Current Events > Michigan Girl had to get THERAPY after her SEXY HUSBAND transitioned to a WOMAN!

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29 y/o Inventory Manager, Taylor Vanmalsen from Michigan had spent 29,000 smackers to transition from a man to woman and insisted that her marriage had STRENGTHENED despite stating his wife however needed 8 MONTHS of THERAPY to come to terms to now being in a "lesbian" relationship!!

She has lived as a male for the majority of her life even though she secretly wanted to be a woman since a young age

27 y/o Sarah knew that her "sexy husband" wanted to live life as a woman from the start but didn't think it would ever happen..and now that it did, she had to seek therapy to deal with the anxiety before becoming the main driving force to push her to do it

Taylor spent her LIFE SAVINGS and used her credit card to pay for the surgery which included moving her eyebrow bone to look more "feminine" and had her adam's apple removed, breast augmentation and lip filler but says full gender reassignment isn't on the agenda yet..such as penis removal

They have a daughter together, Valerie, who is now 21 months as Taylor says their marriage is stronger and she no longer feels depressed and is able to give her wife her full attention

She said "I wanted to show other trans people that you can still be happily married. Trans partners may look a little different on the outside, but they are still the same but happier. I am now becoming the real Taylor, i decided to keep my birth name which i hated as a boy. Ironically people always used ot say it sounded like a girl's name. A lot of people are interested in our sex life and wonder if i had gender reassignment, but that isn't on the agenda yet. My main priority was representing as a female so i can be me. I am still trying to find my confidence when it comes to shopping and going to public toilets. I often just hold it because i don't want to get beat up by men or screamed at by women"

Sarah is a customer service trainer who went to a therapist to deal with the transition who said "I lived a pretty sheltered life and i didn't know what trans was, so when Taylor first told me, i just said 'Ok, thank you for letting me know'. I knew the only way to put an end to the depression would be transition but i wasn't able to fully come to terms with it. The therapist helped me overcome my anxiety and i also had to work on what it would be like. It's refreshing to see Taylor truly feel happy and slowly but surely gain some confidence who she really is. I fell in love with Taylor, for Taylor and it is amazing to see how much happier she is. We will be open and honest with Valerie reading kid friendly books but to us, it doesn't matter as she has 2 parents who love her, no matter what"

Sarah said a lot of people praised her for staying with Taylor and although she had thoughts of leaving, she ultimately ended up staying cause she couldn't forget the years they spent together.

Would you stay with your partner if they transitioned?

Taylor and Sarah - Before

https://i.imgur.com/84NHwEP.jpg

https://i.imgur.com/LG8T5qh.jpg

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https://i.imgur.com/0IIgB1F.jpg

Taylor and Sarah - After

https://i.imgur.com/kD7xZIS.jpg

https://i.imgur.com/mnhbyuT.jpg

https://i.imgur.com/KBBTEmR.jpg

https://i.imgur.com/yd5l6iJ.jpg

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https://i.imgur.com/UPDSrcC.jpg

https://i.imgur.com/tBVqLrz.jpg

https://i.imgur.com/ryQXHtG.jpg

https://i.imgur.com/SHUBnMt.jpg
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Oof

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It would be hard to leave her since she is making bank playing Rey in Star Wars.

Def oof

Nope

they look like twins

They look the same wtf

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My initial thought was I hope this had come up before in conversation before the marriage, child and commitment, and he didn't just throw a curveball at her this long into their relationship. It states she knew of these thoughts from the beginning, so i'd say it's fair game and she did decide to stay in the long run.

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I don't get it. what's wrong? this seems like the best outcome for everyone so far.

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In_Other_News posted...

It would be hard to leave her since she is making bank playing Rey in Star Wars.

lol
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DarkRoast posted...

They look the same wtf

DarkRoast posted...

They look the same wtf

they don't resemble each other at all.

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Solution_45 posted...

Nope

Yup. Fuck that shit.

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I think they look genuinely happy in the after pics, and I feel like that matters more than whatever else

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Who fucking cares

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It's entirely possible they're happy, but I really doubt it if it took eight months of therapy.

That's a real bad transition

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would make a crazy story if the wife left the relationship for a woman after all this lol


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PIITB415 posted...

That's a real bad transition

What is a good transition iyo?

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God dam she's beautiful.

Wow incredible story. I'm not surprised that she went to therapy but it sounds like it helped them cope.

Honestly I' am surprised she stayed with him after he made the transition. It seems like that alone could break a woman, let alone having a child together.

BTW, I'm curious as to what the man had tattooed on his right arm before it was blacked out. As a woman, he has the tattoo blacked out.

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Wii_Shaker posted...

Wow incredible story. I'm not surprised that she went to therapy but it sounds like it helped them cope.

Honestly I' am surprised she stayed with her after he made the transition. It seems like that alone could break a woman, let alone having a child together.

BTW, I'm curious as to what the woman had tattooed on his right arm before it was blacked out. As a woman, she has the tattoo blacked out.

fyp

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If she knew before hand, that's cool.

If it were me, and didn't know, I'd say thats grounds for easy divorce.