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MFBKBass5
05/08/20 11:28:45 AM
#1:


I dont have any proof. But there have been a few times where Ive heard shouting, followed by tons of slamming/noise, then crying. All of it super loud too.

It happens occasionally. Seems the guy has an anger problem or something. I feel really bad for the girl, but I dont know how I would even call the cops? Like. Im not 100% positive that its happening.

What should I do, CE?

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The Trent
05/08/20 11:29:30 AM
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fight him

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KiwiTerraRizing
05/08/20 11:30:10 AM
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Call the police

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Tired-Insomniac
05/08/20 11:30:38 AM
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Worst thing that could come of it is the cops show up and find out they're just having incredibly rough sex


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boxington
05/08/20 11:30:47 AM
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call the police.

iirc, a large percentage of calls to them are because of domestic abuse/ disturbances

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chrono625
05/08/20 11:30:49 AM
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Do you know for certain if shes being physically harmed? You could always call police but the problem is he will know you called even though its anonymous.

the moral thing is to at least call to have a welfare check. Because even if he hasnt physically harmed her chances are it will get to that point eventually

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MC_BatCommander
05/08/20 11:31:00 AM
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All you can do is call the cops, anything else risks injury to yourself or others

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MFBKBass5
05/08/20 11:32:31 AM
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chrono625 posted...
Do you know for certain if shes being physically harmed? You could always call police but the problem is he will know you called even though its anonymous.

the moral thing is to at least call to have a welfare check. Because even if he hasnt physically harmed her chances are it will get to that point eventually


Not for certain at all. But I definitely
heard audible crying for a bit once. Like. Ugly crying too.

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voldothegr8
05/08/20 11:32:54 AM
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Ignore it and move along with your life, it's none of your business
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LeadPipeCinche
05/08/20 11:44:01 AM
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He's beating her with his dick.

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MFBKBass5
05/08/20 11:45:39 AM
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voldothegr8 posted...
Ignore it and move along with your life, it's none of your business

But it is my business if I can hear someone getting beaten.

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voldothegr8
05/08/20 11:46:37 AM
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MFBKBass5 posted...


But it is my business if I can hear someone getting beaten.

You don't know what you're hearing, just assuming.
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Christian RULES
05/08/20 12:00:01 PM
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They're probably filming something.

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kingdrake2
05/08/20 12:05:28 PM
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boxington posted...
call the police.

iirc, a large percentage of calls to them are because of domestic abuse/ disturbances


domestic abuse is way up because of the stay at home order :(.
probably should do this if it happens again.
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El Mexicano Texano
05/08/20 12:11:35 PM
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Zikten
05/08/20 12:13:58 PM
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voldothegr8 posted...
Ignore it and move along with your life, it's none of your business
And how will TC feel if the boyfriend ends up killing her?
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BobanMarjanovic
05/08/20 12:17:24 PM
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Call the police department and explain th situation.

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darkprince45
05/08/20 12:18:45 PM
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Call anonymous domestic disturbance to police. Be prepared for it to possibly get worse after they leave

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TheGoldenEel
05/08/20 12:19:17 PM
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Move into a house so you dont have an upstairs neighbor anymore

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monkmith
05/08/20 12:19:18 PM
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call the police. if you think the asshole will do something in revenge, buy a guy.

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Austin_Era_II
05/08/20 12:19:51 PM
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If they both deny it cops can't do much but it's on the record. They'll probably know you called. Tough situation. If I heard my tenant's bf beating her I'd call the cops easily. I just don't give a fuck. Not like he's that type of guy, but I'd love to see him confront me.

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Pus_N_Pecans
05/08/20 12:22:38 PM
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KiwiTerraRizing posted...
Call the police
This. As someone whos lived next door to a domestic abuse situation, thats exactly what this sounds like.

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MisterPengy
05/08/20 12:24:15 PM
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Tired-Insomniac posted...
Worst thing that could come of it is the cops show up and find out they're just having incredibly rough sex

Well I think the worst thing would be if the guy assumed she called the cops, and killed her.

But you know, an awkward situation is up there, too.

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MFBKBass5
05/08/20 12:38:55 PM
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TheGoldenEel posted...
Move into a house so you dont have an upstairs neighbor anymore


Yeah actually I am moving at the end of June. Theyre too fucking loud stomping around and always yelling. First time I havent lived on a top floor. Definitely a mistake.

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MFBKBass5
05/08/20 12:39:56 PM
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I think if I hear something that intense again with crying, Ill definitely call the cops. Id rather my upstairs neighbors know that other people can at least hear them when hes smacking her around and shit.

Then again, maybe itll just make him more mad and hurt her more

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furb
05/08/20 12:43:58 PM
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you call the police dawg

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monkmith
05/08/20 12:45:21 PM
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MFBKBass5 posted...
I think if I hear something that intense again with crying, Ill definitely call the cops. Id rather my upstairs neighbors know that other people can at least hear them when hes smacking her around and shit.

Then again, maybe itll just make him more mad and hurt her more
TC, abusive relationships like that inevitably escalate, the only thing you calling the cops can do is possible stop that from happening.

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Talk2DaHand
05/08/20 12:46:25 PM
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kingdrake2 posted...
domestic abuse is way up because of the stay at home order :(.
probably should do this if it happens again.

This. Even my mellow af zen family is getting jumpy. Can't imagine broken homes right now.

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LordRazziel
05/08/20 12:46:53 PM
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KiwiTerraRizing posted...
Call the police


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Austin_Era_II
05/08/20 1:00:54 PM
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monkmith posted...
TC, abusive relationships like that inevitably escalate, the only thing you calling the cops can do is possible stop that from happening.

This. Or he keeps hurting her or worse case kills her. Either way you did your part. You are not at fault if anything happens to her. You did your best.

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voldothegr8
05/08/20 1:13:27 PM
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Zikten posted...

And how will TC feel if the boyfriend ends up killing her?

How will he feel if calling the cops triggers him to kill her?
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UnfairRepresent
05/09/20 3:49:06 PM
#33:


Call the police

Do it annoyomously if you're embarrased

Hell tell someone you trust (not CE) the details and get them to do it if you're scared.

voldothegr8 posted...


How will he feel if calling the cops triggers him to kill her?


"What if you donate blood and that blood is given in a transfusion to the next Hitler!?"

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Guerrilla Soldier
05/09/20 4:05:21 PM
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unless you have proof and/or witnessed it yourself, i don't think you should do anything just yet


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