Current Events > Starting to relapse about one of my exes. Help.

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BigMeatyClaws
02/15/20 12:30:46 PM
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Broke up 2 years ago and have since gone on to date other people. We are not in contact. A few weeks ago, I broke up with a girl that I was dating the last 6 months, and all the old feelings that I thought had long left from my first ex are coming back. I have no interest in reaching out, but I'm curious to see what she's up to. I've had the craziest urge to look her up on social media the last few days and I know this is a big no no no. I went on a really bad date last night and the feeling has never been stronger to look up my first ex. I know I shouldn't but the curiousity is killing me. I'm really trying to avoid this. I made a topic about this last week when my curiosity first started but I thought it was just a natural thing that would go away.

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CommunismFTW
02/15/20 12:36:34 PM
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Don't do it man. Stay blocked, stay focused, move forward. She's holding you back from these future relationships and if you see her happy in the arms of another person you'll freak the hell out.

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Turbam
02/15/20 12:37:45 PM
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Jack off

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HBOSS
02/15/20 12:37:57 PM
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best distraction is dating another girl so you can focus on that relationship.

we always remember the good parts of what we left behind. remember that we leave them behind for a reason.

if the feelings still reside from the 1st girl, you need to organize yourself and find closure from her. otherwise, your future relationships will not be fulfilling. youre still hung up on ex-One. go make new and better memories with other girls. leave the past and focus on what you can do now.

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BigMeatyClaws
02/15/20 12:43:33 PM
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CommunismFTW posted...
Don't do it man. Stay blocked, stay focused, move forward. She's holding you back from these future relationships and if you see her happy in the arms of another person you'll freak the hell out.
I've already seen her in the arms of another man on social media. She got with someone about a year after we broke up. I was naturally hurt but knew that it would happen eventually. I also got a partner(not mentioned in the OP) around the same time and decided it was against my best interests to keep looking her up on social media so I haven't haven't looked her up in 8 months. I want to keep that streak going but my curiosity is at an all-time high.

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BigMeatyClaws
02/15/20 7:28:57 PM
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HBOSS posted...
best distraction is dating another girl so you can focus on that relationship.

we always remember the good parts of what we left behind. remember that we leave them behind for a reason.

if the feelings still reside from the 1st girl, you need to organize yourself and find closure from her. otherwise, your future relationships will not be fulfilling. youre still hung up on ex-One. go make new and better memories with other girls. leave the past and focus on what you can do now.
I want and do make memories with new girls. I usually don't think of this ex much after breaking up with them. I don't know what's going on this time but it won't stop bothering me.

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im not 13
02/15/20 7:32:13 PM
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She's probably got an extra vainy BBC in her mouth right now choaking her and she's loving every second of it

Move on tc. I'm sure she has

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im not 13
02/15/20 7:32:57 PM
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HBOSS posted...
best distraction is dating another girl so you can focus on that relationship.

Also this is shit tier advice. Don't do this

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BigMeatyClaws
02/15/20 9:55:39 PM
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im not 13 posted...
She's probably got an extra vainy BBC in her mouth right now choaking her and she's loving every second of it

Move on tc. I'm sure she has
LOL

im not 13 posted...
Also this is shit tier advice. Don't do this
forcing dating after a breakup is one of the worst things you can do. You do it when it feels right.

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Umbreon
02/15/20 9:58:45 PM
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She is your ex for a reason.

There's no benefit in knowing how she's doing.

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BigMeatyClaws
02/17/20 11:00:08 PM
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Im pretty drunk right now. Probably gonna fail you bros, sorry. About to check out her page. Will prob regret in the morning

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Big_Nabendu
02/17/20 11:21:29 PM
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Don't do it man!

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Taharqa_
02/17/20 11:25:43 PM
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After 2 years? Don't do it man.

After that amount of time she has obviously moved on, you should too.


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DrizztLink
02/17/20 11:27:04 PM
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TheoryzC
02/17/20 11:48:59 PM
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Turbam posted...
Jack off
This

Not even joking

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BigMeatyClaws
02/18/20 2:20:56 AM
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Im still up and drunk. I didnt look. Dont feel proud of not looking either

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im not 13
02/18/20 2:24:14 AM
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BigMeatyClaws
02/18/20 2:28:24 AM
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im not 13 posted...
Good on you
Yes I instead went out like a drunk and bar hopped a bunch of different bars trying to get my dick wet

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