or turning a blind eye to my friend's needs is not going to change the world. Also, why wasn't this dude paying attention to her on her bday?

Cause he doesn't care about her. Fuck...things are so obvious when you're in your 30s. It isn't rocket science.

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thronedfire2
07/20/20 3:25:56 PM
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lol

she's at least as at fault as TC is

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VitalGetPrank
07/20/20 3:27:50 PM
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Returning_CEmen posted...
TC sounds like a scumbag.
Sounds to me like you're jealous he got some and you didn't.

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UnholyMudcrab
07/20/20 3:29:50 PM
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Vermander
07/20/20 3:30:33 PM
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Cheating is bad and an awful thing to do, but I dont think it makes you an irredeemable evil capable of nothing of value. Many people cheat and not always for evil reasons. (Romantic feelings involved, etc.)

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Austin_Era_II
07/20/20 3:32:20 PM
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I think everyone must be in their early 20s. Gf has bf who doesn't text often. Clearly things are coming to an end. She hangs with TC and is sexually frustrated. Learn relationships.

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WarfireX
07/20/20 3:33:51 PM
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Austin_Era_II posted...
I think everyone must be in their early 20s. Gf has bf who doesn't text often. Clearly things are coming to an end. She hangs with TC and is sexually frustrated. Learn relationships.
I'm 36 years old.

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PatrickMahomes
07/20/20 3:34:12 PM
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Did you know she had a bf beforehand?

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ChrisTaka
07/20/20 3:34:37 PM
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Austin_Era_II posted...
I think everyone must be in their early 20s.

This, TC talking like they just got out of college lol

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TheGreatGeno6
07/20/20 3:34:40 PM
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Anyone who thinks this is more the TCs fault than the girl is a sheltered moron

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fhqwhgads
07/20/20 3:35:29 PM
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VitalGetPrank posted...
Sounds to me like you're jealous he got some and you didn't.
TC didn't get anything to be jealous of lmao sounds miserable.

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nfearurspecimn
07/20/20 3:36:11 PM
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Why are you crying about being "used" when you know she has a boyfriend? I think you're just hoping that it turned into a fantasy of "I don't know what to do now... should I leave my boyfriend for you??? uguu~"
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voldothegr8
07/20/20 3:36:47 PM
#42:


Gobstoppers12 posted...

Cheating is an ageless breach of trust and a stain on one's honor. The girl is obviously a horrific human being with no redeeming qualities, but you're not exactly a hero for fucking some unfortunate dude's girlfriend.

Don't be so fucking smug about it. It can happen to you, too.

You need to relax man it's only sex. She doesn't even have a ring on her finger, but even if she did calling her a horrific human being with no redeeming qualities is harsh.
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Austin_Era_II
07/20/20 3:36:50 PM
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You don't sound 36. Worried about your fucking rep on FB? If you're that worried block and delete her. The girl I ghosted 2 years ago when I was 33 didn't post anything on my wall. Besides I have wall posted disabled. If she rage texted me I would have told her to stfu.

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Jabodie
07/20/20 3:37:56 PM
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Lol that sounds like such an uncomfortable interaction. I wouldn't smash another dude's girl personally (part "morals", other part avoiding angry bf drama), but I mean she's the cheater here. And from the sounds of it TC could have been anybody lol.

It is what it is.

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WarfireX
07/20/20 3:38:07 PM
#45:


PatrickMahomes posted...
Did you know she had a bf beforehand?
Yes, there's a pic of them on her phone's home screen, and she used to post pics of them together on FB that I'd see back when I had it. She also casually mentioned him multiple times through the night.

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Austin_Era_II
07/20/20 3:39:34 PM
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Once again why did she sleep in the same bed?

People make such a big deal about cheating. Get over it. Not like anyone was married and even so both parties are at fault.

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TheGreatGeno6
07/20/20 3:39:49 PM
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voldothegr8 posted...
You need to relax man it's only sex. She doesn't even have a ring on her finger, but even if she did calling her a horrific human being with no redeeming qualities is harsh.
One ultraconservative talking sense in to another ultraconservative. Not every day you see that

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WarfireX
07/20/20 3:40:53 PM
#48:


Austin_Era_II posted...
You don't sound 36. Worried about your fucking rep on FB? If you're that worried block and delete her. The girl I ghosted 2 years ago when I was 33 didn't post anything on my wall. Besides I have wall posted disabled. If she rage texted me I would have told her to stfu.
There are a bunch of girls that I've hooked up with in the club scene here that slander my name. One of them started a rumor that I dose girls, which isn't true. Another girl told a bunch of her friends how I kicked her out of my car before driving her to the club entrance because I didn't want anyone to see her get out of my car. (We had just gotten done fooling around.)

Basically, I can't handle anymore slander to my name. There are already multiple girls who have told me they don't want to be associated with me due to FB gossip, and I deleted my page so now I have no radar.

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nfearurspecimn
07/20/20 3:41:31 PM
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Austin_Era_II posted...
Once again why did she sleep in the same bed?

People make such a big deal about cheating. Get over it. Not like anyone was married and even so both parties are at fault.

I think it's just annoying his entitlement for a woman he slept with who has a long term bf. Like get a clue lol.
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Jabodie
07/20/20 3:41:44 PM
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WarfireX posted...
Yes, there's a pic of them on her phone's home screen, and she used to post pics of them together on FB that I'd see back when I had it. She also casually mentioned him multiple times through the night.
Probably fishing for that "man, I can't believe he'd do that!" sympathy. Maybe even going for some "I'd never do that" simping.

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