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An_Actual_Chad
03/06/20 10:08:37 AM
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I'm asking because I might presently be actively passing up the perfect girl atm for this very reason. And I need people to either talk sense into me, or confirm that I'm doing the right thing for myself.

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Master_Happosai
03/06/20 10:13:04 AM
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Do you want kids of your own? 3 kids is a lot and she might not want anymore.

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UnfairRepresent
03/06/20 10:14:03 AM
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She needs to give those kids back to their parents
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An_Actual_Chad
03/06/20 10:15:12 AM
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Master_Happosai posted...
Do you want kids of your own?

I kind of don't want kids at all. My idea of a perfect marriage would be someone to hang out with and we retire early and travel the world together thanks to all the money we saved.

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Returning_CEmen
03/06/20 10:16:03 AM
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Pass then
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Master_Happosai
03/06/20 10:17:00 AM
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An_Actual_Chad posted...
I kind of don't want kids at all. My idea of a perfect marriage would be someone to hang out with and we retire early and travel the world together thanks to all the money we saved.
Then don't bother with her. She will likely always put her kids first.
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fire_bolt
03/06/20 10:18:01 AM
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So not even close to the perfect girl then, got it.

Aside from that you have to ask yourself a few things. Namely "Do I like money and personal happiness?" You're not gonna have much of either trying to raise 3 kids
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Harpie
03/06/20 10:19:17 AM
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How old are they?

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An_Actual_Chad
03/06/20 10:19:52 AM
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Master_Happosai posted...
Then don't bother with her. She will likely always put her kids first.
Well she definitely should.

Thing is, it's gonna be difficult as hell to find a woman who wants the same thing i do anyway. Most women want kids -- especially the ones I'm attracted to.

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Ryven
03/06/20 10:20:08 AM
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Master_Happosai posted...
Then don't bother with her. She will likely always put her kids first.

This. Don't take offense to it, but you're always going to come in 2nd place when they're in the picture.

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KillerSlaw
03/06/20 10:20:29 AM
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Does the father pay child support?

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WingsOfGood
03/06/20 10:22:17 AM
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An_Actual_Chad posted...
I'm asking because I might presently be actively passing up the perfect girl atm for this very reason. And I need people to either talk sense into me, or confirm that I'm doing the right thing for myself.

This doesn't sound like a Chad.
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An_Actual_Chad
03/06/20 10:24:23 AM
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WingsOfGood posted...
This doesn't sound like a Chad.
She's a "perfect girl, but." She's way out of most of your leagues. I have a chance because I'm a Chad.

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fire_bolt
03/06/20 10:25:57 AM
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An_Actual_Chad posted...
it's gonna be difficult as hell to find a woman who wants the same thing i do anyway


This is patently untrue. Stop trying to date women in or below their mid 20's and start looking for ones in their late 20's to early 30's who don't have kids. Most of them don't have kids because they don't want kids
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