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Solid Sonic
06/30/20 4:46:18 PM
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Do some people deserve to be cheated on/cucked?

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EmbraceOfDeath
06/30/20 4:48:51 PM
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Hell no. But people need to stop putting as much blame on the third person and put it on the cheater where it belongs.

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TreyFlowers
06/30/20 4:49:32 PM
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As in a cheater or a throuple

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Dark_SilverX
06/30/20 4:49:55 PM
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It's very hot I've heard. You get to sit in the chair and watch and can only have sex if one of the others are away somewhere.

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Solid Sonic
06/30/20 4:50:00 PM
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Backing off from settled land is the responsibility of the third party. If they go for it then they're complicit.

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Pus_N_Pecans
06/30/20 4:50:34 PM
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If that's what they want, then sure.

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EmbraceOfDeath
06/30/20 4:51:36 PM
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Solid Sonic posted...
Backing off from settled land is the responsibility of the third party. If they go for it then they're complicit.
They are complicit, but they don't owe anything to the other parties. The cheater is the one breaking someone's trust.

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PMarth2002
06/30/20 4:51:50 PM
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Is it an open/poly relationship or is someone cheating in a commited monogamous relationship? I don't think relationships need to be monogamous, but if you're in one, you should respect that.

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HaVeNII7
06/30/20 4:52:07 PM
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Yeah. My wife and I were poly for a hot minute, before she (my wife) decided that poly wasnt for her. But for a few months, we had a girlfriend. It was fun. Were still both good friends with her, and she stays over fairly often.

So, no I dont think theres anything wrong with being a third. So long as youre in something healthy, with people who understand how to approach it.

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Solid Sonic
06/30/20 4:53:34 PM
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PMarth2002 posted...
Is it an open/poly relationship or are is someone cheating in a commited monogamous relationship? I don't think relationships need to be monogamous, but if you're in one, you should respect that.

Latter. Someone going around behind the back of the other with no prior understanding and getting some side action.

If the person who is receiving that side action is someone you know personally, would there be situations where you'd let it slide because the relationship that is in jeopardy already had serious issues in the first place?

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Number090684
06/30/20 4:56:59 PM
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EmbraceOfDeath posted...
Hell no. But people need to stop putting as much blame on the third person and put it on the cheater where it belongs.

Nah, if third person is willing help someone who is in a monogamous relationship cheat, from a moral standpoint they are essentially condoning and enabling the cheating and deserve fault too. And that's not even considering if the third person seduces the partner knowing they are taken and gets them to cheat, which is really fucked up.

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Number090684
06/30/20 4:58:06 PM
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PMarth2002 posted...
Is it an open/poly relationship or is someone cheating in a commited monogamous relationship? I don't think relationships need to be monogamous, but if you're in one, you should respect that.

Agreed.

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Lorenzo_2003
06/30/20 4:59:16 PM
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Cheating is terrible. Saying someone deserves it because of some issues, is just a flimsy excuse cheaters use, so they dont have to be bothered by their actions.

I support open relationships, if its what the couple agrees to.

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Number090684
06/30/20 5:00:04 PM
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Lorenzo_2003 posted...
Cheating is terrible. Saying someone deserves it because of some issues, is just a flimsy excuse cheaters use, so they dont have to be bothered by their actions.

I support open relationships, if its what the couple agrees to.

Perfect mindset to have.

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EmbraceOfDeath
06/30/20 5:00:51 PM
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Number090684 posted...
Nah, if third person is willing help someone who is in a monogamous relationship cheat, from a moral standpoint they are essentially condoning and enabling the cheating and deserve fault too. And that's not even considering if the third person seduces the partner knowing they are taken and gets them to cheat, which is really fucked up.
I'm not saying they should get no blame, but the cheater absolutely deserves the majority of blame. Seduces the partner knowing they're taken and gets them to cheat? That's complete BS. They choose whether or not to cheat, no one is forcing it.

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The23rdMagus
06/30/20 5:04:32 PM
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Not these days. But I've been in a V-poly relationship before. It's too much for me to handle, and I wind up feeling neglected for no reason.

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Number090684
06/30/20 5:06:02 PM
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EmbraceOfDeath posted...
I'm not saying they should get no blame, but the cheater absolutely deserves the majority of blame. Seduces the partner knowing they're taken and gets them to cheat? That's complete BS. They choose whether or not to cheat, no one is forcing it.

Nah, it's not complete BS. All kinds of people, good and bad can end up succumbing to temptation, and it's really fucked up when there are people out there who purposely bait and manipulate people to try and get what they want, no matter who could get hurt, or what could be damaged beyond repair. Those kinds of people are the worst and deserve to be shamed.

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