Current Events > So, my wife and I are having sex issues.

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HaVeNII7 07/03/20 10:55:42 AM #1:	I miss how sexual we used to be. She told me that when we were younger, we had sex a lot because she would even if she didnt want to. ...kind of hurt, tbh. I really hate the idea that I was probably the only one into it - and thinking she was too. Ive got a fine job. Work out multiple times a week. Overcame depression, finally finding myself happier than I ever was. Am studying for something better. But knowing that, of all things, has made feel pretty emasculated and depressed. On top of that, I dont really have any close friends to vent to. So, just venting here, I guess. Shit sucks, CE. --- PSN/Steam: HaVeNII7 <cite>HaVeNII7 posted [p:941615615] in So, my wif... [t:78821579]...</cite> <quote>I miss how sexual we used to be. She told me that when we were younger, we had sex a lot because she would even if she didnt want to. ...kind of hurt, tbh. I really hate the idea that I was probably the only one into it - and thinking she was too. Ive got a fine job. Work out multiple times a week. Overcame depression, finally finding myself happier than I ever was. Am studying for something better. But knowing that, of all things, has made feel pretty emasculated and depressed. On top of that, I dont really have any close friends to vent to. So, just venting here, I guess. Shit sucks, CE. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MFBKBass5 07/03/20 10:56:35 AM #2:	:( --- !!!!!!!!! https://imgur.com/DzJSPWA <cite>MFBKBass5 posted [p:941615640] in So, my wif... [t:78821579]...</cite> <quote>:( </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GoodOlJr 07/03/20 10:57:32 AM #3:	How often do you want it? --- http://farm4.staticflickr.com/3475/3291766630_b434e97925.jpg 3DS: 1005-8921-6109 <cite>GoodOlJr posted [p:941615668] in So, my wif... [t:78821579]...</cite> <quote>How often do you want it?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Heartomaton 07/03/20 10:58:18 AM #4:	Tag me in, bro. --- https://www.youtube.com/user/Heartomaton Ask me about the groups of people I hate! <cite>Heartomaton posted [p:941615698] in So, my wif... [t:78821579]...</cite> <quote>Tag me in, bro. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KaZooo 07/03/20 10:59:24 AM #5:	I guess even if she's not into it, she wanted to keep you happy. That's... Kinda nice. --- Competing every night, both ends, shoot inside/outside, fast break, transition, Monta Ellis have it all <cite>KaZooo posted [p:941615743] in So, my wif... [t:78821579]...</cite> <quote>I guess even if she's not into it, she wanted to keep you happy. That's... Kinda nice. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
solosnake 07/03/20 10:59:32 AM #6:	damn, hopefully you signed a prenub --- "We would have no NBA possibly if they got rid of all the flopping." ~ Dwyane Wade https://imgur.com/MYYEIx5 https://imgur.com/WGE12ef <cite>solosnake posted [p:941615750] in So, my wif... [t:78821579]...</cite> <quote>damn, hopefully you signed a prenub </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Drug_Smoker 07/03/20 11:00:28 AM #7:	Sounds like the real issue is you need a new chick that will have sex with you even if she doesn't feel like it and not tell you until she has gotten you into marriage. --- I smoke the drugs GT: xXvagina420Xx <cite>Drug_Smoker posted [p:941615791] in So, my wif... [t:78821579]...</cite> <quote>Sounds like the real issue is you need a new chick that will have sex with you even if she doesn't feel like it and not tell you until she has gotten you into marriage. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mistere Man 07/03/20 11:00:49 AM #8:	Serious answer- Ask her about things you could improve on to make it more enjoyable for her, or if there are things she would like to try as they may just be bored of the same routine. Joke answer- Buy a copy of the joy of sex. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xQ96dy93mP0 --- Water+Fall=Radiation. <cite>Mistere Man posted [p:941615801] in So, my wif... [t:78821579]...</cite> <quote>Serious answer- Ask her about things you could improve on to make it more enjoyable for her, or if there are things she would like to try as they may just be bored of the same routine. Joke answer- Buy a copy of the joy of sex. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xQ96dy93mP0 </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HaVeNII7 07/03/20 11:01:02 AM #9:	GoodOlJr posted... How often do you want it? Not crazy often. I mean Im a very physical person. But Id say probably once every 2-3 days? Maybe 3-4? --- PSN/Steam: HaVeNII7 <cite>HaVeNII7 posted [p:941615808] in So, my wif... [t:78821579]...</cite> <quote>GoodOlJr posted... </cite> <quote>How often do you want it?</quote>Not crazy often. I mean Im a very physical person. But Id say probably once every 2-3 days? Maybe 3-4? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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KiwiTerraRizing 07/03/20 11:01:58 AM #11:	Get a mistress. --- Trucking Legend Don Schneider! <cite>KiwiTerraRizing posted [p:941615845] in So, my wif... [t:78821579]...</cite> <quote>Get a mistress. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
soulunison2 07/03/20 11:02:39 AM #12:	Maybe you need a strong Indian bull like @drunkmuggle <cite>soulunison2 posted [p:941615860] in So, my wif... [t:78821579]...</cite> <quote>Maybe you need a strong Indian bull like @drunkmuggle </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HaVeNII7 07/03/20 11:04:18 AM #13:	Mistere Man posted... Serious answer- Ask her about things you could improve on to make it more enjoyable for her, or if there are things she would like to try as they may just be bored of the same routine. Joke answer- Buy a copy of the joy of sex. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xQ96dy93mP0 Well, when we do, Im always suggesting to try new things. Shes also gotten pretty vanilla over the past few years. So I dont think its her being bored. Ive definitely been trying. Ill pretty often try and do extra things for her during, too - and always try to make sure she finished before Im done myself. She says she simply doesnt have that high of a sex drive to want to do much extra than the norm. --- PSN/Steam: HaVeNII7 <cite>HaVeNII7 posted [p:941615928] in So, my wif... [t:78821579]...</cite> <quote>Mistere Man posted... </cite> <quote>Serious answer- Ask her about things you could improve on to make it more enjoyable for her, or if there are things she would like to try as they may just be bored of the same routine. Joke answer- Buy a copy of the joy of sex. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xQ96dy93mP0</quote>Well, when we do, Im always suggesting to try new things. Shes also gotten pretty vanilla over the past few years. So I dont think its her being bored. Ive definitely been trying. Ill pretty often try and do extra things for her during, too - and always try to make sure she finished before Im done myself. She says she simply doesnt have that high of a sex drive to want to do much extra than the norm. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Pus_N_Pecans 07/03/20 11:04:38 AM #14:	Mistere Man posted... Serious answer- Ask her about things you could improve on to make it more enjoyable for her, or if there are things she would like to try as they may just be bored of the same routine. Joke answer- Buy a copy of the joy of sex. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xQ96dy93mP0 This. It sounds like you might just need to talk about what the two of you value with intimacy. Theres bound to be some common ground, or some things you can work towards as a couple. --- My arts- https://www.deviantart.com/bleakcreep <cite>Pus_N_Pecans posted [p:941615939] in So, my wif... [t:78821579]...</cite> <quote>Mistere Man posted... </cite> <quote>Serious answer- Ask her about things you could improve on to make it more enjoyable for her, or if there are things she would like to try as they may just be bored of the same routine. Joke answer- Buy a copy of the joy of sex. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xQ96dy93mP0</quote>This. It sounds like you might just need to talk about what the two of you value with intimacy. Theres bound to be some common ground, or some things you can work towards as a couple. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GoodOlJr 07/03/20 11:04:57 AM #15:	HaVeNII7 posted... Not crazy often. I mean Im a very physical person. But Id say probably once every 2-3 days? Maybe 3-4? Id say thats extremely often If you've been together for like a decade and want it that often still maybe I envy you I wont act like I have answers --- http://farm4.staticflickr.com/3475/3291766630_b434e97925.jpg 3DS: 1005-8921-6109 <cite>GoodOlJr posted [p:941615953] in So, my wif... [t:78821579]...</cite> <quote>HaVeNII7 posted...</cite> <quote> Not crazy often. I mean Im a very physical person. But Id say probably once every 2-3 days? Maybe 3-4? </quote> Id say thats extremely often If you've been together for like a decade and want it that often still maybe I envy you I wont act like I have answers</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HaVeNII7 07/03/20 11:06:37 AM #16:	GoodOlJr posted... Id say thats extremely often If you've been together for like a decade and want it that often still maybe I envy you I wont act like I have answers Been about a decade since we started dating. We were in High School. 25 now, six years married. --- PSN/Steam: HaVeNII7 <cite>HaVeNII7 posted [p:941616005] in So, my wif... [t:78821579]...</cite> <quote>GoodOlJr posted... </cite> <quote>Id say thats extremely often If you've been together for like a decade and want it that often still maybe I envy you I wont act like I have answers</quote>Been about a decade since we started dating. We were in High School. 25 now, six years married. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GoodOlJr 07/03/20 11:09:27 AM #17:	Yeah im good with 2-3 times a month so I cant pretend have answers, cant change who you are --- http://farm4.staticflickr.com/3475/3291766630_b434e97925.jpg 3DS: 1005-8921-6109 <cite>GoodOlJr posted [p:941616092] in So, my wif... [t:78821579]...</cite> <quote>Yeah im good with 2-3 times a month so I cant pretend have answers, cant change who you are</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KINDERFELD 07/03/20 11:43:52 AM #18:	Tc I'm sorry to hear that you're facing this issue. Are you guys enjoying each other's company outside sexual activities? Personally, my husband and I began having more sex due to the quarantine, however, the quality has waned and I think its because we're both silently concerned about the pandemic, finances and getting back to work. It could be that your wife is a bit stressed or depressed about the reality we're currently living. Try romancing her without the expectation or intent to have sex. See how she responds to that. Maybe see needs love more than sex at this point. If all else fails, sit her down and the two of you have an honest and non-confrontational discussion about your feelings and what could be triggering these issues. As someone who has been in a relationship for 15 years and married for 7 years, I'll tell you, marriage is a lot of conscious decisions of selflessness for tbe sake of making the person you love, happy. It has to be a reciprocal situation though. Oh tc, spontaneity is incredibly effective after being with someone for a while. I wish you all the best in your marriage though and hope things get better for you both. --- the polyfilla way look strong in the weakness of the gaps <cite>KINDERFELD posted [p:941617343] in So, my wif... [t:78821579]...</cite> <quote>Tc I'm sorry to hear that you're facing this issue. Are you guys enjoying each other's company outside sexual activities? Personally, my husband and I began having more sex due to the quarantine, however, the quality has waned and I think its because we're both silently concerned about the pandemic, finances and getting back to work. It could be that your wife is a bit stressed or depressed about the reality we're currently living. Try romancing her without the expectation or intent to have sex. See how she responds to that. Maybe see needs love more than sex at this point. If all else fails, sit her down and the two of you have an honest and non-confrontational discussion about your feelings and what could be triggering these issues. As someone who has been in a relationship for 15 years and married for 7 years, I'll tell you, marriage is a lot of conscious decisions of selflessness for tbe sake of making the person you love, happy. It has to be a reciprocal situation though. Oh tc, spontaneity is incredibly effective after being with someone for a while. I wish you all the best in your marriage though and hope things get better for you both. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BigHentaiBoobie 07/03/20 11:44:50 AM #19:	Maybe she's asexual? <cite>BigHentaiBoobie posted [p:941617368] in So, my wif... [t:78821579]...</cite> <quote>Maybe she's asexual? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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